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this guy during lunch hours....


Question Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 11:04 pm

I'm 14 and I go to a combined middle school and high school. In the middle school, we aren't allowed to listen to our iPods, so I always go to the high school during lunches and breaks to listen to my music.

Now, recently for the past two days, this guy has been sitting next to me on the bench every lunch hour and talking to me. It all started when I left my stuff on the bench, and I had to go. He wanted me to stay and talk, but I was in a hurry to leave. I'm 14, and this guy is probably about 15-17 at the most.

I'm getting very worried here. I've been previously been a target many, many times for jokes and attempts to make me look stupid, but fortunately I've never fallen for it. I'm having trouble telling whether this guy is really interested in me, or if it's part of a clever joke that someone else has already planned out.

What should I do?


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Additional info, added Friday January 19 2007, 12:12 am:
I have to admit that I *am* a bit attracted, actually. I have a little bit of a thing for guys who are older (I doubt that he's TOO much older than me), he seems interesting enough and doesn't look too bad, either. I'm just worried that it could be a joke.
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ductape_n_roses answered Friday January 19 2007, 12:31 am:
Well, no one on this site can give you an insight on what this guy's motives are. But just remain friends with him for now. And after a while if you do gain trust in him, get closer. But until he gains your trust, don't assume he's there to not pull a trick on you or something

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xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx answered Thursday January 18 2007, 11:32 pm:
Hmm if your not interested in this guy then just dont worry about him. Maybe you could just be friends with him. Just be nice and talk as friends. if its been 2 days and this continues its prob not a joke. If your worried then just dont hang around him. Anyways hope i helped =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx

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HOPLESSxROMNTC answered Thursday January 18 2007, 11:25 pm:
If I were you I wouldn't be too paranoid. Give the guy a chance, because most likely he isn't a prank.

Just keep talking to him and get to know him better and you will probably be able to tell if he is truely interested or not.

Good luck.

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