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Hi my name is Jen - I am 33 and married; a graphic desinger, a big sister, movie lover, horse rider, and board game nerd.

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Member Since: July 1, 2004
Answers: 141
Last Update: July 15, 2004

Rated: 29 times
Average Rating: 4.52

how cum im not a moderator, and how do i become a moderator?????????

I believe you have to be a member for a least 2 weeks. See what tommarow brings. Otherwise ask the site admistrator.

**You have been a member for a just a day over two weeks, but usualy todays ratings are not calculated until tommarow. I bet tommarow you will see your stars!

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Oh, gosh! I have a canker sore, but I forgot about it yesterday after I had already given my boyfriend head. Should I be worried about him developing Herpes or anything else?

That wasn't the smartest idea, but I think you will both be ok. It's cold sores-(outside your mouth with hard cap) that you have to worry about. Be more careful and aware!

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I have been doing crunches regularly for a while now and I only see little results of a six pack. Do you know of any other ways I can get a six pack a little bit quicker?

If you do the same routine all the time, your body will get use to it. Change up your routine. Do them slower or faster one week. Push yourself and do more reps, and then less the next time. Also twist your body left or right when doing sit-ups to work your sides. As someone suggested, Pilates works great. All the excersice focuse on using your bodys center "powerhouse", your stomach.

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mmk. i really like this guy i met on a cruise, and he lives about two hours away. he's 3 years older than me, and is in college. i realllllly want to date this boy, but i'm not sure if the distance will work out. BLAH. he's coming to visit me really soon, but i know i'll be attached when he leaves again. should i just call the whole thing off, and prevent any future heartbreak now, or should i atleast give this a chance.

Here is a question, are you in college, or still in highschool. Peoples mind frames are so different between highschool and college. That frist year of college people chage so much. I say you wait a while because you are walking into a new chapter of you life, and you don't want to ruin that experience by trying to starting a long distance relationship with someone. I think it would really hold you back to some wonderful new expericnces.

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this guy i know wants to get back with me after he hurt me once got back with me hurt me again and then while i was getting over him he made out with a 12yr old girl when he is 18 and now he thinks everything is ok?

Stay away from him, and maybe even call the police. This man is a child molester! He needs help.

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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me

If you scared then you are deffinetly not ready. Unless you are 100% confident about having sex, then you are not ready. You don't want to have any regrets. Personaly I think you are far to you to be thinking about sex anyway. You still a kid. You are not old enough to handel the responsibilities or consquences of sex. Don't feel presured about sex. If he leaves you because you won't sleep with him, then he never really loved you.

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i really like this guy. but he lives in another state. i dont get to see him very often, but i can talk to him online or on the phone. should i ask him out?

Don't start a long distance relationship unless you have a goal in mind. Do you know when you could be together and live close? A long distance relationship with uncertaintly will never work.

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dear advicenators,

i like this boy and he doesnt like me...i want to go out with him but i dotn know what to say....what should i say to him?

love,
sammie

Why exactly do you want to go out with someone that doesn't even like you? I guess you could ask him if he wants to go out to confirm you suspisions. But if he says no, then it is time to forget about the boy.

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i just won tickets to go and see the "special sneak preview" of "I, robot"... are the tickets for a PREVIEW? or for the movie itself? please answer this soon soon soon! (i rate people)

You should be seeing the actual movie! A lot of the movies often have special sneak previews a week or two before it is released. Congrats!

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IM USUALLY NOT ALLOWED TO SPEND THE NITE AT PEOPLE'S HOUSE BUT I ALWAYS ASK NE WAYZ AND THREE NITES AGO I ASKED MY PARENTS AND THEY SAID YES SO I SPENDED TEH NITE AT MY FRIENDS HOSUE LETS SAY HER IS aNNA* I'VE KNOWN ANNA FOR 5 YEARS AND I'VE ONLY KNOWN MY NEW FRIEND FOR 1. SO SHE GOT REALLY MAD AT ME FOR NOT SPENDING THE NIGHT AT HER HOSUE AND YES TO ANNA'S HOUSE BUT I GUESS MY PARENTS HAVE TO KNOW THE OTHER PEOPLES PARENTS TO LET SPEND THE NITE.I WILL RATE A 5 TO ANYONE WHO ANSWER THIS QUESTION!!!!

Do your parents let you have sleepovers at your house? Next time ask if both your friends could sleep over, then no ones feelings are hurt, and you are still under you parents suppervision.

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i liked this guy for a realllly long time, he knows but hes older and my parents dont like him and he only views me as a friend. every1 says how mean he is and stuff but hes extremely nice ta me, i really want to get over him thou because i know nothing will ever happen between us at least not rite away. i really think i am in love with him but i jus wana live my life rite now. i havent even had a stable b/f in soo long because i am so hooked on this guy its ridiculous! how can i get over him?!

It is good to see someone making a smart decision rather than just doing what they want. That's your first step, thinking logicaly about the situation. You listend to your family and friends. You know he is no good for you (at least for now). To get over him you need to fill you life with other people and activites so he is not on your mind. Be staying occupied and meeting new people, with time you will forget about him, and hopefuly find someone better.

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i have bad acne scars on my back i don't get acne on my back any more but do u know how i can make the scars go away? Mary 14

I have problems with back acne as well, but I am not really sure about scars. For me they go away with time. Lotions with vitamin E are suppose to help with stretch marks. I guess that is the only thing I can think of. Try researching dermatology on the internet.

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hey folks... i need a little help here. i weigh 200lbs and am 5"7... (i'm 14, female) i really need to lose some weight. i don't need to lose it real fast... just like, 10 or 15lbs in the next month and a half... any tips?

I just joined this website CalorieKing.com.

It helps me count my calories. I am trying to stay under 1500 a day. I have been doing it for two weeks and have already lost 5 lbs! You really just need to pay attention to what you are eating.
Before I started paying attention to what I was eating, I figured I was eating 2500 calories or more a day! No wonder I was gaining weight. Cutting away over 1000 calories every day makes a huge difference. And you don't have to eat less, and starve yourself. I use to drink pop all the time. 2 cans of pop is like 500 calories right there, what a waste! Now I have switched to diet, or water with lemon! A little change like that can make all the difference! I also stear clear of fatty foods, and pasta is only an ocasional thing now.

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hey i am wondering about like abercrombie and the expencive stores like that...why do they have to cost soo much all the cute stuff costs way too much. how can i get the money?

Abercrombie can charge the prices they do because they know the rich little preppy kids will pay it. You should learn to barging shop. Shop only on the clearance racks. I can't remember the last time I paid full price for clothing. Styles chage so fast, it's not worth spending $50 on a shirt you are going to wear for only one season.

As for money, get a summer job, and if your too young, try babysitting, dog walking, or mowing lawns for family and neighbors.

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does anyone know of any websites that u don't have 2 pay @ all 2 download music? like, no download fee, no paying 4 the music @ all? if u do, tell me. thx.
erin

Didn't you hear, thats illegal.

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Is it true that eating junk food can cause pimples?

Of course. Acme is caused by too much grease and oil in your skin. By eating fatty foods, you are putting more grease into your body.

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I have very bad acne, on my neck collar bone and top back, but nothing bad on my face. it is sooooooooooooooooooooo gross!!!! i cant even wear half my clothes anymore cause i dont want it to show!!! my parents tell me to lay in the sun and stop eating junk food and i havent broken out but the marks and bumbs are still there! ive tried phisoderm and stridex and clinique but nothing has worked! i have seen no difference besides eating healthy and laying in the sun. does anyone know any good products??

I had the same problem in highschool. People would always ask me "What's wrong with your sholders?" They thought I had some weird rash. It was always upseting.

Have you tried Nutrigena Body wash? That seemed to help me. Get a luffa and scrub those areas well.

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i always itch on my lips(not where my mouth is). it burns and turns red. i kno i dont have a yeast infection because theres nuthin else wrong i just burn and i dont shave my lips so i kno its not razor burn. i also keep myself clean so i have no clue wuts wrong.

It could be a soap or body wash you are using. But if it really bothers you, you should see a doctor.

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I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex?

No one but you can answer that question. You know when you are ready. If you have even one bit of doubt then your not.

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im 16/f and i weight 110 pounds. am i really really skinny???

This question is asked nearly every day now! No you are not too skinny!

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