Hey, i'm 13 years old. When i wake up...my breasts hurt......is this normal for me? i read somewhere that maybe it's cuz i'm gettin ready to start my period, which i am.....but still...i need advice or whatever...from a girl plez tho......ASAP
Yeah I'm sure its the period... mine always seem to hurt around that time... Or they might just be a little sore because maybe in pe class you were doing some kind of exercise that worked those muscles in there... Or.. they might just be growing. but its normal!
-holly-
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Hi,I popped this pimple i had and it's by my nose..well it turned into this scab and i had it b4 and it went away..the problem is im going to this party tonight and im supposed to meet this guy that likes me and i've never seen him b4 and he is supposingly hott...it's about 4:21 right now and the party is @ 6:00 if u have any ideas/advice i would appreciate it ASAP!! THnx!
i'd say pick the scab and like dont let it bleed and ice it so the swelling will go down.
-holly-
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Ron just asked me to go to the movies with him and his friend, Alex. Im bringin my friend Cayla too, so its like a double date. But Cayla doesnt like Alex and I think she's a little jealous of me and Ron. SOo0 should I say anythin to her or just wait n see if she likes Alex ?
be like ok cayla since ya dont wanna go can i just invite someone else. easy as cake. if shes got a problem then she can get over it.. Just go have your fun with ron.
-holly-
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Ok, I'm 14 and I have this friend. She truly is a nice person, but she flirts with EVERY GUY in sight. No joke. It really gets on my nerves, and plus she has a boyfriend anyway. And it's not just normal, friendly flirting--she hangs all over them and is always hugging all over them and stuff. Her boyfriend goes to another school, which happens to be convenient for her. Anywho, it gets on my nerves soo bad. How should I tell her that its not right? Or should I just lay low and hope she stops?
Nah she wont stop... ya just need to tell her.. Hey look are you forgeting about your boyfriend... girls at a young age their hormones get them acting all freaky and stuff. Believe me I went threw it all my 8th grade year! It'll pass. meanwhile i'd tell her boyfriend.
-holly-
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ok my little problem is...that I've had many gurlz ask me to Homecoming...I mean I got gurlz from 6 different schools asking me...and like 2/3 or 4 from each school..c im very flattered..but if I go with 1 of them the others will get really pissed..if you got any idea on what I should do or/and who I should choose..tell me
Kev
I say you pick a different girl out (not out of those ones) and you ask her to go with you... that way they arnt fighting with each other. It'll be your choice and stuff. good luck i'm sure its hard
-holly-
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everyday we go to lunch and me and a few friends play truth or dare.. well like im never dared to do anything so im usually happy. i was dared the other day to kiss this boy jake.. and i did. because him and i have kissed before.. yeh sure its no harm done and we acted like it never happened. but my friends made a BIG deal over it for nothing.. what do i do to tell them to chill!?
Tell them to stop making a big deal.. they were the ones that dared you so why are they freaking over it!... Ya'll must be young! Tell them that its the cool thing to do when you are more mature... they'll get the hints and wanna start being cool.
-holly-
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ok well I'm in love with my best friend and tonight at the dance which finished at 12:00 well during like 9 he told me I'm gonna ask Maria out and he was so happy she said yes and like now I don't know I feel jealous because I've known him my whole life and never has he ever liked me and I'm so in love man I hate the fact he has a girlfriend I'm sad I have no clue wut to do should I tell him?...I'm a nervous chica
I think you need to talk to him really bad because if you dont tell him how you feel he'll never know. I mean maybe hold out telling him now because him and Maria and he might tell her what you said and girls always get all pissy and stuff. But yeah i'd say tell him he might like you too and just not told you.
-holly-
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Okay, I'm a freshman and there's this junior in my spanish class. Well, I always catch him looking at me, like all the time. And he's REALLY cute. But he has a girlfriend, I'm just wondering.. but what do you think about this? His smile like melts me, and i'm just wondering if there's something there.
I'm sure hes attracted to ya... and to answer your question my boyfriend is a senior and i'm a sophmore... So its ok! the grades and age is just a number. Give it time i'm sure he'll start talking to ya more... meanwhile keep up what you're doing and maybe talk to him a couple times too :) see if he has aol or something :) have fun with it. and be yourself!
GOOD LUCK
-holly-
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I met a great guy. He is so sweet and made me smile everytime he said something...but there is always a catch isn't there!! A few days later he told me he liked this girl as if he had NO CLUE I liked him..sooo..what's the deal here? Should I just lay off and not talk to him now that he is with this girl?
Ok some guys can be dick heads! Seriously maybe he either told you that so you'd lay off or try and get you to hook him up with her... he might not know that you like him. Try telling him
Good luck
-holly-
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i just found out i get my braces in 13 days any tips to help the process?
i'd say take tylonal before you go in because they tend to hurt after words... good luck
-holly-
have any more questions about braces... I had them so you may ask me!
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Okay well i dont like to eatlunch at school, so then my friends got all worried and thought i have Anerxia, which i dont because i eat ALOT at home. Well i got sent to the counselor yesterday because of them, and the counselor said that she was going to call my mom MAYBE since my friends are worried. Im like freaking out! i dont even have ANERXIA!!! and if she calls my mom ill get grounded and not beable to go to homecoming! and i was already asked!! i swear im gonna cry=( Plz help!!
*kendall*
Ok I think that if she calls your mom and she see's you eating a lot at home it shouldnt be a problem... Your friends need to totally butt out of your buisness because its not their place. Just tell your mom the truth and tell her before hand... so if they call your mom she'll be totally aware of it. And so she can tell them that you arnt. I dont think your mom would ground you. Good luck
-Holly-
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i love my boifriend so much. its going ot be 6 months on saturday the 18th n im so excited but of course i have the feeling liek i wanna be with him forever ((which i havnt felt with ne other guys..i never really cared for them )) n heez the only wun i actually said i luv u too! but i noe ppl who have gone out for like 4 years n just totaly dropped it n totaly reget it all! so yes ide be happy if me n tyler went out for years! but what if wun day he just completly drops me??? i mean wat if we go like 5 years and wun day he just doesnt wanna go with me nemore??? ide be really hurt n i do wanna be with him forever n i gues the real question is..how can i cope with i it all n keep our realationship going forever?? ((or atleast along time))
xOx HaNa
Well in relationships jealousy is like a big problem... that and communication. If you can be able to talk and totally be able to communicate real well it shouldnt be much of a problem. I think that if you just hang out and be able to talk to each other when you've got a problem or he can talk to you when he has a problem things should go pretty smoothly. Just dont turn controlling... Guys dont like controlling girlfriends... Nor do girls like controlling boyfriends. Just use a lot of communication and I think that you can be set for a while.
Good luck
And best wishes
-holly-
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Ok theres this boy and we hooked up BUT now hes like I like this other girl better then u HOW do I get over him?
Join some school sports at school... and get involved where a lot of people are... i'm sure you'll meet some real hotties there!
Best wishes and good luck
-holly-
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all my life i had never had a boyfriend and i thought it was me but 3 days ago my brother finally confessed. he told me that he told all the boys i like not to go out with me, its a rule not to go out with my sister. hes 17 and i'm 13. y does my brother want to........... y did my brother ruin my life?
you're only 13... your brother is only looking out for you... boyfriends at that age are such a pain in the butt and are sooo annoying... believe me hunny you dont want one! I promise! Wait till high school years when boyfriends and girlfriends mean more than just holding hands in the hall. Hes not trying to ruin your life hes looking out for you because he loves you... i'd rather take my brothers loving than to have a boyfriend.
-holly-
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i been smokin since june jus w/e i culd get n now i gotta pack of newport menthol's n shit n i get all lightheaded n dizzy but i never did b4. why's it happenin n how can i get rid of it? cuz it happened so bad one time i hadda lay down on the sidewalk. it only happened wit these never wit 100s or marlboro reds or kools or anythin jus menthol. soo u kno whatz wrong wit me?
Maybe the Menthol ones dont agree with you... I'm not sure i've never smoked before... Maybe try something else besides the menthols. Or maybe it might just be the pack you've got now... maybe try someone elses... I'm not sure, sorry i'm not help.
-holly-
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i have a majer crush on a kid named matt at school and he like me to but now im moveing what shold i do
signed
mix up
well theres really nothing you can do... if its ment to be then things will work out. If not theres someone else out there for you!
-holly-
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My friend and I were talking tonight. We started talking about slitting your wrists, and I asked her if she'd ever done it. She was really weary and said "maybe..." and then I said "Have you?" and she's like "I tried it. It hurt." and I'm like "How old were you?" and she said "13...or 14." (She's 15) and then we talked, and she's like "I DON'T WANNA TALK ABOUT IT ANYMORE!" but then she's like "I'm just kidding, I don't.". She's a strong Christian and she's only 15. She wears TONS of bracelts all up her arms. Do you think she was really joking, or just insecure and really does it? I don't want to talk to her about it, incase she gets madder...
I think that maybe you can talk to her again without her getting mad. But if you think shes still doing it then you need to talk with her but if not then i think ya need to leave it be. Sometimes people just like bracelets...but if you ever get the chance look at her arms for scars.
-holly-
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Hey guys im a 15 f. At nite it takes me like 45 mins to fall asleep. i have no clue why but its SO frustrating. Neways.... i was just wonderin if u guys had any tricks to fallin asleep (besides counting sheep) that could help me. Thanks so much!
You can take like tylonal PM or whatever... that stuff knocks you out pretty well.
-holly-
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i have a girlfriend were both very happy but my ex girlfriend is back in town and wants me back. i said no. and i have a girlfriend and she flipped and has been stalking me ever since..im afraid it will become dangerous and she ends up hurting my girlfriend. im totally lost what should i do?
get a restraining (sp) order on her! She wont be able to come like 500 feet from you or your girlfriend. Nor will she be able to call you. Good luck and best wishes
-holly-
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I always seem to have problems, but this ones kidda bigger then the rest. I really like this guy, he's a total sweetheart, caring and such. He's 15 and I'm 17. Well, today he told me that he liked me alot. I'm kidda dating someone right now though and I told him that. He started freaking out because he really wants to be with me. He thinks I don't give a shit about him, when I really do, I adore him. I just don't know what to do. Another problem, is the age difference. I told him it really didn't matter, but really, it does. I mean, my friends wouldn't be too fond of it. I don't know what to do, any help?
ok age is just a number and it shouldnt matter when you like someone. Me and my boyfriend are 2 years apart as well... i'm 15 hes 17. If you like this guy go for it and forget your boyfriend but if the age is going to be a big problem in your relationship and you dont like what your friends think, then you shouldnt be with him. Good luck
-holly-
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