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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't be shy with asking to my inbox. I'll do my best to answer any question with any subject :)

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http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutme.php?userboard_id=27150

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what are the best ways to become closer to guy friends? and what are some things guys look for in a girl to just hang out with?

Just be yourself and don't act like a total girly girl.

My guy friends always say they love a girl they can just hangout with and be casual around. Someone who is able to laugh and have fun without being fake.

I think they just look for someone who is real.

Hope that helped :]

is it first or second base?

Second.

where can i buy short board shorts for girls? thanks

PacSun, Tillys, IG (I think thats what it's called.)

Heyyy.
Well my Valentine`s Day dance is coming up *& i was wondering whats a good outfit from Abercrombie *& Fitch (http://www.abercrombie.com/anf/index.html)
i`m ordering it online so tell me what are some good outfits.
(preferrably red or pink or a valentine`s day colors)

thank you!

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_318051_-1_12254 (Pink)

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10051&catalogId=10901&parentCategoryId=12203&childCatgroupId=12203&categoryId=12261&productId=1&langId=-1 (Medium Wash)

OR..

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_310641_-1_13062 (White)

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_294084_-1_12262

Hope I helped.

i am female 13, last night me a friend heard about a party. so sneaked out of the house and went to the party. well my friend did not like all the drinking and drugs so she left. i end up staying and guess i got a little to drunk and end up some guys had sex with me. i am not sure if they used protection how can i tell if i am pregnant

A pregnancy test.

wat trends are in style now? Also, how do you pull of the belt on the waist? I dont kno how to do it...

There are many many many trends, way too many to name.

Skinny jeans and long dress type shirts are in.
Good stores to go to would be Urban Outfitters or Forever 21.

Also you could try a dress with jeans under.

As for the belt, wear a long shirt, usually looser shirts work better. Here are a few pictures for you to get ideas.

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/images/us/local/products/productsall/p318960c.jpg

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/images/us/local/products/productsall/p318956c.jpg

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/images/us/local/products/productsall/p275905c.jpg

Good luck :)

My boyfriend is significantly older then I am.

:] Well let me start by saying that I do have a great relationship with my boyfriend. He's my best friend and he makes me extremely happy most of the time.

The problem is he makes me feel so bad. He says that I don't let him see his friends enough. Whenever we rarely hang out on weekdays, and yes, we do hang out on weekends only because we're both so busy any other time. =[

So, tonight he came over because I cooked my family dinner and everything was going well. Until he got a call from his roommate who said they were going to have a party. The guy who was going to be there always has weed & stuff and the only time my boyfriend ever gets high is when he's there.

That's when I went into a serious girlfriend mode and started telling him he couldn't do it, otherwise I'd be mad. Then he started complaining about how I always make him feel guilty & never let him hang out with friends.

What can I do to make this whole situation better? But, still be with him at the same time?

Guys are like little kids, when you tell them no, it makes them want to do it more.

My advice would be to just let him do his thing but talk to him about it, tell him why you don't like that he gets high etc. and that when he tells you your making him feel bad, it makes you feel bad.

He probably doesn't realize he's doing it, he just wants to hang with the boys.

I have had like a vaginal infection for a while, but I let it go because 1. I'm too embarrassed to go to a doctor and 2. I figured it would just clear up. Now it's swollen on the left side and i can feel a bump. It's on the inside though it's just so swollen I can feel it from the outside. I'm really scared I have no idea what it is. I'm 15/f.

Please just get it checked out.

First off, doctors see this stuff everyday and it's nothing new to them. Second, what if it's something serious and after awhile it becomes uncureable.

So just go to your doctors office and get a checkup.

Is there any FREE downloadable music like limewire or Rhapsody? If so where can I get it? I need it to make a CD for my school dance.
Thanks (keosha)

Sorry, those are the only two I know of.

I would suggest not using limewire though because I used to use that and it would give me viruses from downloading the songs. Just wanted to let you know.

I'm 14 and I go to a combined middle school and high school. In the middle school, we aren't allowed to listen to our iPods, so I always go to the high school during lunches and breaks to listen to my music.

Now, recently for the past two days, this guy has been sitting next to me on the bench every lunch hour and talking to me. It all started when I left my stuff on the bench, and I had to go. He wanted me to stay and talk, but I was in a hurry to leave. I'm 14, and this guy is probably about 15-17 at the most.

I'm getting very worried here. I've been previously been a target many, many times for jokes and attempts to make me look stupid, but fortunately I've never fallen for it. I'm having trouble telling whether this guy is really interested in me, or if it's part of a clever joke that someone else has already planned out.

What should I do?

If I were you I wouldn't be too paranoid. Give the guy a chance, because most likely he isn't a prank.

Just keep talking to him and get to know him better and you will probably be able to tell if he is truely interested or not.

Good luck.

What Do I Wear To A Valentines Day Party? Thats Not A Dress? Thanx!

SHIRT: http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/images/us/local/products/productsall/p290816b.jpg

BRA:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/images/us/local/products/productsall/p324756b.jpg

PANTS:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/images/us/local/products/productsall/p304918b.jpg
(or black pants)

Be creative with the jewelry. Here are some ideas.

BANGLES:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/images/us/local/products/productsall/p296697b.jpg

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/images/us/local/products/productsall/p294198b.jpg

EARRINGS:
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/images/us/local/products/productsall/p291982b.jpg

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/images/us/local/products/productsall/p174552b.jpg

NECKLACE:

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/images/us/local/products/productsall/p262325b.jpg

DON'T PUT ALL THOSE TOGETHER, I'M JUST GIVING YOU SOME IDEAS. HAVE FUN WITH IT AND DON'T TRY TO MATCH PERFECTLY, JUST BE FUNKY AND CREATIVE :)

can pitbulls kill u?

If they want to it wouldn't be too hard. They are very loving toward their owners so if they think you are harming their owner then yes, your dead.

I love the skinny jean style, but I'm having a hard time finding them!

Does anyone know any good stores that carry skinny jeans?

Anchor Blue.
Hollister.
Abercrombie and Fitch.

whats the diff bewteen a zit and a pimple?

First of all it makes no difference whether there is or not. Either way zits and pimples are caused through hormonial balances. That and the fact that zits and pimples are made up of oil, dirt, and pollution which gets caught in the pores of your skin and causes infection and that is how they become what they are. But to answer your question, no there is no difference.

what are some songs about like friendship and love? and songs about like the beach or california thanks

Friendship..

http://www.friendship.com.au/media/songs/

http://members.tripod.com/~jess_97/songs.html

http://www.popculturemadness.com/Music/Freindship.html

http://www.latestngreatest.net/lyrics/friendship-songs.htm

http://www.ultimatesongwriting.com/friendship-songs.html

California..

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_songs_about_California

http://www.answers.com/topic/list-of-songs-about-california

http://www.mcneilmusic.com/calif2.html

Beach..

http://www.cduniverse.com/search/xx/music/pid/1119264/a/Catch+A+Wave:+Beach+Songs+For+Kids.htm

Hope you find something :)

some lyrics to this song are.. "we can write our names here in the mud" and i think it might go "with no one here to see it" [[along those lines]]

it kind of sounded like blink 182 but i dont think it was

if anyone knows this song name plz tell me!

thanks && hearts

The Refreshments- Down Together.

is there any way to make my boobs grow? haha i know this sounds weird but.. yea thanks.

I think there are some type of pills that have hormones in them but I suggest leaving those alone. It might mess something up.

Besides that I'm not really sure, oh and that whole sleeping without a bra thing doesn't make your boobs grow.

Im really skinny im not anorexic or anything its just how im built..but i want to get bigger thighs, not fat, muscle. so what are some things i can do to get that?

Squats are really good for like the back of your thighs.

And also lay on your back with your legs straight out and lift them together really slow to where they are straight up. You can do that with someone else too. They stand behind you and hold their arms out so you have to touch their hands with your feet and you can hold their ankles to help you. Sorry if that was confusing but I hope I helped.

I have a cousin who's 15. Her birthday is coming up and she loves to read. She's into fantasy books, adventure and romance type books. Is there any books or series you would recomend. PLEASE help! I have absolutely no clue what to get her.

My step brother is really into magical fantasy type books also.

He read that whole Eragon series and the Harry Potter series.

Sorry if that doesn't help.

Maybe you could just go to the fantasy section in Barnes and Noble, pick out a book you think she would like and attach it to a gift card.

how do you put a pic under a picture on your myspace i know you have to upload it on tinypic and then use the code as a caption but i tried and im not sure why but its not working.

You have to make the code shorter so it fits.

Take out the parts not needed in the code like "hosted by TinyPic" etc. Then it will fit.

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