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Should I ask or just leave it?
OK so my boyfriend broke up with me (against my will) and im really heartbroken. He told he the reason was cos his psychiatrist said he was not in the right head space for a relationship.
Ive spoken to some people about the situation in detail and they think the excuse is a fake. I have a number of unanswered questions that i'd like to know the truth to.
Should I ask him or just leave it, cos I dont wanna appear too desperate and neurotic but i would like to know.
Thanks
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my personaly advice to you is to leave it alone.. hun think about it if the guy truely loves you he would do anything for you and NEVER leave you no matter how hard it gets you just got to think about the positive things and think about the one person you love and not care what other people think... if he leaves you because his psychiatrist tells him to maybe he is really messed up in the head and needs a psychiatrist..if he truelly care abotu you and loves you he will come back to you.. if not then you have to move on, nothing you can do except find a new guy that is right for you.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Leave it alone. Eat some ice-cream and cry it out.
Whether or not that is actually what his physiatrist says the fact that a.) he would dump based solely on what the physiatrist said without even talking to you about or b.) he made up a lame excuse to dump you, means he is not in the right mind set to be in a relationship.
This guy sounds like he has some issues but you don't need to tag alone for the ride, especially since *he* dumped *you*.
Lying and refusing to talk seriously about something is not the way people show they care for each other, so let this one go.
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Well, if I were you I would definately leave it alone for a little bit. Give it a few weeks, and then if nothing happens you should talk to him about it. Ask him what his psychiatrist said other than saying "he was not in the right head space for a relationship." To me, that sounds like crap. Ask him in what way was he not in the right head space for a relationship. If you start asking him right away, you will sound desprate. Give it 2 weeks TOPS and see what happens.
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