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i went with this kid
i went with this kid and i broke up with him cuz it wasnt working but now he got a new g.f. and im so sad i dunno wut to do i wunt him back..help wu should i say to him wut should i do?
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uhm, hun not to be a bitch, but you dont and shouldnt do anything, i mean u gave him up, now hes happy with his girl..leave him alone but still be freinds
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You might not want to hear this but you should try and move on. From what you've said, it seems like he's moved on. I know from past experiences that it's extremely hard but you'll need to do it. You should try and forget about him and start looking at your other options.Hope i helped! *feedback is greatly appreciated! Love Always, Ali
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First of all, make sure you really want him back. Sometimes seeing an ex with a new love can make you have the impulse to want him back. My advice is to make sure these feelings are real and not triggered by the fact that he has moved on. Talk to him about it and ask him if he would ever consider getting back with you but only do this if you think this is all real. Make sure you don't give him anything or do anything just to win him back because there's a reason it wasn't working out before. Don't try to push something to happen that really can't. Good luck and hopefully if it doesn't work out with him, there will be someone else. If you ever need any other advice, feel free to ask me a question directly at my column because iCY iS ALWAYS LiSTENiNG <3
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Well, for starters- you can tell how young you are by the way you type. Normaly I wouldn't respond to people who purposefully spell "want" and "what" using the letter "u," but I digress.
The first thing you need to do is assess your emotions and determine whether you want to be his girlfriend or whether you just don't want him to have annother girlfriend.
I think there's a good chance it's actually the later. There have been a handfull of ladies I have dated- Two of these relationships were more than a year long, and I remain close frineds with both of these women today. And even though they were the ones who ended our relationship, they BOTH tell me it drives them crazy to see me dating someone new.
Neither of them really want me back, and they want me to be happy - they just don't like being replaced.
There's a good chance you are experiancing this same thing for the first time. Just remember, turnabout is fair play. It will scrable his brains just as hard to see you getting friendly with annother boy as it did to you when you found out about him... It may not be nice to do that to him, but it may make you feel beter ;^)
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Try to find someone else babe! If it wasn't working then, then its not going to work now. Find you a new man... I bet it will make you feel better :)
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