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annoying friend
hi
ive got this friend and shes really annoying, she folllows me around EVERYWHERE and i mean EVERYWHERE! even when i want 2 talk 2 my other friends in 'private' she has to come up and listen in. my other friends think shes annoying as well and we dont no what do. and she always leans on my shoulder all the time and when i tell her to get off, she says that shes tired or something like that. PLZE HELP
what can i do/say to stop her from doing it???
luv nickixxxxxxxxx
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xD I had a friend like that. well.. she wasn't really my friend. She probably doesn't have very many friends, correct? Show some compassion and get over the fact that she is completely clingy and annoying. I know what it's like where you just want to bash someones skull in with a hammer. Don't say anything mean to her because you never know, she could go kill herself and then you would feel really really bad. trust me, you would.. Why don't you get to know her, for all you know she couldnt' be that bad. I had a friend *cough* that used to poke me to no end in first grade, she kept poking me and POKING ME.. and gah.. it was really annoying. And then she could never remember my name.. but you know, later we became really good friends, as you get older you'll get more tolerant of people I've found.
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make excuses to get away from her. like if she calls you say "sorry i cant hang out i have an appiontment today" if shes already with you tell her that you have to go to the bathroom and that you prefer that she stays where she is.hope i helped!
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I think you should let her in..maybe shes just trying to fit in?? If she's still annoying then maybe you should talk to her and see whats going on. As for the shoulder thing maybe she's trying to get your attention?? Talk to her more and stuff..let her feel noticed? I dont know just try that. *good luck*
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well it sounds like your friend is very clingy to you - she obviously really likes you! I think her problem might be that she sees you as her best friend or something - maybe her only friend - so you could try to introduce her to other people you think she might get on with. That way, she might start hanging round with them and lay off you a bit. If that doesn't work, you'll just have to be straight with her and tell her exactly how you feel. Good luck!
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well nicki.. tell her to get lost. shes like a lost puppy or something. maybe find new friends for her. anyways there is always going to be ppl like that. I had a friend like that named jenny but she was really just wanted to have a friend. so i just put up with it and now i look back and relize she was my best friend. I didnt see it then i just saw her as the annoying girl but just be greatful you have someone that'll be there for you when the whole world walks out!!-trix
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tell her to bugg off! i have a friend like that and i swear it bugs the HELL of out me! i just tell her to stop listening in on my conversations and that it's private. tell it to her face. she needs to know... and as of leaning on your shoulder... ew tell her say "i don't care if you're tired, please get off of my shoulder" i do that to my friend and now i actually have privacy and she's still like my close friend
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Just tell her straight up about how you feel about her annoyance. She won't stop unless someone comes up and tells her. Tell her that she needs to mind her business if she was actually not trying to find out people's secrets, maybe you and your friends would tell her them. Just tell her what you told us. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Tell her the truth. Say you dont like that shes on top of you and listening to your conversations. If she comes over to you again, tell your other friends you'll "tell them later". She will eventually get the hint. Please rate! Hope I helped!
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Well jsut tell her she is getting annoying if she annoys then you need to tell her if not she will think that yall are like the best of friends and keep on doing it and if that doesnt work just tell her I need to tell my friends some thing d oyou mind and she probably will leave and if not I dont know
Hoped I helped
Megan
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