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My friend and my feelings for him
Ok so I have this group of friends that I love with all my <3 and its me, 2 girls (lets call them Sammy and Beth) and 2 guys ( their names will be Bob,and Mark) ok so Bob and Sammy started going out and all the do is hang all over each other. Then I started liking Mark and I told him I did bc I thought he liked me too (bc he was acting like it) and well after I told him he started acting different and not talking to me, and acting like he likes Beth now. Well Beth likes getting attention so she likes it how shes getting it from Mark, but what bothers me is when Im with them I feel like Im the 5th wheel. What can I do to not feel this way?
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Hmmm...first of all why don't you talk to Beth about how you're feeling. Maybe as your friends she'll understand and back down, or even talk to Mark herself. Also, why not plan a girls night out so that you don't have to worry about Sammy and Bob being all over each other, or Mark hitting on Sam.
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if you dont wanna feel like a 5th wheel any more you can always bring along another friend and as for "mark" acting like he liked you mabey he didnt relize he was flirting and doesnt want your feelings getting hurt or he likes you and he doesnt know how to say it or is scared and mabey as for beth mabey he really does like her but either way if they end up going out be happy for them because your friends are always ganna be there for you and try to find some one new and next time just talk to him first and start up a conversation
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wow that must be tough! all i can tell you is that you need to hook on more i guess what i am trying to say is don't let them do that to you maybe ask you girl friend not the boys to go to a movie and have a good time and then when you all are with the boys bring up the fun times you had together. and maybe telling the boy you like wasn't a great idea you need to know for a fact before you tell a guy. he probely is acting like he likes the other girl now because he just wants a nice girl thats a friend and no farther maybe take him aside and tell him sorry want to be just friends or something like that
i hope my advice is rated a 5 on your scale and works!
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If Beth is your friend..just explain to her how much you like Mark, and even though she likes getting attention from him..could she tone it down a little to give you a chance.
But come to think of it. Maybe you should move on..becuase maybe he's gearing his attention to her because he doesn't want it from you..but just not telling you. So all I can say is talk to both of them and find out whats going on
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