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cheat ok look i liked this one kid 4 a long time and i did shit with him and stuff.. now i got a boyfriend nd he caled me yesterday and asked me to chill.. and ofcorse i like my b.f. but this boy will always b #1 to me and im goin to c him today or wut should i do i mean everytime i get into a relationship i cant take it is it cuz mayb i wont b able to let dat kid go until we finally go all the way? i dunno wut to do i cant live like this i need sum advice plez help me
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shaina
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First, don't abbreviate so much of your posts, It's like it was written in a chat room by a 14-year-old.
Secondly, I could write a thesis on cheating, but let me some it up like this. It sucks.
The guilt sucks, the hurt feelings suck, finding out you've been cheated on sucks- the only good moment is WHEN it happens, and that isn't because it's deep and meaningfull, but becuase it's dangerous and exciting.
Like doing motorcycle stunts... great fun till you crash and burn.
You're old enough to walk your own path - you knew the differance between right and wrong before you made your post asking for advice... all you wanted was a push in the right direction (or maybe a push in the wrong) Just be prepared to accept whatever consequences you earn through your actions. ]
You need to choose which one you like more. If it is your exboyfriend, you need to be honest to your current boyfriend and break up with him so things dont get worse. I know it's very hard and I've had to do it before. Just calmly explain to him that you have stronger feelings for someone else. If you know you still like your ex, its only fair to the both of you that it ends. Im sorry if its not what you want to hear but its the truth. Hope i helped! *feedback is greatly appreciated! Love Always, Ali ]
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