about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

is it okay for a 14 year old girl to go out with a 17 year old guy?

there is seriously nothing wrong with it. you just got to be careful because most guys at that age want sex and nothing else.. it is because of there hermones and tempation. just be careful and dont do anything you dont want to do or anythign your not ready for you. if he doesnt respect that then hun he really isnt worth it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i just got my retanier and i makes me have bad breath i brush my teeth and my retanier and i use listerine on both my teeth and retanier can you please tell me a way i can get better breath

try having mints or gum in your mouth and try even brushin you tongue. that is what i do and it works all the time. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hi i am a guy who shaves his legs. i have recently started to get red bumps on my legs after shaving and they stay there for a long time, they also sting alot too. is this normal? if not what do i need to do to make it stop? thanks for helping and i didnt put this on here to be made fun of i put it here to get a straight answer nothing more.

it is razor burn and it might be because you either shave dry or your not using enough shaving vcream. try using more or even changing your razer. after your done shaving try pttin some lotion on it.hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok my best guy friend in the whole world i love him to death...well he has gone out with like all my best girl friends....and i told him that i like him more then a friend (because i do) and hes like ok and then my friend asked him if he thinks im pretty and hes like who does but he was jokeing cuz he wrote jk after it but then hes like shes hotter then my exgirl friend (who is also one of my good friends) and then i was talking to his brother and he said that he doesnt wanna go out with "your whole crew" and no do anything (he went out with my really god friend and all they did was make out they didnt even talk and he went out with my best friend and they didnt see eachother) but i told him im not like them i talk alot and i would do what ever he wants me to do ........ do you think there is anyway i can get him to like me PS hes like in to rock and im a prep but he doesnt care about that i just thought you should no

it might be that he doesnt want to lose your friendship that you guys have together.. evr thought of that??if you really like so much try talking to him about and explaining to him how you feel about all of this. maybe he thinks friendship is more importnat then being your boyfriend for a couple months??? or maybe he just isnt interasited in you like that.. just talk things out with him and explain to him how you feel. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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My parents gave me a choise. We can either move in a house here or in the other place. Here the school isn't very good, but I know ablot of people. There the school is really good, but I won't know anybody. Yeah I'm bored at my school, cuz it's so easy. But I also have friends. And that other school, supposed to be hard and chalenging (which sounds really nice to me :P) Well And my really good friend goes there. But it's huge and most likely I won't see her.
What should I do? Stay here, or move to another place?

i think you should go to the other place because it will be better for you in the long run. think about firends come and go an education is in important with an education when you grow up you wont have much money to spend and you anything. you can always make new friends i mean it wont be so bad. you can still meet up your friend from the school your going to ever once in a while or whenevr you want. but if this isnt going to help you then all i can say is fallow you heart.
*~Stephanie~*

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what does a tease mean?

a tease is a person who were ever she goes no matter if she has a boyfriend or not she will filirt with a whole bunch of other guy and not do anythign else.. just mess around with there head. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so heres my problem.
my cousin,(josh)is 17 was dating this girl sarah 19...
well josh told me to start talking to sarah to see what i thought of her.
well i did. we became really good friends.
then her brother started listening in our conversations and reading our ims when we would talk.
so she told him to talk to me so he wouldnt be so nosy. so i started talking to him. he's wonderful
he's 2 years older than me and he's wonderful..
so we got together.
even though i had met his sister,i had never met him. well, it turns out i started liking him.
alot
and thinking about him, all the time.and i told him i really liked him. and he said he felt the exact same way so..
he asked me out. and of course, i said yes.
he's almost 15 and i'm almost 14.
i love him, i do. with all my heart and he says he loves me back.i told him i wouldnt let myself
fall inlove until i go to see him in june.
but, i think i already have.
he is exactly what i've always wanted. he's perfect.
i think i'm too young to think he's the one.
but i want him to be. and i think, once i'm older he will be.
i think i might be getting a promise ring when i go see him. as in.. like promise to marry him, promise ring.
because of what his sister tells me.

when ever we have a fight, he immediately says its his fault and that he's sorry.
he says that he'd rather it always be his fault
than for him to be mad at me or me to be mad at him.

am i too young to think he's the one????
pllleeeeaaasssseee help
FAST!!!!!

i'll rate 5's.

if you like him and take a chance and go out with him btu if i were you i would fist find a way to "see him in person" jus to knwo who you like soo much..but after that go out with him since you already know his answer becasue he likes you then take the chance. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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what are the bases..?

not like baseball, like..
kissing
french kissing
making out
sex

etc. etc.

you have it right first base is kissing, 2nd base is french kissing 3rd is making otu and 4th is sex. hoep this helsp you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Can i burn a CD from limewire? and how do i go about that?

you cant really burn the cd off of limewire you need another program.. another problem called Widows media player.. you go to explore and then shared folders then click add to burn list.. if you still dont understand then drop it in my inbox and i will be glad to explain it to you more.. hope ths helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so me and this guy are always "cuddling" so-to-speak, we always lay on the couch together and he always has his arm around me and in other words we're always like having our arms around eachother..but that's all we do and its only for a short period of a time. i don't know how to explain it but how do i like "lead him on" to going further like i want to kiss him or make out with him or something, but without just giving it away. i don't want to just say it or anything, how do i "lead him on" to doing something like that? i'll rate 5's for good answers! =) thank you!

somethings you can do like look him in the eye and like touch his lips or play with them. just while cudding with him first a lot with him.. it might that he is shy or doesnt knwo if you are ready for it.. maybe you can try talking to him about if not face to face maybe on the phone or online.. that is what happened with me and my boyfriend when we started going out he didnt know when i was ready until he brought up what happened that day adn asked me what i would have wanted to happen that day adn we just talked things out. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Has anyone tried the prescription "Benzaclin" for acne? I really tried everything, proactiv/clean&clear/netrogena/clearasil/etc, and none of them are working, or worked...ever. Almost all of my pimples leave scars, and i have alot of pimples around my t-zone. It brings my confidence down so much cause makeup doesnt even cover it up, and a lot of people always point to it and laugh at me, i know its mean but it makes me feel horrible. ive gotten a prescription before but all it did was burn the hell out of my face so i just stoppped using it after a couple of weeks/months. If anyone has tried this prescription please let me know, and how it worked. I'll have to order it online with a credit card or something because we dont have insurance. thanks soo much.
xXx~*~LoRiix~*~Xx

it actually works really good if you use it. i have it and i have a perscribtion on it butfor soem reason i forget to put it on every night...lol.. but what you should do if nothin has worked for you is see a determatologist and ask them to cut them all off for you. ( and no it wont leave you scars) my mom has done this when she was younger about 10 years ago and it didnt leave her any scars because the doctor gave her antibotics to make it so that it wont leave scars. and when they cut it it doesnt hurt and the WONT come back again or at least there not supposed to.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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do i like this guy and he asked me out but i said no because he is kinda weird but now i like him but i would be made fun of if i went out with him so hat do i do

first off why the hell do you care what people think!! you are your own person you are different form them in your own way. no one is the same... are you always going to be living other people life and listening to them and tellin you what to do??? i hope not.. you need to get over the fact that other people will shit about it.. i mean come on if you think about it might just make you popular having the whole school talking about you.. but anyways my point is is shouldnt matter what other people say it is what you think and what you like.. if you liekt hsi guy ask him out and enjoy yourself.. life is short.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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what does this mean?? "the only thing new in the world is the history we do not know?

thanks i'll rate high!

i think it means like we dont know EVERYTHING that is happening around the world and what happens everyday and that is the past (also history) or it can mean like the only new thing in YOUR world is the history You dont know about. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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OK so my boyfriend broke up with me (against my will) and im really heartbroken. He told he the reason was cos his psychiatrist said he was not in the right head space for a relationship.

Ive spoken to some people about the situation in detail and they think the excuse is a fake. I have a number of unanswered questions that i'd like to know the truth to.

Should I ask him or just leave it, cos I dont wanna appear too desperate and neurotic but i would like to know.

Thanks

my personaly advice to you is to leave it alone.. hun think about it if the guy truely loves you he would do anything for you and NEVER leave you no matter how hard it gets you just got to think about the positive things and think about the one person you love and not care what other people think... if he leaves you because his psychiatrist tells him to maybe he is really messed up in the head and needs a psychiatrist..if he truelly care abotu you and loves you he will come back to you.. if not then you have to move on, nothing you can do except find a new guy that is right for you.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I honestly don't know what's wrong with me, and why guys won't ask me out. According to everyone I know, I'm "really really pretty", and I tend to have a lot in common with guys (I like video games, and boy-ish books).

=/ everyone I like ends up liking/dating someone I know, or a friend of mine.

I'm just confused now. I have absolutely no confidence in this matter now.

Just because your a pretty doesnt mean you have a great personality.. not to be mean or anything but hun looks arent everything you have to be an out going soft hearted caring kind of girl that knows how to have fun and be sweet.what you might want to do since you got the looks part is work on your personality. maybe that is why guys wont ask you out because they dont like your personality or they arent interested.. and no one said a guy always has to ask a girl out a girl can do it tooo. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey people if u could help that would be great. Well you see i was going out with this girl and she really liked me. I really liked her too and soo we went on a kind of date not really we pretty much just hung out but it didn't go as well as i thot it would. And by the way this was on a friday. Anyways i was kind of worried because she didn't call me all weekend and i didn't have time to call her. So today when i went to school she wasn't really talking to me and she even seemed kind of mad. So then today after school i called her and I asked her if she was mad at me and she said no but she thinks we should just be friends. In the inside i was really upset but i said that i thought that was a good idea and i was thinking the same thing but i deffinently was not. She was happy that i wasn't mad or upset but i really am upset. What should i do?????

i think you should talk to this girl adn tell her how you really feel and not just agreein with her. you should lie to someone about how you truely feel about them. explain to her how you feel and get it all off your cheast.. keepin your feelins locked up will hurt more then letting it all out. hope this helps you out and i hope everything works out for you.
*~Stephanie~*

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i got my period in june and now its almost september and my breasts havaent started developing is that normal?

yes it is normal and everyone grows at a different rate and i have had my period for about 3 years now and my breast didnt start growing until a year later... hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I really wanna scrunch my hair

i have thin straight hair

Is there any possible way i can scrunch it

If So HOW?? and What can i use??

Thanks♥

you dont need a striaghten to scrunch your hair. this is all you do..
1) when you get out the shower brush you hair then with a towel like rub all the hair on it.
2) put a hand ful of gel in your hair and scrunch you hair with your hands by puttin your hands through your hair and push you hair up from the bottom.. do this for about 2 minutes.
3) then when you hair is a lil dry you mighty want to put some hair spray in it...
hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it wrong for me to be a little jealous/upset that my boyfriend just left my house to go out hang out with his "Best Friend" [which I've never heard of] who happens to be a girl?

dont worry it is completely normal dont worry about it.. i mean i got jealous of my ex when he was always around girls.. it is perfectally normal and you shouldnt worry about it.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I told my friend how I serious loved this guy and the guy told me that he liekd me but he keeps playing mind games with me. So I told my friend I NEED to get over him somehow and he said "just get rid of everything that reminds you of him and just don't think about him." So I did that and I seriously didn't think about him at all and I got rid of everything that reminded me of him. Then that night, I had a freakin dream about him..just when I was startin to stop thinking about him.It seems like everytime I try to forget about him and I'm doin good I have a dream about him that night. What's going on and how can I stop this???? ILL RATE 5'S!!

*** if you cant get soemone out of your mind maybe there are supposed to be there*** but if you want to get over this guy you need to move find another guy that attracks your attention or like.. if that doesnt work then i think you should talk to the guy that you like explain to him how you feel about him playing games on your mind.. guys are seriously werid at times and they dont know how to e3xplain themself sometimes and play stupid games.. so just talk to him about it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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