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LONG-distance call
ok, here's the deal. i'm an 18 year old dude. i know it sounds silly and stupid as hell but i think i've managed to fall in love with a girl in canada. i'm from the states and we've never met in person before but i'm absolutely crazy about her. i don't know whether or not i should pursue this at all or if it's just a lost cause. i'm not even sure she feels the same, but i have my hints. i know it sounds like such a pathetic/loser scenario but i think i'm mature enough to tell that this girl isn't just any other girl. any input would be nice.
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mmk do not hold back on it! if you're sure what you're feeling is real then there is no reason that you shouldnt go for it. i know that people may say that relationships that start on the internet never work but that is not true at all. i know 3 couples that have met on the interent. 2 of the couples are married and the other engaged. just dont rush things. make sure the girl is ready to meet you and is really interested in you. make sure you meet in public. that way there is no chance of anything horrible happening. just be careful and let me know how it goes for you. hope i helped follow your heart hun!!~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~
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ok...IM me and Ill give u my answer cuz I dont want to type it here...
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This is rather interesting. I am type of person who believes that it's better to take a chance, than to miss out on something that can change your life. You don't have anything to lose, and if you feel this person is different, then why not? I met someone that I'm in love with over the internet....although it sounds crazy. It's just important that you keep yourself level headed. You shouldn't go into the situation with too many expectations or incredibly high hopes, but just keep it kool. You would regret it if you didn't take the chance....life is all about risk-taking, and it's worth the shot, when this person could potentially change your life.
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go for it! :)
just be safe.
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your not crazy you just need to meet up with the person face to face because it may seem all perfect but until you see the real deal then it's when your sure your in love.Good LUCK!
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Girls love to lead guys on especially over the computer... for all you know she could be from the states 2 but then again she might not be lying at all. Its a tough call but if you say you love her give it a try who knows you might meet her and she could be the one. Take a friend or a couple of friends and meet her one day, it couldnt hurt, and if she is not what you expected then at least you know to move you. I hope i helped... tell me how it goes or if you need anything else xOx -Diona
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Nice. Yeah I've heard of quite a few of those. My friend has one of them. And my other friend he is constantly falling for girls over the interenet. Just talk to her about it and maybe plan to meet up. Make sure its public. Even though your the guy but still it would make her feel more comfortable maybe the mall or something. Just talk to her about it-trix
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Well..if u havent met the girl..thats ok..just call her and talk and if u really feel that way about her plan a trip there..or she can plan 1 to here..
_-_LuV ya_-_
JeNnA
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