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best guy friend vs. boyfriend
I've been with my boyfriend for a year and were totally in love. Of course we've had our problems and now we're doing great. The problem is I don't see him alot because we don't exactly live close to eachother. My best guy friend and I have been hanging out alot and we started to get strong feelings for eachother. Now, he wants me to dump my boyfriend and I can't even think about doing that. My boyfriend has been my life for a whole year but I can't help feeling for my guy friend. What should I do?
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Want the Boyfriend-- tell your guy friend that you are sorry but 'i have a boyfriend maybe another time when i don't have 1'
Want the Guy friend-- tell your boyfriend that sence you guys don't see eachother you can't dream and see what eachother looks like and can't tell what each other is doing
Not sure -- if you have more fun and you think it will work out better go with ur guy friend but if you still have big feeling for your boyfriend and he has big feelings for you then stay becasue soon when your out of high school you might chose not to go to college and do soemthing else
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I've been put into that same situation before. I think you should stay with your boyfriend and let your best guy friend be your best guy friend. After all, you've been with your bf for a year...why would you all of the sudden throw that away? The feelings you and your guy friend are having are most likely lust...but you have love with your bf. I don't get to see my boyfriend all that much, but we dont let that define our relationship. Sometimes distance might be good...like they say, distance makes the heart grow fonder. So if I were in your shoes, I'd stay with the guy you love! Hope I helped,
JyNxiE
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Well, everyone knows that you can't go out with two guys unless they don't care. Either that, or you will be considered a slut. Take it from me! I've ben through this. I personally think that you should break up with your current boyfriend because your guy friend will treat you better, especially if you have known him longer. Tell your boyfriend kindly but not too kind. Say you wanna be friends and you can have both!
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i think you should stay with your boyfriend i was in the same kinda thing once but i stayed with my boyfriend and i couldent be more happy
-*Tori
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well you can choose whoever you want to be with, but if it was up to me, i would say stay with your boyfriend, you guys have been together for a year now, and you leaving him for someother guy who your always with will kill him, i know you guys live further away but that doesn't really change anything, you guys really like eachother and love eachother. dont let this boy go to your head, choose well x0
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Stay with your boyfriend. Dont let your emotions get in the way of something great that you have going on. THat happened to me awhile back..and it got to the point where i couldn't trust myself around him so I had to tell him that I couldn't be friends with him anymore. It sucks..but me and my BF are still together..and I have my other friend back as well, and I dont feel the same way about him any more. The choice is yours!
Best of luck!
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who do you think you will last longer with and have a better relationship with? theres your answer!
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