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I have a problem with guys that I like that are more than just a guy friend. I know its a little first grade and I shouldn't be doing that anymore. I think its because of what happened with my first boyfriend when we went out he used me in a mean way. So I think that I have a problem, like I think my new boyfriend will do the same. I just don't want guys to think I am prude because I get all...I can't explain it. I just hate my first boyfriend. :(
**PeRmAnEnTlY DaMaGeD PoSsiBlY**
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ur not permanently damaged. if u dont go out with someone of trust them like u did ur first bf then ull never get anywhere. learn from ur mistakes. but dont let hiim ruin ur life.
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The best thing you can do is just try and trust new people. Just because one guy did that doesnt mean that all of them will be the same! If you find a guy you like, and he's the type you like, go for it! Try and trust new people and it'll work out fine. =)
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Well, relationships of this sort are built mostly on trust, and if you can't trust someone then you aren't going to have much of a chance. I understand how you feel though. Maybe, when a guy approches you, you explain to him that your first b/f was very mean to you, and you really need to take it slow. If he doesn't understand then he isn't worth your time.
Also maybe if you talked about this with a clos friend then maybe it will get easier to cope with.
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aww.. stupid guys. lol. you're just a little paranoid and i probably wouldn't blame you; it's not like i've had the greatest experience with guys right either. i bet that if you stick around long enough you'll get the perfect boyfriend that'll help you get ovre this mental block and really open you up. you've just gotta find the perfect patient boy; trust me he's out there somewhere.
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