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Q: I am best friends with this boy called Tom. Things were fine until I introduced him to another friend who lives really far away from us, Hannah. Now all he does is talk online to her and I'm so jealous. I don't know why, he's just a friend but I get so jealous when they talk. I have a boyfriend, I don't like Tom in that way so I don't understand it. Tom and I used to like eachother and we dated once but I don't feel that way about him anymore. How do I stop feeling this way?

Maybe because you feel hannah might take your best friend place. Thats sometimes how i felt w/my best friend. Sometimes even my boyfriend. It might help if you talk to him. it always helps me!-trix

Q: OK in a flyer for ECKERD (its a drug store)they advertise a disposible camera with a photo CD. Does this mean my pictures can be saved on the CD? Can i make one of those online photo books i always see? How do i go about this?
Thanks for answering

you know im not so sure you might want to ask with them but you can go to www.xprofile.net and use there site.. its pretty neat or you can go to www.photobucket.com which works well **trixxie**

Q: Okay well I am 13 years old. I think I am one of the fattest people out their! I weigh about 105, and I am about 5,1 ½ .. There are like 4 people who tease me, and call me fatt because they know it gets to me, and I cry all the time. About 1 week ago I tried making myself throw up. It hurts, but I don't care. I am also on a diet. So the food I eat is healthy still get's vomited out. But oh well. But my two best friends ones a guy who I like love with all my heart, and one is a good girl friend of mine are so pissed that I do this, and tell me not to listen to what people think =/ They said if I continue to do it they'll refuse to talk to me.. Urg! I wanna lose a lot of weigh for summer, and stuff and this is a pretty good way to do it but I dont know because I dont wanna lose my friends anymore =/ .. Ekkkk what to do?

Your calling me fat then to :( thanks. Well im 5'3½ (by the way how did you get the ½ sign? I copied your :-P ) First off your not fat!! You are way far from it!! You are in the perfect range trust me doll! You need some help you might have a case of anarexia. I would go to the hospital because they can help you. Talk to your mom. Just excersize by doing jumping jacks, push ups, situps, crunches, run in place, the biking motion. All that stuff works!!-trixxy

Q: I want to loose wait but I crave candy and sweets all the time I do sit ups but I dont loose allot of wait plz help wut can I don

well you have to do more then just sit up cuz sit ups arent going to make you lose alot of weight thats just making your tummy tighter. You have to run. Do the biking motion with your legs. Jog. Pushups, jumping jacks, if you cant go running outside cuz it might be cold there then run in place! Or run in the garage when theres not cars in there-trixx

Q: how do you become a level 2 or 3 moderators do you have to have a pre paid account

go to the home page and look around on there. or click on help. on the top of this page. there is tons of questions that you might have. and its there to make it easier!!-trixxy

Q: does anyone know any good sites to learn how to belly dance with step by step instructions or know how to belly dance. no instructors or videos/dvds

Im not exactly sure but you could check under askjeeves.com here i looked for you so click this http://web.ask.com/web?q=belly+dancing-websites&qsrc=0&o=0 and go there. Hopefully I helped!! sorry!-trixxie!

Q: I wanted to know is it okay to go out with your best friends Ex boifriend?? I knida wawnt to go out with him. But she says it is okay and totally fine with her but i am afraid that might do something to our relationship? Should I go with him or say no because of my friend???...

its okay as long as she's okay with it. I hate that when my good friends go out with my x.. idk its just how i feel. Exspeacially if someone were to go out with one of my serious boyfriends. I would just hate it. I would just rather some double check with me before they do. So double check w/her. JUst if you are hangin out w/him dont b around her. And vice versa!! Keep those 2 relationships seperate!-trixx

Q: hi
ive got this friend and shes really annoying, she folllows me around EVERYWHERE and i mean EVERYWHERE! even when i want 2 talk 2 my other friends in 'private' she has to come up and listen in. my other friends think shes annoying as well and we dont no what do. and she always leans on my shoulder all the time and when i tell her to get off, she says that shes tired or something like that. PLZE HELP
what can i do/say to stop her from doing it???
luv nickixxxxxxxxx

well nicki.. tell her to get lost. shes like a lost puppy or something. maybe find new friends for her. anyways there is always going to be ppl like that. I had a friend like that named jenny but she was really just wanted to have a friend. so i just put up with it and now i look back and relize she was my best friend. I didnt see it then i just saw her as the annoying girl but just be greatful you have someone that'll be there for you when the whole world walks out!!-trix

Q: Is there ANY way for ANYONE on advicenators to see who wrote a question??

nope its totally confidential!! but you can see the questions if you are at level 2 or higher

Q: IF a friend says bad things behind your back and you and her are the bestest friends in the world should you still be friends with them? I want to but i don't know if that is right or not??

Well you shouldnt just ditch her you have to talk to her first-trix

Q: I really love the laid-back, hippieish, original style of Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen...
Does anyone know where to get clothes that look alot like theirs for not too much money...I'm really not into spending 200 dollars on a teeshirt:-P

playdoe's closet, TJ Maxx, wal-mart, target, k-mart any of those stores work

Q: I dont know what catagoy this would fall under but, any way, here goes.
Lately I have been feeling depressed. I'm not sure why, but I'm bored with everything that was once exciting in my life. My friends, my crushes, my school work. My first term was excelent, but now all of my grades have dropped. I am so lost and I dont know what to do. I feel like I want to run away and start over new. I really need some support or help. Thanks .

Well sounds like you could use some counsoling. We all have low points in our life and sometimes friends can help us and sometimes that cant. Thats when i turned to counsoling and friends both. Getting a bit of both help me out alot. Try that-trix

Q: ok well i have sweaty arm pits i want to tell my mom but i dont know how to..like i was think of saying mom i think i have a problem do you think you can take me to the doctors..and she would probably sat why..i would be like because i have been sweating and i want it fixed..but its to embarrasing to say anything about it...do you have any suggestions?

its your mom you shouldnt really worry about it she isnt going to make fun of you we are not perfect and she knows that. just tell her because the sooner you do the sooner you will be all better

Q: how do girls get horny?

theres numerous diff. ways. A guy can turn em on.

Q: this is for eminem fans out there.. this site never asks about famous people but anyways! In eminems new song mockingbird. Who is laini?

I have no idea but it talks about him also being her dad.. it confused me to! it says Laini I’m talking to you too daddys still here i like the sound of that yeah its got a ring to it dont it

Q: Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not.

I would give it more time

Q: ok well i dont eat anything really... i would say im becoming anerexiox. i know its not good for you but does it mmake you lose weight?

Yeah it can but you can die to

Q: My friends and I might be taking a trip to New York! My crush is going on the trip too! I already told him i liked him! what should i do during the trip with my crush? any suggestions on what i should o or say to my crush?!

Just walk around together. I used to live there its really awesome!! Just look at everything and make sure you go to where the twin towers were. thats amazing there!!-trix

Q: Hey. I'm 14/f and I was wondering if it was weird for a guy to shave "down there".

for a guy? not neccesarily some guys trim and some guys shave and some do neither-trixxi

Q: My parents might get a divorce. And i feel like i should do somthing to try and save their marriage. Is there anyone who has gone through the same problems that i am and can help?

I've gone through that and i actually kind of look back on it as my fault. even though i was a baby. even if it was now you cant really help save it. sorry hun!!-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"