My boyfriend and best friend used to be extremely tight. A little while ago, they got into a huge fight and after that they weren't talking. My best friend thinks I should dump him and that he's no good. My boyfriend thinks my best friend's crazy and I should forget her. I'm now in a tug-of-war with my own boyfriend and best friend! How do I get this two to stop hating eachother so I can get some sort of relief?
LilLazy answered Saturday August 28 2004, 1:30 am: ive bewen in this same situation before, well actually i still am in that situation the only way you can get them to start being coo again is to have them beoth sit down and talk to each other, and if taht doesnt work then tell your boyfriend that she/he is still gonna be your bestfriend and then tell your bestfriend that he/she is still gonna be your boyfriend...
Twinkle7371 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 1:26 am: Well i dont think theres going to be any stoping them from hateing each other so just tell them that you dont want to be stuck in the middle of it and so when they bring it out back yourself out of the topic. Hope it helped [ Twinkle7371's advice column | Ask Twinkle7371 A Question ]
russianspy1234 answered Saturday August 28 2004, 12:51 am: who ever asked you to choose between the two of them first is the one you ditch,actualy if they both asked then neither of them cares about you there an old saying "Accept me for who I am, my friends are part of who I am" not sure if thats exactly how it goes but its clsoe enough. they should have been mature enough to hang out with you at different times, if not then neither of them deserves you since you care enough to come here and ask for advice [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Saturday August 28 2004, 12:04 am: Tell them to knock off the bull shit and tell them both that you love them both and to stop talking about them.
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