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Boii Trouble!!
Ok, im 13 year old female and just broke up with my boiifriend!! the main reason i did this is because i like another boii!! lets just call him "bob"! all of my friends think that i shouldn't go out with bob cuz he is a player!! but one of the security gaurds at skool told me that i can be the one girl to set him straight and that my friends should beleive in me. they should beleive in the fact that i could change him. but they still don't they say it's because they don't want me to get hurt!! sooooo..... wat should i do?
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Try not to care what your friends think. Do what you want and what you think is best for YOU, not them. Give it a try.
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hey i kinda put one of my friends in the same thing.. just talk to your friends n be like ok look i really like this guy and so what if he is a player my best friend went out with one and those too are fine.. he changed and he like loves her so much so yeah theres the chance he changes.. but you cant be a bitch to your friends. because they are just trying to make sure you dont get hurt.. so just try to take things slow with you n *bob and talk to your friends about it all and explain it too them
hope i helped
Jaymi
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Hmmm... it sounds convincing to listen to the guard guy, but in this case, i think you should listen to your friends.
I once tried to change a guy, and trying to change him, changed me, while he stayed the same.
But I wouldn't want you to get hurt or anything by a guy, so watch out for yourself too:D hope i helped you out any.
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I think I've heard of people like "Bob" before. Unfortunately, I very much doubt that you could change him.
When you're thirteen, relationships don't generally last that long anyway. Stick with your friends and enjoy being thirteen while you can, as most relationships end in tears anyway.
Good luck!
Sophie xxx
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Drama is so right. You cant change the guy if he doesnt want to. A word of warning here... one of my friends is a real player taken to the extreme. This is a guy that took two of his girlfriends to town in the same group without them knowing he was with the other one AND met a third gf on the way in. I was there, saw it with my own eyes. EVERY girl he has been with knew he had a "colourful" past and each girl thought she could change him. Not only were they utterly misguided but he played on it too. Each of his gfs ended up heartbroken and, more importantly, completely baffled about what just happened. In short dont go for the player, in fact, never go for the players its asking to get hurt. Almost by definition they have less/no respect for women. Thats my advice anyway, good luck to you.
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That is a girl's biggest flaw. They think they can change a guy. You can't change anyone unless they want to. Your friends are right. They are merely telling you the truth. You may want to believe you can change him, but you'll get tired of trying to after a while.
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if you like him you should go for it...and hope it brings out the best in you and him..if he likes you he will hopefully change for you!
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