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i had this friend


Question Posted Tuesday January 4 2005, 11:42 am

okay i had this friend and she gave me ur barbell to use and now that we are not friends she wants it back..but the thing is i told her i would give it back thursday before break and she never showed well now she is saying all this shit like o0o0 im getting pissed because your not goin to give me my barbell well...i kind of thru it away well ne wayz she said she was goin to kick my ass i really dont care but i just want her to go away and stop buggin me...she is a freshman she cant do ne thing i mean im a junior...what the hell...so what should i do??? PLZ HELP

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Shane_Yoho answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 5:14 pm:
don't fight its not right and just give her the fucking barbell.

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Jeanettessn answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 4:06 pm:
Instead of looking to further this fight- you should consider replacing the barbell. You do not have to be friends anymore but you should respect other people's property. You can bury the hachet then and just agree to disagree. It is much better for the both of you if you just don't speak unless one of you is interested in renewing the friendship.

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Pain_Is_Love_101004 answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 2:07 pm:
chelcie I cant believe that you threw it out.LoL!!!Didnt she say that she wants to beat u up! Well she wont! so yeah lylas sami

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MCalways answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 1:40 pm:
if she gave you something, and something happened to it while it was in your possesion..then you are responsible for it. Just tell her your gonna pay her back for it. Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot..wouldn't you be mad if she didn't return your stuff?

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dreamingkat answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 11:58 am:
It doesn't matter if she is or ever was your friend or not. You borrowed something from her, and if you can't return the item, you need to replace it. Fortunately, a barbell is unlikely to have sentimental value and likely to be easy to replace.

Social status has nothing to do with this, it's a matter of personal integrity (being a good person).

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Spark120 answered Tuesday January 4 2005, 11:57 am:
if you dont like her just tell you thru it away and you dont care anymore! she'll give up.
Hope i helped! =D

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