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hey this is XxalyssaxX and well my friend just asked me to go to her brothers wedding with her and i need to know what to wear! lol im gonna go shopping and everything but the last time i went to a wedding well actually all the times i had a specific out fit like brides maid and flowergirl lol! stores would b good! ;) thanks ppl!
Well, think about when the wedding is. Is it soon or is it next year? Try to match your outfit to match the season [ie, fairly robust outfit for winter, a floaty number for summer]. Try looking in department stores as they usually have a ballgown/ bridal section and they can suggest things that might look good on you. It also depends on weather you want a dress or not. If not I would suggest a smart trouser suit.
Have fun :)
My family (mom, and Sister and me) just moved away from my older sister and my dad.Well we moved in with my moms boyfriend:(. He has a little boy (11 OR 12) that lives with us and a daughter that lives in North Carolina.(Age 6)
Well Ronnie gets more attention from my mom than she givs to us. My sister is 13 and im 15. Im the oldest. well in that house. Im the middle one out of 9. ranging from 6-25. Everything Ronnie does Kaylie and I get in trouble for it. Im getting sick and tired of his and my mothers and her boyfriends shit all the time. What do i do. I tried talking to them already. Please help.
i never told me mom yet that if things dont change soon and we stop gettin introuble for what Ronnie does, thenim moving back with my dad. ASt least he dont yell at us for nothing. He actually pays attention to us. My mom and Ron just pays attention to Ronnie. Grrr...
Help me plz. I dunno what to do.
signed.. Family Trouble
All I can suggest is presenting your case to your mum in a logical and sound [and adult] fasion. Don't whine or yell, but tell her you feel like she doesn't love you as much as she loves this new part of her family, maybe cite a few instances where she obviously favoured ronnie over you and your sister [ie, ronnie got a new toy, but you didn't even though you'd be asking for somthing for a long time]. Also detail instances when you were blamed for somthing you didn't do. Hopefully she won't dismis these as petty concerns [and if she does, you need to make it clear that this is upsetting you so much you had to ask strangeds on the net for help ;)] or patronise you.
If that fails then, maybe you could tell your [biological] dad whats going on and ask him to speak your mum, adult to adult.
*hugs* I hope things work out for you.
So i broke up with my ex bf for like the 3rd time..we have been on and off since jan.. now we are going out saturday but its just to fool around, no responsability, no stressing out, no pressure... i have strong feelings for him and i know he ha for me too but for some reasons we can't have a long term relationship.. we call each other, talk online, admit to ppl we still have feeling for each other etc.. what is your opinion on this? is it wrong for a 16-17 year old not to want this MEGA SERIOUS relationship right now, even though i really love this guy? thanks.. *pls support ur answer*
My opinion on the matter? Maybe you're just not ready for commitment. I mean, 16/7, its a stressful time in any teens life, I don't blame you for not wanting to burden yourself with a guy just yet, at least not long term. And he might be the same; Not sure he's ready for the commitment. This time in your life, as far as love goes, I think is a time for testing the waters, finding out what you like or don't like in a guy, and then finding one who fits your critieria.
Or maybe there is some underlying issue that niether of you wants to consider or talk about, maybe in your pasts, or something.
You don't actually mention if you've ever fought over somthing that resulted in you breaking up, but if you have, maybe it was that. Or maybe you just needed a break from each other.
Is it wrong? No. I belive I would just be repeting myself if I 'supported' that answer.
I am 24 year old college student and I just spent the weekend with a girl that just moved in across the street she is going to school here. I have talked to her a little before, but this weekend she came to my house and wanted to go hang out. So we did and we had a great time we spent almost the wole weekend together. We watched a movie togeterh she feel asleep and we just cuddled and slept until morning no sex or anything. I really liker her and we get along great, but when she comes over or I go obever there she acts like she doesnt want a hug or anything, but whene it is time to say goodbye. She gives me a long hug and doesn't want to let go but acts like she does't want a kiss so I just kiss her on the cheeck. This is confusing because she still comes around. I though mabey she just did not want to kiss so. The last time she was over I just gave her a hug. Then she came over later and acted different and gave me a half ass hug. This is confusing. What shoul I do?
Talk to her. Be honest with her, and 'fess up that you don't understand the signals she's giving you. But if it's cuz you only just met and she isn't sure her self, let her know that it's okay, and you understand.
Does anyone take latin here? I need some really good advice on how to memorize the genitive case.
Thanks!
XOXO
Have you tryed asking your teacher for help? Or googling for anything?
Oh and ignore PiNkCoNvErSEChIk11, I think it's cool you're learning Latin :)
well i have this friend lets call him fred well fred and i have known eachother for hmm 6 years or so and hes 2 years older than me so hes 15 and a sophmore and im 13 in 8th grade anyways fred used to hate me but now he wants to get with me there are two problems..
1) he has told me himself he cant keep a girl for longer than 3 days, but those 3 days cud be the best 3 days of my life since i've liked him for 6 years
2) he told me he does weed now im not sure if he still does but he told me he quit and im not sure if i shud believe him
3) i smoke and he's okay with that but i dont want to get him addicted by bein w. me
4) we live 30 mins away from eachother but im movin to his town this summer so when im a freshman he'll be a junior...
can anyone help me? i rate high tnxs
I really don't see the problem.
1. If you think that, then you should go for it. Maybe he'll change his mind.
2. Innocent untill proven guilty. Untill he presents you with proof not to trust his word, then think of it as he's telling the truth. And besides if you want to have any kind of relationship with him, you'll need to trust each other.
3.I don't think you can get someone addicted to fags just by being with them, and especially not if you're careful.
4. And thats a problem because...? If anything that sounds like a reason to go for it.
I say you and he should at least give it a try, and then even if things don't go well you can always just say, ah well, it was worth trying.
When i burn my music to a CD-RW, my computer closes the cd, there for making it a cd-r. how can i stop it from closing the cd?
I assume by 'CD-r' you mean that it makes it only readable, not re-writable? That shouldn't be happening. Even if you close the CD, if it was RW, it should remain so. Your writing programe should have an option to erase/ or blank rewritable CDs, and if it doesn't then you might need to update the programe you use.
As for not closing CDs, when the write dialogue pops up there should be an option somewhere to not close the CD.
Hi guys, This may sound weird comming form a 22 yera old but my doctor was no help when I asked her this question. Some imput from you guys might be good. I have been on and off of the pill sence I have been 15. I recently started up again after being off of them for a few years. This is my second month. I know the hormones are supose to affect you but I am finding myself very moody. I have never had bad PMS or every been moody. I find myself wanting to cry a lot more for no reason, or just really snippy at everyone. I hate this its not me. I was always happy and I loved everyone. The last 2 months have been hell with these mood swings. I am even snapping at my BF whom I love more than anything in the world. I dont want this new attitude to ruin anything we have. I am really worried. I dont want to be off the pill cause we are not ready for kids yet. Is there anything I can do to get back to normal? Thanks guys I really appreciate your info. *Christin*
Like some others have said, it could be that the pill you are on isn't right for you. As far as I know there are several different types, all with their own side effects.
Having said that, when I first went on the pill my hormones went crazy, and it lasted for about 6 months, but after that I was fine again.
As for your partner, I'm sure he understands [as far as a man can] what you are going through, and will do his best not to hold the actions of your hormones against you and support you.
Maybe you could talk to your doctor about getting a differnt type, get her to explain what exactly is happening to you and how long it might take for things to settle down again. You might also want to consider taking things easy for a while, I'm sure you know that stress can make things worse.
I hope this gets better for you *hug*
I was wondering if anybody could help me make a site. I want one with a layout and pretty designs and stuff but I'm not sure how to do all that. It would be a quote site. I want to make it at geocities and then move it to cjb.net. Could any patient person show me how to do all this and help me through all the steps? I could show some sites as examples on what I want. Also, would anybody be able to make the layout for me? I would really appreciate all this help and I rate for the most helpful people =c). Thanks!
Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))
Well, the best way to learn HTML in my experiance is to try yourself and not to worry to much when you break the code as it can always be fixed. The easiest way to make layouts is to use tables, though you shouldn't really [you should use css, but since you a begginer I think you might get away with tables]
I made this basic tutorial, that should help you somewhat:
http://spacefem.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=223792#223792
Unfortunatly I'm not very good at making graphics, so I just trawl the net for stock pictures. You could try browsing some other people's personal sites to get some insparation.
Have fun :)
I have a problem with guys that I like that are more than just a guy friend. I know its a little first grade and I shouldn't be doing that anymore. I think its because of what happened with my first boyfriend when we went out he used me in a mean way. So I think that I have a problem, like I think my new boyfriend will do the same. I just don't want guys to think I am prude because I get all...I can't explain it. I just hate my first boyfriend. :(
**PeRmAnEnTlY DaMaGeD PoSsiBlY**
Well, relationships of this sort are built mostly on trust, and if you can't trust someone then you aren't going to have much of a chance. I understand how you feel though. Maybe, when a guy approches you, you explain to him that your first b/f was very mean to you, and you really need to take it slow. If he doesn't understand then he isn't worth your time.
Also maybe if you talked about this with a clos friend then maybe it will get easier to cope with.
*hug*
I typed the author Eleanor Ayer into a search engine and couldnt find any results like telling a little about her. Does anyone have any 411 or websites? thx
Well, I found this website, about a book she wrote with someone else. It seems like an autobiography. I hope it helps somewhat
http://www2.scholastic.com/teachers/authorsandbooks/teachingwithbooks/producthome.jhtml?productID=12635&collateralID=6618&displayName=Discussion+Guide
errrrrr. ok my mom dont trust me i did something with a guy she found out end of story. we were going out at the time now we arent cuz i was grounded cuz of the other thing and cudnt see him much but we still good friends and he invited me over last weekend i asked mom said no i got wicked mad and now i he asked for this weekend if him n his dad could drive over pick me up i cud go to his house. i needa ask but im afraid cuz 1) she wont giv in wen she says no 2) i needa prove to him i can hang out so we can go out again 3) wen she says no i get so mad. like she doesnt undertsnad me. (no1 does. he does alot..he makes me happy too and i am not the happiest person) the anger builds up inside me till i wanan explode. i wanan show her she can trust me. she just wont lemme. she prob wont let me go and i need to ask soon and errrrr anyway please help if u can idk what to do or what to say thx lata
Well, I think you need to try and calm down. You arn't going to get anywhere by getting mad all the time. Maybe if she says no this time, you can ask her why, and then maybe you and your mum can come to some kind of agreement, where you submit to her for a period of so long to show you can be trusted.
i just want yalls opinions. do u thing black and black and white and white and mexican and mexican ect. should only get married? or should they mix. ok thanks.
I think that if one is truly in love with another, the colour of their skin or ethnic origin doesn't matter in the slightest.
ok...i really like this boy and today he asked me to walked home with him...we deiced we would always walk home together...now i waz having a bad day at school and my mom was nagging me and i spapped but appolized and she said it waz ok...then she hit me with the news that i had 2 go after school 2 after school curiclum thing...i went 2 that last year ...I HATED IT..she wants me 2 try it next week but i dont want 2 blow the boy off and i really dont want to go!! how can convince my mom to let me walk with the boy(now she wants me to go to this only because she thinks i have no one 2 walk home with but i do) or how can i tell the boy!!!!???? HELP ME!!
Well, I would explain to your mum that you hated the last after school thing you did, and found it a huge waste of your time, and that you have found a friend with whom you can walk home with. If she still insistes on you going to this thing, then you need to explain to your new friend what she's said, and your really sorry and all that.
*hug* hope all goes well
15/f
I've had my period since i was 10. meaning it should be on a regular cycle by now. DONT TELL ME THAT ITS NORMAL, because i've had it for five years. and just this year it started becoming irregular. like i'd get it every 21 days, sometimes 19 days and sometimes every 2 WEEKS. i get it way too soon. well my mom asked her gyno and he said well thats normal for it to be irregular but if it gets worse we can do something about it.
so my question is, i heard they put you on birth control? fine. but why birth control? what does birth control do. because i'm a catholic and i kind of dont believe in birth control but i guess if it's needed for my period then its okay. someone explain what birth control does.
Birth control regulates the flow of female hormones in the body, so it means that when you come off for the 7 day period, the control effect is temporarily lost so you can have your period. I take the pills so I have my period every 21 days [as one's cycle lasts for 28 days], but I don't know how it works on other methods.
I would get your doctor to give you a better description of what it does, and talk to your doctor about you belifes, as maybe s/he could find another way.
Okay I asked a question before about the pill and I was wondering something else....If I do decide to have sex w/out a condom, and get pregnant say five months later....if I keep taking the pill, will it kill the fetus before it gets into the really late stages of pregnancy? If anyone knows any websites with that information, i'd appreciate it a lot...i've searched and can't find anything....Thanks
Female, 16
If you are on the pill in the first place then there is a very small chance you'll even get pregant, but if you do, I don't belive the pill does kill the featus, you have to get some kind of 'day after' pill that has an abortive substance in it. You are best talking to your doctor or other heath care proffesional about this, as the web doesn't all way give accurate information.
Hello! I was recently told by one of my teachers that we have to do community service. Since I love basketball, I decided to either create a youth basketball organization where I can teach young kids, about 5-7, basketball basics and skills (I'm almost 14 by the way.), or join a place like YMCA where I can help out the youth basketball teams? And if it helps...I live in Michigan.
-- First of all, which one do you think is a better idea?
-- If it's the first one, how would I be able to start this, and am i old enough?
-- If it's the second one, what other place would i be able to go to help youths in basketball (besides YMCA)...I already googled and I still can't find anything..
Well, I don't really know the US rules, but I would have thought that you can't be a mionor [under 18/21] and start a club like that formally, so I would go with the second option.
Most libaries [or other community centers] have a list of places that doing things like what you want, so you could check there, or talk to the YMCA people and see if they have any ideas.
Good luck :)
Ok, well heres the thing...I still like my boy friend, I think...see I am not sure if I like him...or I just liked making out with him...lol I know it sounds childish but when I am in his arms I feel safe, and it feels like nothing in the world matters anymore...I dont know what to do because we dated for 3 days and then broke up for about a week and then we dated for another 4 days and then broke up and it has almost been a week, both of the times we broke up it was because he was flirting with another girl and had told his best friend that he liked her more then me, and his best friend proved it to me both times...I dono what to do...i want him back, I think...PLease help me I dont know what to do...I feel so good when I am in his arms and when we are kissing but I dont know if i just like the fact of feeling that way, or feeling that way "WITH HIM"....if you know please tell me!!! I need to figure this out because it is driving me crazy!!
It sounds like you just like the feeling of being with someone. And if this guy is constantly messing you around and not staying true, then you might have problems if you pursue a relationship with him, setting you up for a lot of pain. You don't say how old you are, so please forgive me if you are not 13-15, but you proably have time to find another guy, one who will love you, or at least not stray.
Good luck with finding him :)
i take Communication Arts, and I didn't know how hard it would be? My latest assignment was to make a script with a partner, and we agreed that he would write the script while I brought the props and costumes. It's called a one word scene, which means one person can say only one word per line, and it has to be at least a minute and no longer than two minutes. See, I didn't have a problem with this until I read the script...it's about him being hungry and wanting to eat lkions while I think it's gross. i don't want to sound rude, but almost half the grade is based on the script and how good it is, and most of it doesn't make sense. Plus, the script it only 48 seconds, and she's a REAL stickler for getting the times straight. I have 2 questions::
How do i tell him in a nice way that I want to re-write the script?
Do you have any good ideas that will work well for a minute with this kind of script?
I think being honset and straight forward with him is the best aproch. Something like 'Look, I know you worked hard on this, but to be honest it kinda stinks. do you mind if we re-wrote it a bit?'
As for the second question, maybe two people meeting at night of somthing. I'm thinking espionage here, or lovers.
Good luck with it :)
This is a very stupid question being a computer person, but does anybody know where quick shutdown options are on windows XP?
Generally all windows distros have their shut down options in the bottom of the start menu. I don't know if you can do this with windows, but most Linux based desktop environments have a plugin for the task bar so one can shut down like that. You could try looking for one I guess, but don't be to hopeful.