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I enjoy watching tv series on DVD. Ones I have enjoyed are "Soprano's", "Sex & the City", "Star Trek TNG", & "Dawson's Creek". Can anyone recommend a new series for me to watch with a continuing story line; not a comedy like "Sienfeld."
Gilmore Girls. I think that is a GREAT TV SHOW! It comes on the WB Tuesdays @ 8:00 est. And One Tree Hill..which comes on right after it! There are reruns on Gilmore GIrls right now because the new season is comin up! Same with One Tree Hill!
WATCH THOSE SHOWS!
well im going out with this guy my 2 friends dont like....but i really like him and they want me 2 dump him but i really dont want to....but i dont wanna lose muh friends but i dont wanna lose muh boy....what should i do
Talk with your friends. Ask them why dont like your guy friend. If they say something like he's a bad person, and things like that nature. Then reassure them that he is a good person, and if something happens then its going to be on you. But since they are your friends they have to just be there and support you if you make mistakes..thats what a friend is there for. I dont think your gonna lose your friends babe! If they are true friends then they will be there for you reguardless!
Ok so I have this group of friends that I love with all my
If Beth is your friend..just explain to her how much you like Mark, and even though she likes getting attention from him..could she tone it down a little to give you a chance.
But come to think of it. Maybe you should move on..becuase maybe he's gearing his attention to her because he doesn't want it from you..but just not telling you. So all I can say is talk to both of them and find out whats going on
The guy i like never talks to me and he said he likes me. Last year V-day he gave my a care bear and he still likes my really good friend. And now i think i ishould give him back the care bear, he only gave it to me because of cameron made him and i told him he shouldn't give me a care bear. what should i do?
Why is he telling you that he likes you, but you say that he really likes you? I do think that you should give him back the care bear! Dont let him pimp you!
i have these 2 friends and they are like 2 of my best friends..they are twins too.But like they have other friends that they chill with but they never have chilled with me, & we are always there for eachother and they always say bf4l sfl and i sorta believe the bf4l part but not the sfl, it just rlly pisses me off how they dont chill with me, how should i handle this? what should i say to them?
Why do it make you so upset that they have other friends other then you? Either talk to them and incorporate them into your group of friends by talking to them and getteing to know them...or finding some new friends to hang with
BTW...what does SFL mean?
Okay my boyfriend is SO pissed off at me. He got so mad at me and he said he wasnt mad anymore but then he was lyk "FUCK U!" n hung up on me =(...what should i do? Im NOT gonna dump him because thats stupid...i love him and i wanna make this work. What should i do to make it up to him? IM me on oOPassion kissez if you need the full story. Thanks..
Try talking to him again. Tell him to be honest with you and tell the real reasons why he still seems to be mad at you. Obviously he wasn't over whatever happened..so you need to find out what that was..and go from there.
Good Luck!
okay i had this friend and she gave me ur barbell to use and now that we are not friends she wants it back..but the thing is i told her i would give it back thursday before break and she never showed well now she is saying all this shit like o0o0 im getting pissed because your not goin to give me my barbell well...i kind of thru it away well ne wayz she said she was goin to kick my ass i really dont care but i just want her to go away and stop buggin me...she is a freshman she cant do ne thing i mean im a junior...what the hell...so what should i do??? PLZ HELP
if she gave you something, and something happened to it while it was in your possesion..then you are responsible for it. Just tell her your gonna pay her back for it. Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot..wouldn't you be mad if she didn't return your stuff?
Okay i have this friend and her name is andrea. we are like best friends but now i dont think so...we tell each other everything but she never sits by me at school. she is having a great time with her other friends and she tells me all there jokes...she never really talks to me anymore. she told me i cant be in there lil group anymore! so are we still best friends or not? or should i stop being her friend? HELP please!
shes telling you that you cant hang out with her and her friends.does that sound like a best friend?..I wouldn't say stop being her friend..just ask her why she hasn't been around you as much. You should be able to go from there
Good Luck!
i went with this kid and i broke up with him cuz it wasnt working but now he got a new g.f. and im so sad i dunno wut to do i wunt him back..help wu should i say to him wut should i do?
Try to find someone else babe! If it wasn't working then, then its not going to work now. Find you a new man... I bet it will make you feel better :)
this is going to be long
I have a huge problem...
I just moved to this part of town about 6 months ago and im very talkative, outgoing and all that stuff, and I have plenty of friends already. But something is missing. A love life. There arent to many bi or lesbian girls for me to hang with. But heres the problem. I have found this terrific, wonderful, sweet, "innocent", caring girl....but she says shes not gay. As a matter of fact, her boyfriend is a good friend of mine. He is one of the ones that introduced me to a lot of people that I know. But when me and her are together, I just feel this connection between us. Like we just totally click. I feel like I have known her for years! I can't even explain the feeling that I get when were together. Now she knows that I want to be more then just her friend. But now I find myself at this point because a few days ago she told me that NOTHNG will ever happen between us, and she's going to make sure of it because shes going to cut off all ties with me. One question I have is..why does she have to stay away from me. I mean, if she knows that she is 100% straight..then why does she have to saty away from me. I told her I was cool with just being friends..but she told me that it she just "had to make sure nothing would happen" I just need to understand her point of view on this...could you help me out?
this is a tough question. First off...maybe it was just a drunken kiss...or maybe it could have been somthing more..you never know. She could have wanted something to happen, but in the back of her mind she knew it was something that she couldn't do. Like you said..she has a boyfriend. Maybe she didn't want to jeopardise this for a sure thing. Being with you in any type of emotional way...could pose a HUGE threat to her current relationship. Maybe she thought that just staying away from you completely was the best thing. She might change her mind..or she might not. just let her have her space...she needs it!
Hope I helped!
my hair is REALLY wavy and frizzy and cruly to a point were it looks horrible when i let it dry or blow dry it. so i bought a chi iron- if you dont know what that is it's supposedly "the best" stragitener- but when i straighten my hair with it after about ten minutes it starts looking bad! i've had it for about 2 years- so is it just dying? but it happened when i first used it 2! am i just not doing it right or should i use hair spray and how much hair spray? does anyone also know any other syle besides scruncing that might look good w/ my kind of hair? help is really appreciated! thanx!
Mariah Carey (the singer) use to have your same problem. Try a perm (cold wave)
ok see like my moms going out with this guy..hes kool and all just stupid stuff that really annoys me about him..like the fact that everytime i do somthing wrong he wont come n tell me he tells my mom n she overreacts about it..for example the time i left my straightener on on the bed..he want and told my mom about it but he wouldn't come n tell me..so i get in over trouble cuz my mom thinks its a BIG deal when its really not ..and like he nags my mom all the time about how i dont know how to cook, clean, do laundry, chores, fold clothes, make the bed good..etc and then i get bitched at for not knowing how to do it and its not my fault..anyways people say i should tell him how i feel but i dont want to hurt their relationship and i dont want him to be mad at me.. i dont know id feel bad :/ well wut should i do?
If you say he's cool...then tell him that..but he's going to have to lay off before he gets on your bad side! Tell him when you do something wrong..to tell you..not run behind your back tellin your mom. Talk to him! Maybe he just doesn'tknow how to approach you about it, and feels more comfortable letter your mom handle it. IDK..talk to him :)
I have this boyfriend, he's 17 and I'm 14. My boyfriend's home situation and law situation aren't too good. He has outworn his welcome at my house because of my dad. My dad has tried to convince both of us to break up with eachother. How do I tell my father that I'm being responsible and love my boyfriend and age doesn't matter? Or is he right?
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in need of help.
If this boyfriend of yours is up to no good..has a problem with authority, gettin into trouble all the time..chances are..hes not good enough for you! You probably dont see it because you like him. But your dad is just lookin out for you. Thats what he's there for! Listen to your dad hun! give up the boy. You'll thank your dad in the long run...trust me :)
ok theres this one kid i have known for about 3 months and i think he is really cool and i have liked him for awhile... well my best friend has only known him for a month and went out with him... and like i really liked him the whole time but wanted her happy but she broke up with him bc she didnt like him all that much and now me n him want to get together but iono what she will say... should i talk to her bout it or just tell her i like him n i am prolly gonna hook up with him? some one plz help me
Thanks so much Love alwayz
Lost and Confused
yes..I say talk to your friend! How would you feel if she turned around and went out with your ex! I know I would be real upset!! Explain to her hat you have liked him for awhile now, and you know that she broke up with him because of whatever..but you would really like to get to know him. then you know..ask her if it would make her feel weird and stuff like that. She might not even care if you went out with him! You just gotta talk with her hun!
Best of luck!!!
I really really really hate my moms boyfriend and everyone thinks he's so nice and that im crazy but im not. It's hard to explain but what should I do! Im thinking of moving with my dad is that the right choice? I've talked to my mom but its like she wont listen she always tells me to be open minded but shes the one who need to know that I cry every night and I'm really hurt inside because I dont like him. please help!
If your hate is this strong towards him..then yeah, maybe you should move out. Even if its just to stress the point to your mom. She probably thinks that you just have to "get to know him" and stuff like that. Move out and let her know what your all about!
Best Of Luck
I want to have sex with my boyfriend but he doesn't even live in my state and i love him but im only 16 and idk if he'll cheat on me if i dont have sex with him im worried he'll cheat but i love him withall my heart and i think im ready i just dont wanna get pregnant or stds...help.
If your scared that your boyfriend is going to cheat on you...then I dont think you should have sex with him. Obviously something in you doesn't trust him..and you should listen to that! Dont rush into this..take your time!
I've been with my boyfriend for a year and were totally in love. Of course we've had our problems and now we're doing great. The problem is I don't see him alot because we don't exactly live close to eachother. My best guy friend and I have been hanging out alot and we started to get strong feelings for eachother. Now, he wants me to dump my boyfriend and I can't even think about doing that. My boyfriend has been my life for a whole year but I can't help feeling for my guy friend. What should I do?
Stay with your boyfriend. Dont let your emotions get in the way of something great that you have going on. THat happened to me awhile back..and it got to the point where i couldn't trust myself around him so I had to tell him that I couldn't be friends with him anymore. It sucks..but me and my BF are still together..and I have my other friend back as well, and I dont feel the same way about him any more. The choice is yours!
Best of luck!
Okay, so I like this guy, and he and I are really good friends and he always asks me for help with this girl that he's with, and he's always saying how he wishes he could have a girl like me. Now, I'm single and I've made it clear to him that I like him, and he knows it. But here's the catch, I'm Jewish and he's VERY Christian and he doesn't date anyone who's not Christian. What should I do? I respect his wishes and all, but we're only in highschool and nothing's gonna live on till forever...
If he really likes you then he will come around eventually. If not then just respect the fact that he doesn't date outside of his religion. His loss! It just wasn't meant to be
do you think its better to fit in and go agianst yur own beliefs OR to be a little ""less popular"" and do what you want to do? i am stuck in between.
Be yourself. ALWAYS. Dont let other people twist you up into something your not
*always be an original..its always worth more then a copy* Keep that in mind :)
i am having such problems with my mom lately. we usually get along really well, but lately it feels like she doesn't listen to anything i say. i know this sounds really really cliche, but she doesn't understand me like she used to. i worry a lot, and i know she can't understand that feeling, but i wish she would try. instead she just talks to me like a 3 year old, which just gets me more worked up. she doesn't know how to make me feel better anymore- shes my mom, she knows everything about my personality- you'd think she know what gets me so upset. i really don't know what to do.
AHHHHH I hate that! Ithink everyone our age is going through this! We're growing up and have our problesm..and they are adults..with their own set of problems. This is just life babe! I dont know what to tell you cuz im sure you tried talkin to her already. ALl I can say is when you see shes in a bad mood or somethin..steer clear..so she cant take it out of you!