this guy i have liked for a while is now one of my close guy friends.. he is not interested in a girlfriend but talks about how he is attracted to me and wants to be more than just regular friends. he wants us to take it a step further and kiss sometimes... from experience is it a bad idea? were not friends with benefits but he just doesnt like commitement i know he wouldnt do anything with someone else please help me!!
Dont_Fall_Twice answered Saturday August 7 2004, 3:46 pm: *lol* If a guy says that to you and you go along with it, you're setting yourself up for a HUGE downfall. I'm not kidding.. So you're gunna let him kiss you, and you fall for him... But know that he can like leave you and be with another girl at anytime... Just because he doesnt want to commit to you? lol If he was REALLY interested in you like that... He would commit to you.. Trust me... Don't fall for it... Hope all goes well :)
xogiggles37xo answered Saturday August 7 2004, 2:49 pm: being friends with benefits iz sooo much fun!! i kno u guys arnt but thats what itz calld wen ur not boyfriend and girlfriend n ur making out. lol. hav fun!! <3 xogiggles37xo. [ xogiggles37xo's advice column | Ask xogiggles37xo A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday August 7 2004, 2:09 pm: Sounds like a friends with benefits relationship to me...a guy that fears commitment is not necessarily a good thing. I mean, you seem pretty attached to this guy. How would you feel if he DID end up doing something with someone else? If you go through with this whole "step further" thing, you're both still single. He could take "steps" with someone else and you'd probably feel bad about it.
But, if you would feel comfortable with this, go for it. If you think you could handle kissing and cuddling with a guy, but not being able to call him your boyfriend, go ahead.
I wouldn't be able to do it, but that's just me.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
ButterflyKissxx3 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 1:15 pm: Go for it. If you like him and he likes you and all your gonna do is kiss. There's really nothing wrong with that. It's perfectly harmless. If your gonna do something then kiss that's fine as long as you want to do it and he's not forcing you. Hope I helped! <3 [ ButterflyKissxx3's advice column | Ask ButterflyKissxx3 A Question ]
ASKLane answered Saturday August 7 2004, 1:06 pm: If the guy wANTS TO Take it A STEP FURTHER THEN THat is good becAUSE IT IS a step by stpe process so tAKE THat step AND HOPEFULLY THERE WILL BE MORE and more steps to come [ ASKLane's advice column | Ask ASKLane A Question ]
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