Okay i have this friend and her name is andrea. we are like best friends but now i dont think so...we tell each other everything but she never sits by me at school. she is having a great time with her other friends and she tells me all there jokes...she never really talks to me anymore. she told me i cant be in there lil group anymore! so are we still best friends or not? or should i stop being her friend? HELP please!
Karen answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 3:17 pm: She is definitely not being a friend towards you. You should talk to her and tell her how you feel so she can know know. If she told you that you can't be in this little "group", then she definitely is not a true friend who is really mean. Don't be her friend, you don't deserve this but you should still talk to her! Hope I helped :)
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jazzqueen094 answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 2:35 pm: I have the same problem. Me nad my best friend have been bff's forever. And will now we aren't in the same class and she never talks to me. LIke my aunt said if someone does that to u then she isn't you best friend. Find someone new. Like someone who would talk to you and you have a lot in common. Good Luck!! [ jazzqueen094's advice column | Ask jazzqueen094 A Question ]
MCalways answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 1:29 pm: shes telling you that you cant hang out with her and her friends.does that sound like a best friend?..I wouldn't say stop being her friend..just ask her why she hasn't been around you as much. You should be able to go from there
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fire_hazzard answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 1:29 pm: NOT.
that simple.
She's in a click that she doesn't feel like she has enough of an influance over to get you in? Yeah... a "best friend" is like a right arm... you don't leave it behind. If they can accept her, they can accept both of you. and if they can't then she has no buisness hanging out with people who can't play nice with her "best friend."
BeFABULOUSxo answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 1:28 pm: I know it's probably not what you want to hear, but she is not a true friend. You should not befriend her quite yet. Sit her down and talk to her. Tell her exactly whats bugging you. Or you could try and become friends with the other girls that she is friends with. Hope i helped! *feedback is greatly appreciated! Love Always, Ali [ BeFABULOUSxo's advice column | Ask BeFABULOUSxo A Question ]
peaches_n_cream552 answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 12:54 pm: thats something you should ask her. Next time you see or talk to her ask her be like: hey andrea look(tell her how you feel)and ask her are we still best friends or not? me and my best friend tend to seperate once in a while and we talk and after that were are inseperateable. hope i helped. [ peaches_n_cream552's advice column | Ask peaches_n_cream552 A Question ]
icy answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 12:53 pm: She deffinetly does not sound like a best friend. Since she has her little "clique", if I were you, I wouldn't hang out with her. She sounds very stuck up and mean and I bet you deserve better. You should find some new friends who don't shun you like she does. Even though you tell eachother everything, you can tell everything to the guy that sits across from you in math, that doesn't mean he's your best friend. There are plenty of nice people at your school I bet who would love to have you as a friend. Andrea is obviously not nice otherwise she would let you join her little group. Good luck hun and if you ever need any more advice, feel free to ask me a question directly at my column. iCY iS ALWAYS LiSTENiNG <333 [ icy's advice column | Ask icy A Question ]
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