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Alright, so on New Years Eve, me and my boyfriend[of 3 years :)] were in the shower together, and he put his penis inside of me, but im not on birth control yet, and he wasn't wearing a condom. So, like he started thrusting, and like it wasn't a long time at all, probably not even 3 minutes, but he pulled out. But I'm not sure if he got sperm in me, and i'm really nervous that I am going to get pregnant. We have had sex before, but every time he uses a condom. Is there any way i could tell if i am pregnant other than a pregnancy test? And if i have to use a pregnancy test, how long should i wait to go buy one? Please everyone answer, I need all the help I can get. Thanks So Much! ♥ (link)
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You need to miss your period first.
And then a day or so after take a test, (Only if you missed it)
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Alright this is going to be long so brace yourself.I was going to im you but i figured i'd ask here anyway. Okay well ive only talked to you maybe once...literally, but well a few weeks back i had a thing going on with this guy. we liked eachother alot and things were starting to like be good again ( we had dated before but fought alot and other stuff) but i made a stupid mistake and hookedup with someone while i was under the influence... and so were my other 2 friends there with me, but anyway I ended up hooking up with this guy and i woke up the next morning knowing i had made a hige mistake and i was going to be in deep trouble. I thought about telling the guy i liked about everything but then i got scared thinking about what would happen if i did so i waited a day. Then he found out from the guy i hooked up with what i had done and was super mad and ended everything with me. So then he got online ( being the brave kid he was lol) and yelled at me and called me names, and got his friends to do the same. Wouldnt talk to me or anything. So i left him alone and things calmed down. Then the day after christmas he decided to talk to me again and he appologized for being rude and i had already appologized for my actions but i did again, and we deciced we would hangout and talk about everything. we talked online and on the phone. and then we hung out one day and got everything out.
The next few days we continued to hangout and got close a gain and everything was fine like it used to be. and i was glad because in my right mind i truley would have never done that. If you knew the whole story behind our relationship you would understand but im not going into that because it would take forever. So everything was liek amazing and good and we were like on the right track again. and then come the day after new years eve which i spent with him and had an amazing time, he says that he doesnt trust me and its because of what his friends told him that they didnt want him to like me. So he is listening to his friends and all this junk, and i talked to him about everything we had done and talked about the past few days i even promised him i wouldnt touch the stuff again but he still is like i dont trust you my friends have my back and all this. And he says I still love you but i dont trust you, and he wont admit to his friends that he has these feelints for me, So its like were back to the days when he hated me for my stupid mistake and ive tried everything to show him that he really can trust me. I know he has every reason not to but i dont understand why he would throw away that week of getting better just because his friend said something, and the thing about his friend is that he has cheated on a girl before so hes being a total hypocrite. I guess what im getting at here is that i dont understand why all of a sudden hes bounced back to that. and how can i show him that he really can trust me, because i really do like him alot. I hope that isnt too much to take in, and thank you in advance for the advice. (link)
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I really hope I can help you out here because I can tell from the way you wrote your question, that you are very sincere.
Before I get started though, I HAVE to say to anybody reading this, that ALCOHOL (especially for GIRLS) is playing with FIRE! It sounds like you learned the hard way but so many bad things happen when girls drink...and BTW - Guys know this!! Why do you think they love getting girls drunk?! It's like hunting a duck that can't fly....you can NOT make good judgements under the influence. Drinking does NOT make you cool -it makes you VERY uninhibited (which means all morals are weakened).
Ok. Sorry. I had to say all that. I try very hard to be open minded. I really do NOT judge anybody that drinks. I believe God wants us to support each other - not condemn each other. But it is breaking my heart to watch things like you described happen. Ok so on to your problem...
I believe the foundation for any good relationship is TRUST. Trust includes knowing that your special someone won't flirt, won't lie, won't cheat, will be loyal, won't hurt you, won't betray you...blah blah blah. It's not just scary to give your HEART away to someone...you also give away your EGO and self-respect.
What you describe to me about your bf is a poor guy that has been crushed. This isn't just about trust. It's about his ego. (Egos are THE most fragile thing about guys) When friends get involved and start saying he looks foolish, it's very hard for YOU to overcome this problem.
My personal opinion is that ALL successful relationships require the support of family and friends. So my advice to you is to start there...I've seen a lot of people in your situation go the oposite direction and declare full blown war over this person's attention and loyalty. Don't FIGHT the friends - fix the PROBLEM with the friends. And let your bf know this is what you want to do.
But remember - once trust is gone, it's going to require a TON of work (and TIME) to earn it back. You need to be humble, and patient. This is not going to be repaired overnight. As you described very well...relationships can be destroyed over one night - but it's not so easy to fix them.
There is a whole lot more I could say on this subject but I really think you need to start here and see how it goes.
And please DO im me. Most of the time, my away is up, but I check it a lot and I may just be sitting here working or something else. So try me after you read this. SteeleSlavsMom
Much Love, Mrs S
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what color goes best with pink?
what color goes best with blue?
what color goes best with gray? (link)
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what color goes best with pink? -white
what color goes best with blue?- green
what color goes best with gray?-orange
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what goes best with a black tube top..
- dark blue jeans
- denim mini skirt
- or white white
thanks. i rate 5's (link)
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jeans
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alright i didnt know what to put this under. But im going back to school tomorrow and vacations over :-(....for the past week i have been staying up late and sleeping in late like...like id go to bed at 1:30 and than wake up at 12..well now that schools starting i need to go to bed early but im not going to be tired...what are some good tips to fall asleep earilier?
ILL RATEE ! (link)
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I have the same problem, Only i'd stay up till 4, and then get up at 2PM. Sad isnt it?
I usally go to bed 10ish,I have to get up at 5:30AM. Base it around what time you get up.
And you usally need 8 or 9 hours of good sleep. So add in an extra hour for you to feel asleep during.
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hey
ok my friend just a car and for her birthday i want to get her like cool seat covers and stering wheel cover . . where would i go to get that . .would like wal-mart or k-mart carry it??
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Target has some.
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hey peeps i was just wondering what you think... should a girl tell her b/f if she is taking pregnancy pills?? xoxo i'll rate good for good answers! thanx (link)
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I'd mention it, when the relationship got into that kinds of stuff.
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What are some REALLY good tips on flirting? Like I want to start to make my boyfriend really interested in me. Like I already know he likes me but i want him to show he likes me. So I need tips on flirting and stuff like that. Thanks in advance! =) (link)
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http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html
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ok well this guy stares at me alot(ALOT),showsoff infront of me..and doesnt talk to girls other thenme...talked to me once but never did again...but still stares...does he like me?
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He might.
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Is it possible for girls to have wet dreams? because i wake up and theres always clearish gooey stuff in my underwear. Oh, and in school i get it to. what is it? Thank you, i rate high :) (link)
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Its discharge, not wet dreams.
And your perfectly normal.
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is blonde really the hottest hair on girls? like brunette can't be equally hot or hotter?
and is it really attractive when girls bleach their hair? (link)
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Bleaching isnt hott, to guys. Not like i tried it or anything..Haha.
Brunettes can be as pretty as a blonde.
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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
kthnkxbye (link)
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I dont think theres anything wrong with it.
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Are being "stretched" and being "loose" the same thing? (down there..) Thanks (link)
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Yes.
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Are being "stretched" and being "loose" the same thing? (down there..) Thanks (link)
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stetching of the vaginal walls occurs whenever an object is inserted into it and that's normal. a loose woman, or loose vagina is a term for someone who has a lot of sex or is a slut.
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does anyone know where you can buy leg warmers ? like, the kind that ballerinas wear. thanks (link)
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Target, Target
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my mom beats me up all the time...she has problems with my dad and takes them out on me!!..when im sleeping sometimesi see her put her hands round my throat and try to choce me ..i love her so i dont want her to go to jail...what do i do?? (link)
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YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEBODY.
a trusted teacher
a trusted aunt.
You need to tell somebody, now.
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Ok well me and my boyfriend just started going out and he smokes but I dont. We havnt kissed (meaning made out) yet and I was just wondering if when I kiss him will it taste like cigarette? And also could I get any type of cancer just from him kissing me? Ill give a 5 to anyone who doesnt make fun! THANKS! x♥x (link)
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you wont get cancer, but you probably will be able to taste the smoke on his breath.
Alicia
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Well, ok, here's the deal. I'm fourteen and i have a group of really close friends. I don't get crushes on girls, but my one friend has really nice, larger breasts and I like to touch them. This is because I am on the smaller side. Occasionally she lets me feel her, but sometimes she laughs it off. I enjoy it when I'm able to touch her. But, I just get turned on by things like this and horny.. Does this happen to anyone else? Also, there's this girl that touches me alot in those areas and it gets me really horny. I jsut like experimenting. Can someone please help me out? Thank you; I'll rate all fives. (link)
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Youre just experimenting, new things.
Its all good.
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Okay, well..my b/f is grounded from the computer and hes been calling me..well, just to talk. and he called me one night, and my phone was about to die..so i had to go..and he got on his sisters sn today and said he'll call me later..so i went upstairs and charged my phone..it took forever..so i just went to the basement and watched skeleton key with my family..and wen the movie was over..it was 9:30 (to late to call him) and i went upstairs, i had 5 missed calls!! all from him, and he doesnt call me very much at all..just wen he tells me he will..and he just wanted to talk! he told me ealier today..omg i feel so bad..idk what he is thinking..he knows im not ignoring him..but please..just guys..advice!! and pleasse dont be smart wit your answers! thanks..i rate- (link)
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He shouldn't have to tell you whens he's going to call. Its not like your his mom.
Your his girlfriend. You Just tell him, "i was busy, sorry" thats all, its not the end of the world.
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ok i want to masterbate but i'm afraid i'll hurt myself? does it hurt? how should i put my finger inside me and also what can i do (sexually) it my self with out other people please help!!
if you help i'll definitly rate 5! (link)
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It does hurt.
I dont stick my finger up there, so..
I just rub myself.
haaa.
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