I'm 14/f. Yesterday I found out that one of my closest guy friends likes me in a romantic sense. Let's call him "Jordan." He has liked me for possibly a year. We have been friends since we were 2 years old. I have just recently, a month ago, started liking him in a romantic sense. My problem is that I did like another guy let's call him "Dave" for a year and a half. I fell hard for him. I only saw him once over the summer. I have since stopped liking Dave as much as I used to. Possibly because I haven't seen him, and possibly because I have just gotten over him. I don't like Jordan as much as I used to like Dave. Jordan asked me out and I am afraid to say yes in the event that I see Dave and fall head over heels for him again. I like the friendship that me and Jordan share. I don't want any awkwardness between us. I get EXTREMELY nervous around guys that like me. What should I do? Should I go out with Jordan and hope for the best? Or should I say I want to stay friends? I feel that knowing that we like each other is enough and that it also leaves the possibility open to dating and a relationship. I should also mention that I have never had a real boyfriend before. Sorry this is so long, but I could really use some good advice.
Go out with "Jordan".
-xXoBrianna
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Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer.
If you like him that much then yes, but I say give him one more chance and if he's still a player, find someone new. Good luck =)
-xXoBrianna
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my best friend went out with this guy that i liked and i found out that this guy doesnt even really like her and he likes me...he broke up with my best friend and then asked me out...i dont noe wut to do cuz my friend said shes not mad but i noe she is wut should i do?
If you like him, go out with him. He doesn't belong to her.
-xXoBrianna
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Ok...to start off, my b/f moved to Georgia back in July and now all his friends are calling me and wanting me to go places with them. And the thing is, they know that I still love my b/f. Me and my b/f still talk on the phone every night and he found out that his friends have been calling me and he got mad at me! When I can't help that they called me. But he wants me to tell them to leave me alone. But how do I say it nicely without hurting their feelings? They already know that I still love my b/f.Please help me..I don't know what to do.
If they are your friends too, then why would you want to leave them alone. If they're not, just tell them that just because your boyfriend moved doesn't mean they can be animals like they are.
-xXoBrianna
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i have this one friend of mine who whenever other people are around, especially guys, she gets really obnoxious. She become loud and annoying trying to be the center of attention. She put on her annoying girly act, and its just frustrating because she never acts this way when its just me. How can i show her obnoxious she's being without her screaming at me?
Dude, that's just how one of my friends are. It pisses me off. I say, right when you guys are hanging out with boys or whatever, ask her - - "(Name), Why are you being really loud and obnoxious today? You never act like this when it's just me and you, only when we're around boys." That'll piss her off but why would you be afraid of her screaming at you anyways?
-xXoBrianna
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i have acne...more then most of my friends...but not ALOT of acne...i want to try proactive but im not sure if i have bad enough acne...is there any other tricks to ged rid of them fast and make your face look clear and smooth?
(i get it around my nose and on my chin every once in a while)
Thanks for the help!!!
I hardly have any pimple or acne or whatever and I use pro active. It doesn't matter how bad your skin is, it will still clear it.
-xXoBrianna
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everyone at school makes stuff up about me like rumors saying im a slut and my boyfriend from a different school wants to meet my friends, but i dont want them to talk crap. people also say stuff that is not true like saying i talk about people when i dont!!!
what should i do??
I have the same problem. Don't even give them the time of day, you know your not a slut and you don't talk about people soo, don't even pay attention to them.
-xXoBrianna
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My first day of school is soon and I'm going to be a sophmore in HS. Some freshman boys, that I know are coming to my school, are very mean to me and start rumors. One of them is my ex boyfriend and he always says spreads mean things about me. I don't know what to do, because the things they say about me are embarrasing and horrible. I'm so scared that the whole school is going to be making fun of me when they come. How do I stay calm and make sure they don't start on me this year?
Deny it.
-xXoBrianna
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ok well theres this guy and we had a relationship 4 a lil while but it ended so we talked on occasion. now he only wants 2 hang out when my best friend is here. i asked if he likes her and he sayd no but it doesnt make sense then. then i thought it was 2 hook his firned up with her but his friend has a girlfriend, my friend says its 2 try 2 get me jealous but i dont no if thats it, wha do u think?
He likes your friend.
-xXoBrianna
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Okay so i have these two best friends..and we`re all best friends. One of them changed completely just for her boyfriend and then when the other one pointed it out, the first one got pissed off and now they`re not friends anymore. Now, one of them deosnt care that theyre not friends anymore but the other one does, and she keeps telling me about how unhappy she is. Ugh, i have no idea what to do. I want them to be friends again, but i dont know wtf im supposed to do about it.
Sorry if this is long and confusing, but oh well.
Let them figure it out.
-xXoBrianna
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how wud u have a conversation w/ a guy who like sports and cars w/out having to talk about sports and cars?
Talk about his life or something.
-xXoBrianna
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hey. my name's ren. well, to start off. i just started back to school, everythings going great. i'm so happy. i'm doing good, getting every accomplished. i know it's my junior year & i have to buckle down.
but theres still a part of me thats lonley and sad. all i feel like doing is sitting in my room, cry, listen to my music, cut, and read.
i'm a recovering cutter. i still every-so often cut, but.. i don't know what wrong with me.
please help.
Go out and have fun?
-xXoBrianna
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Hey, my girlfriend and I are really close and i love her so much but lately she doesnt seem as interested in me as her friends, i don know maybe its just me but it feels like she doesnt like hanging out with me anymore, even though i know she loves me. please help me.
Too much of seeing your boyfriend/girlfriend is never a good thing. Believe me. Give her space.
-xXoBrianna
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okayy theres this guy that i like and i think he likes me cuz hes always like lets be partners and we do this card swap thing and hes like hey find the card that matches mine and switch with them so we can be together...ha i think he does but how do i know for sure..haha
That's cute. Maybe he is just your friend and your misinterpreting it. Umm, if he flirts with you alot and wants to hang out alot or something. I don't know, ask him.
-xXoBrianna
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me and my friend are on a diet and it doesnt seem ti be working! we have tried the fruits and veggies diet but i doesnt help at all!
Drink alot of water, don't eat any carbs or fats. Try eating alot of meat.
-xXoBrianna
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hey my first day of 8th grades coming up in like a week n idk what to wear! i got this cute white skirt from hollister n its like ruffled i guess you could say, n it has a little blue in it and i was thinking about wearing that with like a blue tank top an a white zip up type thing since were not allowed to show our shoulders..do you think thats okay? cuz im trying to wear new things this year n everyone always comments on my clothes but do you think its an okay first day outfit?
Wonderful.
-xXoBrianna
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My boyfriend and best friend used to be extremely tight. A little while ago, they got into a huge fight and after that they weren't talking. My best friend thinks I should dump him and that he's no good. My boyfriend thinks my best friend's crazy and I should forget her. I'm now in a tug-of-war with my own boyfriend and best friend! How do I get this two to stop hating eachother so I can get some sort of relief?
Tell them to knock off the bull shit and tell them both that you love them both and to stop talking about them.
-xXoBrianna
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see my friend she always flirts w/ this boy i like and it gets me sooooo mad am i just jealous and should i tell my friend to stop i know she does it on accident but she does it everyday! so help plz
Don't be by them at the same time, so they can't flirt.
-xXoBrianna
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ugh ok..well theres this guy that i have liked forver, and we had or thing at one point or another and now he hates me, like...we dont even talk, and i didnt even do ne thing 2 him..ii guess he just d0sent wanna have anythiiing t0 d0 with me...but iidk...iim jsut siick 0f lo0kin in every's inf0'z and seeing.."bob..ilusm togegether 4evA" idk jsut like seeing all these copples 2 gether...knowing i dont have that, i men i havent jad a bf in fereever n idk it jsut hurts..alot..n ik every1 syas that its worth tha wait but yah it kiils...
It's not worth the wait. It's not even worth the time. Boys are dumb. You need to learn how to spell to.
-xXoBrianna
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Well i just found out my friend (D) likes me and i guess i like him to but i like his friend (F) more than i like (D). i really dont no wut to do!!!! Please HELP!!
Go out with "(F)" since you like him more than "(D)".
-xXoBrianna
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