Hey people if u could help that would be great. Well you see i was going out with this girl and she really liked me. I really liked her too and soo we went on a kind of date not really we pretty much just hung out but it didn't go as well as i thot it would. And by the way this was on a friday. Anyways i was kind of worried because she didn't call me all weekend and i didn't have time to call her. So today when i went to school she wasn't really talking to me and she even seemed kind of mad. So then today after school i called her and I asked her if she was mad at me and she said no but she thinks we should just be friends. In the inside i was really upset but i said that i thought that was a good idea and i was thinking the same thing but i deffinently was not. She was happy that i wasn't mad or upset but i really am upset. What should i do?????
I think the important thing to find out now is why she was upset. Was it something that was done or said, were her parents upset, were her friends unhappy with it. Whatever the case, it will probably make you feel better to approach this reasonably and without gushing your heart out at her.
mandawhy answered Tuesday August 30 2005, 3:00 am: Honesty is (most of the time) the best policy, man. Tell her how you feel. She'll either re-evaluate her feelings, or just stick with what she said she wanted in the first place. Either way, don't forget that there are plenty of more cool girls out there for you. [ mandawhy's advice column | Ask mandawhy A Question ]
3cute102 answered Monday August 29 2005, 7:24 pm: i think you should tell her how you really feel then she doesn't think your lieing or anything cause in a relationship, you have to be completely honest. hope this helps!! [ 3cute102's advice column | Ask 3cute102 A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Monday August 29 2005, 6:54 pm: i think you should talk to this girl adn tell her how you really feel and not just agreein with her. you should lie to someone about how you truely feel about them. explain to her how you feel and get it all off your cheast.. keepin your feelins locked up will hurt more then letting it all out. hope this helps you out and i hope everything works out for you.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
x0oOHUGSNKiSSES answered Monday August 29 2005, 6:28 pm: my advice to you is to talk to her about it ... like get together with her and talk one on one ... not on the phone because she could cut you off ... together both of you in the same room ... talk and if she doesnt want to say anything or tell you what is wrong ... there was no need to be with her anyway because to have a good relationship with someone you HAVE to talk to eachother about your problems or whats bothering you ... so talk to her about it and if she doesnt want to talk then there was no need for you to like her in the first place
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