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Q: I'm having my 16th b-day party tomorrow, and I have no idea what to do for games. There'll be about 8 people there. Does anyone have any ideas for games for bored high-school students? Lol, thanks!
Spin the bottle 7 minutes in heaven hide n seek :-P call people-trix

Q: I really like this one kid at my school, but i also like someone else, The one kid is someone i could tell anything and he is really easy to talk to but im not sure if he likes me. The other kid is madly in love with me but im not sure if hes the right one. What should i do?
Well find out if you the other one you really like likes you back if not then go out with the other. You dont have to have a boyfriend but go for it. Anyways just find out and if he doesnt then go to the other guy its not like hes a back up though because you already like him anyways-good luck hunni-trix

Q: My best friend and I are going to experiment again. We were wondering is there any other thing we can do while experimenting(. We've already tried French kissing and nibbling on each other. What else can we do like a different way to kiss or something (nothing vaginal!!).
Erotic kissing? haha i dont know.. how to feel eachother up. -trix

Q: Hey, does anyone know what stores have Hello Kitty stuff?
Claires, and hello kitty store

Q: Does anyone know when The Killers, Good Charlotte or Yellowcard are going on tour
i dont know when but you can check the date tables on MTV or at mtv.com-trixxie

Q: ok, here's the deal. i'm an 18 year old dude. i know it sounds silly and stupid as hell but i think i've managed to fall in love with a girl in canada. i'm from the states and we've never met in person before but i'm absolutely crazy about her. i don't know whether or not i should pursue this at all or if it's just a lost cause. i'm not even sure she feels the same, but i have my hints. i know it sounds like such a pathetic/loser scenario but i think i'm mature enough to tell that this girl isn't just any other girl. any input would be nice.
Nice. Yeah I've heard of quite a few of those. My friend has one of them. And my other friend he is constantly falling for girls over the interenet. Just talk to her about it and maybe plan to meet up. Make sure its public. Even though your the guy but still it would make her feel more comfortable maybe the mall or something. Just talk to her about it-trix

Q: i saw your pic it was pretty. well now he seems like im not there. and that he said he loves me but i really dont know if thats real love or love as a friend now. but i really do love him and i miss him so much that i just wanna kill my self. i mean i wont do it because i love my son so much. that i wouldnt be able to live with out him.
im really scared. i really want him back. i did what you told me to and he said he loves me but then why cant we get back together.
thank you
Nickie
Thank you! Well you could always ask him if you 2 were strong before doesnt mean you cant be strong as friends. And you have to get your feelings straight so you do have to ask him. Whoa whoa! you dont want to kill yourself!! Honestly do you think killing yourself over someone who is treating you like this? I dont think so. And yeah things are always going to be diff. between people. He might feel like he will hurt you. I know i felt that way. But sometimes people dont always want to take that risk of maybe actually hurting them. You just got to relize that the grass is always pinker on the other side. And there are plenty of starfish in the sea. Life is amazing so dont waste it off on 1 guy when we have a population of 9 billion!! Trust me there is a guy out there for you!! Some find the right guys early and some find the later on in life. -trixxie

Q: hey!!
ok i really like this guy and one of his friends came up to me and he was like your goin out with him ( the guy i like ) and i was like WhAT! so i dont no if im goin out with him or not i dont no what to do should i jsut pretend liek i dont no wats goin on or talk to him about it??? this is so confusing i mean i like him alot!! and i have waited for him to ask me out forever!!! so yeah what do i do beacuse what if i go up to him and talk to him about it and hes like what are you talkin about? id look like a fool!! haha so yeah plz help me im really confused
*i rate*
thanks
yeah its probably just a joke. I wouldnt really pay any attention to it actually. It was just something his friend said to see if you would react to it or not and act like a fool in front of him im pretty sure that was his intentions-trix

Q: I'm about to buy a new straightener and I wanna make sure I get a good one this time.. I need some advice on what kind of straightener to get (cereamic, glass, gold, etc). I want one that will NOT ONLY straighten my hair really well, but also make it STAY straight all day. What do u all recommend? (something cheap, not over $30) Thanks!! i'll rate HIGH!!
get revlon!! works extremely well!! And is a very good price-trix

Q: I'm getting my nose pierced on Saturday, and I was wondering if anyone got it done, like did it hurt? & If it did how long did the pain last for?? Also. What side should I get it done on?? Left or Right?.. Whats a nice color to start out with? Your favorite color or, a noticeable one. Thanks :)
Get it on the right. Some say it hurt and some dont. It depends on how strong you are and your pain tolerance really. Go with your favorite color. Yellow, Pink, or red would stick out. Or a lime green-trixxie

Q: ok so my best friend amanda is making sooo many wrong choices, she just barely turned 15 and shes been doing weed and drinking and having sex, ive been telling her to stop doin that stuff but she just doesnt listen, she knows its wrong but she is striving for the attention, can you guys please help im soo desperate for help right know i dont know what to do, i rate high!! thanx
Yeah my best friend turned to that stuff. She was depressed and needed help. maybe same goes for your friend. Just a guess though. I went with my friend to the consoular and we both talked about it and she was sent for awhile and is doing not half bad right now. Gots to pick up after being gone but she is doing alright. Maybe you should go to the consoular for this. And no she wont get in trouble with the police well not that i know of because they have to keep it confidential and our consoular did that with us and didnt say a peep-trixxi

Q: like a week ago my boyfriend and i were messing around and i gave him a hand job (he put a condom on) and while i was giving him a hand job he was holding his penis and then when i was done he fingered me and my period hasnt started yet but ive been having cramps lately and i usually get cramps but could i be pregnant?
no

Q: does anyone now how to get a boy to like a girl
typical. be flirtacious. talk. go out-trix

Q: this is aways a problem for me to ask i guy out or wait for him to ask. last year i liked this boy but i thought he should ask me cause it was a boy thing. then in the summer when i was going to 7th grade in one school and he was going to another he told my friend if i had asked he would have said yes. so this year i liked this boy and i asked him out he said no i think i should have gotten to know him better. so what do i do the next time i like someone ask or don't ask?
sorry 4 being so long
dont worry about length. worry about getting this worked out. Wait.. just hang out with them first go to the movies and talk. Thats what I do I hung out with my boyfriend for like 2 months.. before he asked me out. then ask away! It doesnt neccesarily have to be that long but just wait and talk and be friends first-trix

Q: Im going to try out for cheerleading around April or May I just need some advice on what I can do at home to become a better cheerleader...because Im going to be a flyer bc Im really light and I just need to know what kind of streches will help me thx ps I have a trampoline if you can do stunts on that thx you very much!
Just practing jumping high and certain stances. Such as toe touchers, herkies, pikes, and double hook. That way if you do it on the trampoline you wont get hurt!!-trixxy

Q: Ok.. My friend wants to kill her self and when we were at a party she locked her self in a closet and tried to find something sharp to kill her self with and I am really scared for her!

plz help me!
You tell a parent. You need to get that into adult care. that is something extreme

Q: I went out with this guy for about 4 months, all put together. We went out for 2 months broke up he got a gf for a month broke up with her and asked me out and we went out for 2 months then broke up. We dont talk to each other much now either and I dont even talk to his friends like I did before and I really want to talk to him I just dont know what to say or do so if anyone can help me thatd be awesome!
Lol. Just talk to him catch up on good times. Ask how christmas was. How new years was. How finals were. If he is nervous. Anything. -trix

Q: what matches? i am sooo bad at putting matching things together. its so confusing. like does light blue pants and a pink shirt match? when i wore that some people were like that doesnt match and others said it matched really wear! i just want to know some combinations that match together well! ill rate! thanks
nope that doesnt match. Anything shirt matches with black pants, khaki, or white pants and jeans

Q: I am writing an essay for school and the prompt is What Courage Means to me. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas or examples of courage and tips on what I should write.
You could say just having the guts to do something and maybe not wanting to do it but doing it anyways-trix

Q: Ok. The guy i like likes me too. But the thing is he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend or anything! we were talkin and i asked him why he hadn't and then he's all like "what you wanna go see a movie?" GOD! WHAT'S HIS PROBLEM!?!?! HELP PLEASE!
Well give him a chance. Let him breath. my god.. lol he is probably just taking things step by step. most girls arent rushful. Just go to the movies. If you got enough courage again just be like how come you havent asked me out.. as in be your girlfriend. Guys are a little slow to!!-trix

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bAhAmAmA0250
My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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