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what should I do
this is going to be long
I have a huge problem...
I just moved to this part of town about 6 months ago and im very talkative, outgoing and all that stuff, and I have plenty of friends already. But something is missing. A love life. There arent to many bi or lesbian girls for me to hang with. But heres the problem. I have found this terrific, wonderful, sweet, "innocent", caring girl....but she says shes not gay. As a matter of fact, her boyfriend is a good friend of mine. He is one of the ones that introduced me to a lot of people that I know. But when me and her are together, I just feel this connection between us. Like we just totally click. I feel like I have known her for years! I can't even explain the feeling that I get when were together. Now she knows that I want to be more then just her friend. But now I find myself at this point because a few days ago she told me that NOTHNG will ever happen between us, and she's going to make sure of it because shes going to cut off all ties with me. One question I have is..why does she have to stay away from me. I mean, if she knows that she is 100% straight..then why does she have to saty away from me. I told her I was cool with just being friends..but she told me that it she just "had to make sure nothing would happen" I just need to understand her point of view on this...could you help me out?
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this is a tough question. First off...maybe it was just a drunken kiss...or maybe it could have been somthing more..you never know. She could have wanted something to happen, but in the back of her mind she knew it was something that she couldn't do. Like you said..she has a boyfriend. Maybe she didn't want to jeopardise this for a sure thing. Being with you in any type of emotional way...could pose a HUGE threat to her current relationship. Maybe she thought that just staying away from you completely was the best thing. She might change her mind..or she might not. just let her have her space...she needs it!
Hope I helped!
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