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my sisters are goin to have a big important party on the sam day as my graduation and my parents don want me to go bc it is on the same day as my sisters party and my mom made a hair oppointment for me and my siters at 9 in the mornin and that is around when my graduation is. if i do go to graduaction my parents wont be there because the will be busy wit my sisters. i dont know what to do?? ( i am graduating 8th grade)plz help!!! (link)
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Tell your parents how important it is to you. If they still say no then say "I am a part of this family and I believe that my graduation is more important than a party. You are my parents and should be supportive. This will be the only time for me to graduate, there will be other parties. And if you are chosing parties over what I want then what kind of parenting is that."
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when ever my freind comes around me she gives me this look like she like "likes" me or something and i dont know how to tell her about it but shes freakin me out! what do i do?
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Oh God, not another homophobic person. Honestly, why would a look freak you out? I mean people do look at people, unless they are blind. I actually have a lesbian friend, and I shared a bed with her. It's no big thing. If they know you are straight they won't do anything. If you honestly think she's gay talk to her, but if you stop being friends with her because of it you are an idiot cuz lesbian friends are awesome.
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13/f ..In my group of friends and in school, i am such a prude good girl but all of a sudden now i just wanna be a slut!! like i cant wait to go on vacation and pick up random guys. I really want a bf, to makeout,smoke, drink do all that stuff. Is this normal? I feel so weird because im getting all these urges and i dont know where theyre coming from! I feel dirty and like i wanna be like those girls in the movie Thirteen.. please help! im starting to do things.. i bought a thong, drank my moms wine and wanna do other stuff that i know ill get in trouble for! but i cant help it! what do i do?? (link)
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There is nothing wrong with being a good girl. You could loosen up, but you are taking it wrong. Trying doing Drama stuff, there's no prudes in Drama. Don't screw up your life just because of an impulse. You could do something you'll later regret. Use your energy in a positive way. And find yourself a nice b/f, and just to challenge yourself, take it slow.
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Ok, im 13 year old female and just broke up with my boiifriend!! the main reason i did this is because i like another boii!! lets just call him "bob"! all of my friends think that i shouldn't go out with bob cuz he is a player!! but one of the security gaurds at skool told me that i can be the one girl to set him straight and that my friends should beleive in me. they should beleive in the fact that i could change him. but they still don't they say it's because they don't want me to get hurt!! sooooo..... wat should i do? (link)
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That is a girl's biggest flaw. They think they can change a guy. You can't change anyone unless they want to. Your friends are right. They are merely telling you the truth. You may want to believe you can change him, but you'll get tired of trying to after a while.
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I very much want to protest the current presidential administration and encourage people to vote for John Kerry, but I live in a military town and everyone living here thinks being opposed to war means you don't support the troops. I LOVE our men and women who are fighting, that's why I want them brought home to safety! Do you have any ideas about how I can get my message out without offending or inviting attack from all the military folk out here? (link)
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You should bring up Bush's down-falls. He rushed us in this war. He also got the wrong target. Saudia Arabia was more of a threat. By the way, Bush supports the draft. And this time its going to include women. Be afraid women. And when he drafts people, he's going to tighten up the border on Canada, so you can't escape. Bush also kills people through proxy. And we all can say he has no debating skills. The man's a joke for a president.
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After I had a child of my own a year ago, somehow I found myself thinking about abortion often enough and how wrong it really is, no matter what the situation. I've become so pro life. Now, I don't know where this comes from, but I've felt this way for a year now and the way I feel is so strong about it I am always wondering what I can do to influence people not to get them. I would be happy if I knew I had saved some babie's lives. Does anyone know what kinds of things you can do to make some kind of difference, besides voting (i'm gonna), and besides making donations (I have no money). Is there some sort of site where ponderers go to get advice from someone specifically debating abortion? Remember I have a baby to take care of, so I am hoping there is something I can do that doesn't require going from office to office talking to political people. I'm looking for something more low key, but that can definately make a difference. Thanks. (link)
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Alright, I am totally against you. Women have the right to do what they want with their bodies. And are you aware of the down-falls. Due to the abortion laws in Utah, a friend of mine had to birth a baby that has no stomach. The baby has to spend it's life hooked up to wires so it can eat. The family is going bankrupt trying to sustain the babies life. If a baby is going to have complications it shouldn't suffer. You aren't looking at the whole picture.
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does anyone know of any good s/n ideas. i'm looking for a new screenanme and i was wondering if people could just give some random ones. i asked beofre but people only gave ideas like "pick something that is your fave and some of your numbers before and after it".... well that didnt help to much. so please and thanks. (link)
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Let's see, you could go with your astrological sign (ex. Aquarius, Leo, etc.). You could use cute phrases you like (ex. A wise man once said, "I don't know ask a girl."). Or if you have any inside jokes with some of your friends use them (ex. That is not a pencil!).
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i have a friend that's really mad at me because i got the star part for our class play at school. what can i do to make her friends with me again? (link)
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Friends get jealous. It's human nature. So, there is nothing you can do except be humble. Whatever you do don't bring up how people compliment you and stuff in front of her until she's over it. Besides, if she doesn't get over then you don't want her for a friend. If a friend can't be supportive, then they aren't much of a friend.
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hi i'm 14 year old girl and my friend has this boyfriend who she's been dating for 11 months and he totally cheats on her! i;ve told her about it many times! finally she asked him about it when i told her he frenched one of my friends! after she talked to him about it she said it was ok cause he said it was only a friendship kiss cause she was down in the dumps! i told her that it was on the lips tounge and all and she was like i know! she believes EVERYTHING he says! wut should i do? she won't listen to me! can't just sit there and watch him cheat on her!help plz! (link)
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In situations like this you simply think Karma. What goes around comes around. One day he'll get caught and your friend will realize she needs to trust you more. Now you have two options. 1) You wait until he gets caught. That way you don't look like the nagging friend. 2) You can sit her down and use the relationship to sway her. Look her in the eyes and say I have seen him cheating, and if you don't believe me then it is your down-fall. Who are you going to believe, your best friend who has excepted you even when you were at your worst or your b/f who doesn't plan on being serious with you. I mean he'll have to date you for 4 more years until you are legally married. So, I think our relationship will last longer and has lasted longer than you and him.
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I know this sounds stupid but here it goes..THere is this guy at our school that FLIRTS with all the girls, but he flirts with me the most and all the girls say so to. I really like him too. He always plays footsie ne and like he always drinks out the same cup as me and then he is like oh sorry but I can tell he does it on perpose and he tries to hold my hand. THe only thing is we are not going out, and this has been going on for about 2 months and I just cant stand it why wont he as kme plz type back (link)
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Alright I have noticed when guys flirt alot they tend to not ask out girls. Maybe he enjoys flirting with other girls and he's afraid that if he gets tied down he won't be able to. Or he could just be shy. But if you are so concerned about him not asking you out maybe you should ask him out. This is the 21st century. Guys like it when a girl asks them, it also makes it harder for them to say no, especially if you are good friends. So ask him out if you really want to go out.
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Next school year (my senior year of high school) I am probably going to be a forgein exchange student in another country...wow! I'm so excited, but I still haven't picked the country yet where I want to stay with a host family. Does anyone have any information on what a good country would be and also other things I might want to know? (link)
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Go to Japan! They have the largest economic gain in the world. They also attend more school than most countries. Japanese is also easy to learn. The Japanese vowels are always pronounced the same. The writing is actually quite simple. You just memorize about 40 characters and that's it. Japan is the perfect place to visit if you want to learn how a buisness oriented country operates.
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i have to do this thingy in front of my class.. which is 36 people and i have to memorize it... its a monologue. and im scared. i think imn gunna go out there and like freeze!! what do i do? 13/f (link)
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Alright, the secret to getting over stage fright is simple. Focus on what you are saying. Visualize the words you say. If you say apple, picture what the apple looks like. That is most people's problems they only think of the people they are saying it to. Try to focus on what you are doing. Stare at the back-wall if you have to. But as long as you are focusing on what you are saying and the pictures in your head then you can't freeze.
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Hey! I am trying out for the school play on Tuesday, there is 100+ people trying out (some 6th, 7th and 8th graders, I am in 8th, not that it matters) but I am scared. I had Speech and Drama for 12 weeks with the teacher that is going to be the one judging tryouts, I have performed in some stuff before (our teacher picked our group to perform in front of the school with our scence from the Jungle Book, she picked me to give my speech at Grandparents Day, and I was Lady Macbeth in a play a few years back) but I am still so nervous. Anyone have any advice on trying out, how to make my acting better, things to do or not to do in tryouts, etc? It would be much appreciated, and I rate high!
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x0x ChRiStEeNa x0x
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I am all about Drama. Now, the best way to attack a try-out is to show that 1) You can take direction. Directors love it when you do what they say with out a fight over it. If they correct you say thank you. They are trying to make you better so take it to heart. 2) They want someone who can get out of their comfort-zone. If you are a class clown that really helps. But if you are normally quiet then you have to prove you can be loud. If you are normally uptight then loosen up. Directors love people that can loosen up. 3) Here's a tip on the best way to always have a consistent performance. Focus on the other actor. Quit worrying so much on how you look or how you are saying something and just focus on the scene. Your character doesn't worry about how they are saying something when they are trying to get someone out of their way. Focus on the scene. I've got more suggestions. If you want them, email me at lindsey@cpaz.net. Just so you know how experienced I am I've taken .5 years of Beginning Theater. I've completed a .5 year of Advanced Drama so far. I was on Shakespeare Team. I'm on Drama Team and I'm a scene captain. I'm secretary of our Drama Club and I'm only a freshman. So, I can help you out.
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I have this friend named Emily. She has recently just liked this guy named Justin. Well a week ago she decided she didn't like him anymore. Last night they were talking online and Justin told Emily that he really really liked me and he was going to ask me out and if i said no then he would like be at da point crying. I don't like him and i don't really want to go out cuz i like someone else but my friend wants me to go out w/ him... what should i do? (link)
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Your friend is probably saying you should go out with him because she's nice and doesn't want people's feelings hurt. My suggestion is say no if you don't like him. If you say yes, you'll be miserable and he'll end up getting that vibe and will probably feel worse because he was a pity date. Do what you want to do. When it comes to love, impulses are the best way to go.
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is it wrong to like someone younger than you? (link)
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It is not wrong to like someone younger than you. You can't help who you like. The only reason girls tend to go for older guys is that guys are immature, and the older the more likely you are to find a somewhat mature guy. But, if you like the person then age doesn't matter. If you think it is wrong because of what other people tell you then realize that it is only a media image. I mean look at Demi and Ashton, people may think it's wrong, but that is only an opinion of a group of conservative people.
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Okay Theres A Guy I really like but The thing is he lives in Michigan and I live in tennesee And every day i am wanting him beside me by my side.I cant Get over him no matter how hard I try. I am in love and I know I am. Ive neveR felt ThiS kindA love when I do talk to him.Hes Always has beenthere for me and had soothed me through thick n thin. Im just so depressed cuz we live so far away and its just not fair to me . I keep missing him everyday.I donT know how to control myself I Justdont know How I can ever stop thinkin about Him .What Can Ii do To not think about him so much
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Man, that is just like me. I always have long-distance crushes. It sucks, but in a sense it's a good thing. You don't get to know the flaws. Alright, the best way to tackle this is rather than thinking love relationship, think friend. You need to appreciate him as a friend, when you get older then you can move close to each other. But, you have to get know him the best you can while you are at a distance. If you can over-come this then the relationship will be all-the-more stronger.
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