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well i have this friend lets call him fred well fred and i have known eachother for hmm 6 years or so and hes 2 years older than me so hes 15 and a sophmore and im 13 in 8th grade anyways fred used to hate me but now he wants to get with me there are two problems..
1) he has told me himself he cant keep a girl for longer than 3 days, but those 3 days cud be the best 3 days of my life since i've liked him for 6 years
2) he told me he does weed now im not sure if he still does but he told me he quit and im not sure if i shud believe him
3) i smoke and he's okay with that but i dont want to get him addicted by bein w. me
4) we live 30 mins away from eachother but im movin to his town this summer so when im a freshman he'll be a junior...
can anyone help me? i rate high tnxs
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and what is the problem?
i really dont see any, other than the guy cant keep a girl for more than three days. thats ridiculous.
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That's amost illegal. Dating someone that's 16, when you're not. At least for sex.
First advice I'd give you- and I'm sure you hear it all of the time. Weed is bad. Smoking is bad. I'm not your mother, I know. But you're not helping yourself or him.
Another thing to think about-- if he does only keep you for three days, is that 6-year friendship going to be ruined? Why not just be friends with him? What's the difference of him being your friend, and your boyfriend?
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I really don't see the problem.
1. If you think that, then you should go for it. Maybe he'll change his mind.
2. Innocent untill proven guilty. Untill he presents you with proof not to trust his word, then think of it as he's telling the truth. And besides if you want to have any kind of relationship with him, you'll need to trust each other.
3.I don't think you can get someone addicted to fags just by being with them, and especially not if you're careful.
4. And thats a problem because...? If anything that sounds like a reason to go for it.
I say you and he should at least give it a try, and then even if things don't go well you can always just say, ah well, it was worth trying.
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First of all, I personally agree with the idea that those three days may be the best days of your life. And seriously, who knows? Perhaps he couldnt keep a girl longer than 3 days because he hasnt met any girl who he truly loved yet. It occurs to be that if he went out with you and found out that he really like you, he might decide, "This is the girl I was looking for,"" and go out with you longer. Futhermore, three days with him is better than three days without him. Yes, you should go out with him.
Secondly, the marijuana matter. So maybe he did pot before, but he told you he quit. If you love him, then trust him. If you find out later, THEN is the right time, not now. You have to trust him, because he is your boyfriend.
I hope my advice helped
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