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Boyfriend is mad at me
Okay my boyfriend is SO pissed off at me. He got so mad at me and he said he wasnt mad anymore but then he was lyk "FUCK U!" n hung up on me =(...what should i do? Im NOT gonna dump him because thats stupid...i love him and i wanna make this work. What should i do to make it up to him? IM me on oOPassion kissez if you need the full story. Thanks..
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He really shouldn't have said that to you, that's disrespectful. He's gonna have to be put in the doghouse for a while for that one. If my boyfriend ever said that to me, I would make him feel sooo completely sorry about it. And he should NEVER hang up on you. That is immature and disrespectful. It's good that you don't want to break up with him, but have a serious, long talk about it, and explain to him that he should express his anger towards you like that. He should understand, but explain that you are beyond furious with him for saying and doing what he did. I hope I helped. -Angel
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give your bf some time, whenever i feel theres a slightest tension between me and my bf on the phone or anything, i just let it go and give him time until hes all better and not mad anymore, dont call him, he'll probably get even madder at that and would be annoyed (trust me ive learned) and let him call you back until hes not mad anymore, that should work, hopefully hes not THAT mad at you! x0
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Everyone is saying talk to him talk to him... I say give it a few hours AT LEAST to cool down and let off steam... then when you talk to him again. Be understanding... and if it makes sense, be appologetic.
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honestly, if he continues to be a butthead, dump him. i know you dont want to, and you think you love him, so try and find a way to make it work. but it might not work...or not the way you planned. verbal abuse (yer stupid, idiot, ugly...anything offensive) and/or extreme jerkiness are all signs of abuse. So, be careful. A large precent of teen and women deaths are because of abuse from their bfs/gfs. My advice is to talk to him about. Dont straight up tell him he's being a jerk, that will only make him angrier. Some people over-react, so calmly and subtly ask him if anythings wrong or if hes been stressed. Be as comforting as you can. If he EVER ever lays a hand on you (violent way...or sexual way, if your not ready) say goodbye immediatly, and ugh, i sound like an adult but, tell a trusted adult. Its really good advice. (everyone uses it) If your not happy with him, he's a waste of time. I am not trying to turn you against your boyfriend or anything though, he amy just be having a hard time. So you need to talk about things first. But, please keep an open mind to all possibilities. I dont want anyone getting hurt. xo.
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What did you do that made him so pissed of at you? Try talking to him again and try to fix what you did. Be honest with him and ask him what you did to him and why he's pissed off at you. Invite him over and just talk to him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Try talking to him again. Tell him to be honest with you and tell the real reasons why he still seems to be mad at you. Obviously he wasn't over whatever happened..so you need to find out what that was..and go from there.
Good Luck!
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