A girl's g-spot is about the size of a quarter (I think), inside a girl's vagina, about three inches from her pelvic bone. It's a set of sensitive nerves - supposedly an area that, when stimulated, can help cause an orgasm. It is not the same thing as a girl's clitoris, which is another area that, when stimulated can help cause an orgasm.
Hope this helped clarify!
-Siren =)

If you wanna get rid of pudge, your best bet is to work out a bit. For stomach issues, I suggest crunches. My stomach bothers me a little - I'm not fat at all either - so I do like 25 crunches at night and in the morning when I remember, lol.
I hope this helped a little!
-Siren =)

I think you should always tell someone what's on your mind. If you want to, I say you just take a deep breath and keep it simple. "I like you as more than a friend" would probably work in this situation.
It's up to you whether you tell him or not, obviously, but if you don't, won't you always be curious as to whether he likes you back or not?
I would be...but I'm just a curious girl. Lol.
I hope this helped a little!
-Siren =)

Firstly, I suggest a pencil liner, if you're not already using one. I tried to use liquid... I could never get it to look right, lol.
When you're putting it on your top lid, take the outer corner of your eye with a finger, and stretch it out until your eye kind of closes - don't actively close your eye, though. Concentrate on getting the liner on your lashes - it'll get on your lids, but less of it will go on your lids if you concentrate on your lashes.
As for your bottom lid, pull the bottom of your eye down and concentrate on getting the liner where your lashes meet your lid, but more on the lid than lashes.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)

Well, I would never trust a player, but I've had bad experiences with them. =/
However, I tend to ignore rumors, as they are often wrong, or off in some way. If you like the guy, and he likes you, I say go for it. He might be a real sweetheart and the rumors might be totally off. You never really know until you try, right?
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

The only way to go about doing it is to just tell him what happened: that you just woke up one morning and found it missing from your finger. You looked everywhere, but can't find it, etc.
You can't help that you lost it. Maybe it'll show up somewhere - you never know.
He can't really justify being upset with you for something you didn't really cause. If he asks you why you told him you were cleaning it, just explain to him that you were afraid to tell him the truth. He may be more understanding than you think.
I hope it turns up (and that this helped)!
-Siren =)

The tampon goes into your vagina. There should be a little leaflet thing that comes with tampons - I suggest you read it. It should have diagrams to help you figure out where to put it.
I suggest you sleep with a pad on. If you leave a tampon in for more than eight hours, there's a chance of getting an infection, with all that moisture and all...breeding ground for germs. Not fun.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

You're asking how far WE would go?
Well...I guess I have to say all the way, since I've done that...I've only felt comfortable enough with one guy to do that, though. If you want to know how far you should go, I say go as far as you feel comfortable going. Don't let anyone pressure you, and only do what you want.
-Siren =)

Sounds like a friends with benefits relationship to me...a guy that fears commitment is not necessarily a good thing. I mean, you seem pretty attached to this guy. How would you feel if he DID end up doing something with someone else? If you go through with this whole "step further" thing, you're both still single. He could take "steps" with someone else and you'd probably feel bad about it.
But, if you would feel comfortable with this, go for it. If you think you could handle kissing and cuddling with a guy, but not being able to call him your boyfriend, go ahead.
I wouldn't be able to do it, but that's just me.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

When a girl's "cherry is popped," this refers to the breaking of the thin layer of skin in her vagina called the hymen.
The most common way to break one's hymen is through sex/sexual activity, so "pop your cherry" is usually used to infer that a girl has lost her virginity.
-Siren =)

You should be allowed to take SOME sort of med...Cramps really suck.
If you really can't take meds, the only thing to do is put heat on your back. Like, a heating pad, or one of those heating patches that heat up when you put them on...
If you have time, taking a bath helps.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)

Honey, if anything, you're too skinny, bordering on underweight. I checked my BMI when I was 5'3" and weighed 102 and it said I was underweight - barely underweight, but still.
If you're starving yourself, or making yourself throw up, or forcing food/nourishment out of your system in any way, then chances are you do have an eating disorder.
However, if you're doing none of that, don't start!! Leave your weight the way it is. You don't need to lose anything.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

Keep in mind, first of all, that some people are not made to sing high. I mean, I'm a coloratura soprano - I can hit notes my flute can't play - but I have a friend who's a contralto. She feels more comfortable sitting in the bottom of the staff or under it than in it.
Whatever you do, do NOT push your voice. If your high notes aren't working, ease into them, using scales.
Make sure your throat's relaxed when you sing. If it's not, you'll strain your voice and ruin it.
Your throat should never hurt while singing. If it does, you need to relaaaaaax.
I really reccomend you take voice lessons. Also join choir in school and let the director decide which section to put you in. Don't aim for soprano - you could seriously ruin your voice if you push it.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)

Sadly this is true for a lot of guys. However, if you don't want to be rejecting them every time they approach you, you might want to try getting to know the guy. If he turns out to be a shallow prick, then you can reject him. Lol.
Give them a chance - some guys are worth it. I gave my guy a chance and we'll have been dating for 9 months solid on the 14th. *Shrug*
You've gotta take a few risks when dealing with love or anything along those lines.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

Well, if their relationship is based purely on lust, not love, it may not last long.
I'm sixteen, he's eighteen - My boyfriend and I have had sex six times and we make out when we're together - that's not all we do, but still - we're in a serious relationship, and it's going really well.
*Shrug* It's really up to them - if they can deal with the fact that the lust might not always be there, and their relationship is based on love, too, it may very well last. However, if literally ALL they do is make out and have sex, they may get tired of each other quickly.
There's also no one way to go in a relationship. They're different for everyone, really.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

Plain old rubbing alcohol.
That stuff will get pen off legs and arms and hands, and wherever else you managed to get it. It also takes permanent marker off of other surfaces. You have to work a little, but it still comes off.
I figured this out after losing a fight with some bright colored sharpies...>.<
Hope I helped, lol!
-Siren =)

Who cares what other people say? If you like him, and he likes you, and you think the relationship would work, go for it. The other people aren't the ones that are gonna date him - you are.
Ignore what everyone else says, and go with what your heart says.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)

I'm sorry to tell you that there is no such thing as a perfect guy.
You may be very hot, but if you throw off an air of cockiness, guys will be to afraid to approach you.
You're not the only one with this problem. Some guy will get up the nerve to ask you out. Just wait for it. ^_^
Either that, or go for a guy you like yourself, without waiting for him to make the first move. It's societally acceptable for a female to approach a male nowadays - I'd take advantage of that fact!
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

A long distance relationship can work, but only if both parties are willing to work at it. If both are loyal, faithful, and trustworthy, I see nothing wrong with them.
However, it will be hard not to be able to see your guy every day, or even every week.
I mean, my guy went to Vegas for the summer (he's coming back in six days, but still) and it really hurt in the beginning not to be able to see him.
The cons to this situation mostly consist of your not being able to see each other, and at some point you'll probably worry about him cheating on you, which sucks.
I got worried about it, and I KNOW my guy would never cheat.
It's up to you, really, whether it's a good situation or a bad one.
-Sire =)

Whenever I need to find a name (like for a character in one of my stories), I go to www.babynames.com
GREAT site. You can search by meaning, or just search their database for names, their meanings, and their origins.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)

I'm a laid-back 26 year old with a Psychology BA, starting my MA program, and working my way into the field as quickly as I can. It took me an extra Bachelor's degree (in vocal performance and creative writing) to figure it out, but I was put on this Earth to help, to heal, and to love.

I have made the decision to dedicate my life and career to helping others. I am here to do just that.

I've been a member since 2004, and since I signed up, I've gone through quite a lot and learned quite a lot from it. I'm here to give guidance where I had none; no one should have to go through the difficulties I went through alone.

Feel free to visit my website/blog, if you want to read my experience with domestic violence and my thoughts on it.

***While I do tend to answer mental health and other health-related or medicine-related questions, I am by NO MEANS a licensed physician or practitioner of any sort. Any and all advice I give for these questions is from my own experience or studies.***

If you need to get a hold of me quickly, my screen name on AIM is SirenCytherea. Just let me know you found me here.

I'm a strong believer in the idea that there are no stupid questions except the ones left unasked, so, please, keep an open mind, heart, and mouth.

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