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Question Posted Friday August 27 2004, 8:58 pm

Okay so i have these two best friends..and we`re all best friends. One of them changed completely just for her boyfriend and then when the other one pointed it out, the first one got pissed off and now they`re not friends anymore. Now, one of them deosnt care that theyre not friends anymore but the other one does, and she keeps telling me about how unhappy she is. Ugh, i have no idea what to do. I want them to be friends again, but i dont know wtf im supposed to do about it.
Sorry if this is long and confusing, but oh well.


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Here-To-Help answered Saturday August 28 2004, 11:33 am:
Trust me, I've had many situations like that where I was in the middle just like you. I would try to help and stuff, but it just wouldn't work...one of them cared and the other one didn't...but eventually it all worked out in the end (which doesn't always happen I might add)...But I'm just thankful it all worked out.

I hope it works out for you and your friends too, but honestly I would just let it take its course because it's not fair for you if you try to bring them back together. I mean you will feel really good if you succed at it but it will just hurt more if you fail...=(

so just let what happens happen as much as it sucks...
Good Luck...
*hug*
Gessyka <3

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xxoBriannax answered Saturday August 28 2004, 12:14 am:
Let them figure it out.








-xXoBrianna

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jesikuh977 answered Friday August 27 2004, 11:39 pm:
i think they should have a looong talk about what they both think, theres always 2 sides to a story and i think they should both see what the other one thinks, maybe that'll settle things out...

*jesikuh

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xForeverxForgottenx answered Friday August 27 2004, 10:35 pm:
try asking the one friend why they wont be friends with the other. maybe its more then they're saying or you dont know all of it. but tell them both that you want to be friends with both of them but you dont want to be put in the middle of their fight. hope i helped.

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xObRiTT answered Friday August 27 2004, 10:18 pm:
tell the friend that doesnt care that ur otha friend that does care..they shoiuld try talkin to each other nd work things out. nd tell them that u dont wanna be put in the middle!

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ljk88 answered Friday August 27 2004, 10:13 pm:
happens all the time! tell the one who doens;t care that you hate being in between the two. tell her how hard it is on you. they may not be friends again but hopefully they will able to be civil to each other!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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bAbiiSoObLoNdE22 answered Friday August 27 2004, 10:07 pm:
if i were you i would tell youre friend that doesnt care anymore about - the other friend that does care - because if yall were close she/he shouldnt let little fights get to them! =)

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