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hey, my 8th grade graduation is coming up and i really wanted to pick out and sing a nice 8th graudation song and it would be really helpfulf u guys gave me some advice or ideas of what to sing.
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"Graduation Day" by the Four Freshmen is a longtime standard on such occasions.
But just to be funny:
Pink Floyd's "The Wall"
"See You Later Alligator" by Bill Haley and the Comets
"My Old School" by Steely Dan
"School's Out" by Alice Cooper
"Generation Landslide" by Alice Cooper
"I'm 18" by Alice Cooper
'Jailbreak" by Thin Lizzy
"I'm Free" by the Who
"Education" by the Kinks
"Be Cruel to Your School" by Twisted Sister
"Leaving Here" by Motorhead
"I'm an Adult Now" by Pursuit of Happiness
"So Long Baby Goodbye" by the Blasters
"This Party's Over (Get the Fuck Out)" by Skid Row
"My Purgatory Years" by the Quick
"My Back Pages" by The Byrds
"Don't Bogart That Joint" by Fraternity of Man
"Too Drunk to Live, Too Young to Die" by Alcatrazz
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Ok about 2 weeks ago fromboyfriend returned from Canada where has been working from time to time for his job. He travels thru different states as well but not too far from PA. I gave him head the night he returned and as of las Thursday May 12th I started breaking out with sores in my mouth. He claims he is not cheating and understands where they could of came from (sexually transmitted), but I also read that he just could be a carrier of the Virus1 as well. How do I know if he is or isn't cheating by the sores in my mouth? And he is also on Gmail alot and says he only uses it for bills or reservations for hotels he stays at for work. Funny when I have the same and on the chat as well and can tell when he is on and so is his video as well. And gets all annoyed when I ask him to go chat video or chat with me and says he doesn't like using it all the time only when he is in Canada for sake of rates on the phone and only if he has real bad signals in hotels for his cell. But yet if I see he is available he gets very annoyed with me about it. What do I do?
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Here is a rule to live by:
If your gut is telling you something seems funky it is. ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT! He shouldn't be getting annoyed when you talk to him unless he is in the middle of something important (which doesn't include playing video games or some other trivial endeavor).
I think you need to get the herpes treated by a doctor and then move on. You also need to tell him you got the herpes from him and make sure that your girlfriends pass the word around so as to reduce his opportunities to spread it.
Incidentally, you may also be able to sue him for transmitting it if you want to really take the revenge thing a ways. But you will need to talk to an attorney to get the lowdown on that.
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I have a friend that I have known a long time. I have a big crush on him but I'm really scared to tell him. I tried to be around him without coming on too strong but he don't talk much to me just small talk. I know he's not shy because talks to everyone else easily and he's very sociable. So I was thinking maybe he doesn't like me but my friend said she saw him looking at me and that he might just be intimated and wants me to make the first move. I'm not sure which side is true. What do u think?
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Guys often clam up in front of women they like because they don't want to say something that may turn her off. A lot of these guys then hope that the girl will basically post a billboard saying, "come and get it!" This is usually a hopeless gambit. If you really want him you gotta hit him over the head with it. Tell him how much you like spending time with him, touch him a lot, tell him he's cute or, better yet, ask him out on a date.
Look at the last one this way: you will know how tense it is for guys when they are the ones left to make the approach. And if he rebuffs you, you will know how that feels, too. This is good for you understanding how males function.
Finally, in my personal life, when someone has told me a girl liked me they really did. Then I just move in and close the deal. You could have one of your girlfriends tell him you like him and he can take it from there.
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Ive known one of my best friends for 3 years and i have really strong feelings towards her but i have a girlfriend. latley me and my girlfriend have been drifting apart. weve been together for over a year but we did break up once cuz she wanted to date guys while she was with me(its a long story). so i think its time for us to break up. anyways i told my friend that i like her but she said she doesnt feel the same way and that she couldnt hurt my girlfriend like that. would she say tht she likes me if i broke up with her? does she not want to feel guilty cuz she thinks she "stole" me from my girlfriend? i dont know what to do i like her alot and really want to be with her (link)
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Dude, if it feels like it is time to break up then what are you waiting for? It does sound like your relationship has run its course (and she is bored). Since she basically insulted you by dropping you specifically to date other dudes, then you can dump her to get with other girls.
My warning, though, is this: do not put all your eggs in one basket. Your friend may still think of you as mostly a friend, which means you will never see her naked. The friend list is a kind of sexual exile.
So your best bet is to be seen dating around and since women are competitive with each other she may feel she needs to act now or risk losing you if she has any sexual interest in you. If she shows no interest in you that way, don't keep hitting on her nor should you give her any of your other time since that time should be spent on women who may be a lot more interested. Guys who pine after chicks who have put them on the friend list are pathetic and that is the way girls see it.
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How do you show your girlfriend you wont mess up anymore an that she can trust you? (link)
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Trust is easy to lose and often impossible to regain.
You don't give enough information. If you were cheating on her then I doubt she is going to ever completely trust you.
But again, I need more context to answer your question.
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im a teenage boy, and i know you might all say that
"you are too young to be worrying about girls..."
but i think i am in love with my gf, well my ex.
She dumped me because i was a senior and she is a freshman. I know everybody in HS doesnt like the idea of a senior and a freshman, and everybody says it wont last, but for some reason i think she is special, and i cant get her off my mind that its destroying me. And please dont tell me to get over her... because ive tried that, and my heart wont let me get over her.
And i know that the whole senior-freshman thing might seem like its a biggie, but i have ALOT of girlfriends who are seniors like me who have dated older guys, since they were freshman too. like they literally stayed with a college guy throughout all 4 years. Thats what i want with this girl, and i know that she only dumped me because all her friends told her to since they thought i was a perv for going for a freshman. How do i know if i am in love with her? (link)
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First, don't let anyone outside the relationship ever intervene in it. It is your life and only you can live it and determine what makes you happy, so take control of your life and ignore busybodies. Too many people just can't mind their own business.
But listen dude, here is the thing: your brain will keep developing until around age 25. During that time, your view of how the world works, your sensibility, what you want out of life and who you want in it is going to evolve a lot. That is why almost no high school relationships survive very long. People grow apart.
In addition, everyone needs that exploratory phase of their life or they will later regret it. That is why you shouldn't get tied down to one girl at your age. Date around, scope out different facets of life and move on from there. In fact, once you graduate college, you should live overseas, which is a good way to reset one's life and really get in touch with your strengths and weaknesses.
Moreover, part of becoming an adult is learning to deal with failure as well as loss. You can't always have what you want. In addition, you're showing yourself being so needy that you can't get past your ex turns other girls who would otherwise think of wanting to be with you (and who may end up actually being better for you) to go elsewhere. Women hate that smell of desperation and clinginess.
So what you need to do is turn the negative into a positive by dispassionately analyzing what went wrong with the relationship. And by that I don't mean trying to assign blame, but evaluating what were your strengths and weaknesses in the relationship, what did you learn about women, what was working in the relationship and what wasn't and how are you going to conduct yourself in your next relationship.
Yeah, the loss of someone you loved is a bitch and so is having to date around trying to find "the one." But life is what it is and you have to make your peace with it. And sometimes, negative outcomes (getting fired, breaking up with someone, etc) turn out to be gateways to something better. That isn't a cliche, it is the truth as long as you don't spend your time wallowing in self-pity.
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im 18 years old and a dude.
how do i heal from a heartbreak? ive dated this girl for a year, and now we broke up. how do i get better? it sucks honestly, but any tips? (link)
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There are a number of things going on here:
First, the lamentation of wasting time on a relationship that didn't work out.
Secondly, just the overall sense of loss.
Thirdly, natural teenage insecurity. You're afraid you might not get a girl again plus, let's face it, being on the prowl for a new chick is a pain in the ass.
The way to look at this is not, "oh God, she isn't in my life anymore, wah wah wah," but, "what have I learned from this? What went wrong and what went right? What were my strengths and weaknesses in the relationship? What have I learned about women so far in my life when I look at my previous relationships?"
Also, keep in mind that, upon reflection, the sensibilities of the people involved in a relationship turn out to be too different, even with the best of intentions, to make it possible for the relationship to succeed.
Try to be dispassionate about this. Too many people react non-constructively because their egos are bruised and that inhibits their ability to reflect judiciously on things. Disconnect the emotion from it and then use what you have learned in your next relationship.
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I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 weeks now and it's just plain awkward at school. I want to break up with him bc I don't really want a boyfriend. Next year I'll be going to highschool and we won't be going to tha same one. So there's really no point In dating. But all of his past girl friends have all dumped him. And I don't want to hurt him. Should I break up with him or just continue dating him till school is over and dump him then. Please help
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Tell him that you guys going to different schools will make it too awkward to get together as regularly as you would prefer and so it is best to end it now so each of you can move on to new friends and a new environment.
You also have to look at it this way, too: the guy has few problems attracting girls. That puts him a ways ahead of a lot of boys his age. So you don't have to feel THAT sorry for him. Plus it isn't up to you to be his emotional babysitter.
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i have to do a response to literature for english so could you guys give me a few tips on how to go about doing it, i have an idea but i have no sense of creativity whatsoever
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Go to a college library and look up the academic critiques for the piece you are assigned. That might help spark something in your mind to write about. Plus you will learn something about literary criticism.
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When boys look at your lips when you talk does thar mean he wants to kiss you
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What is funny about this question is that in Japan, it is rude to look people directly in the eyes. You should peer at their lower jaw instead.
There could be all kinds of motivation for looking at your lips. When I look at girls while talking to them I look them in the eye and sneak peeks at their bodies. I suspect that you perceive that he is looking at your lips but he is shy and actually averting his eyes every now and again.
Also, often times when people are lying they will look down instead of right in a person's eye.
Anyway, if you're interested in him, you're going to have to be more straightforward because guys are dumb at picking up the signals women are giving them.
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Ive been with my girlfriend for about 2 months, and we are both 20. We are sexually active.
And btw, we live in Toronto, a city where there are alot of clubs, bars, etc. So like, we live together in an apartment, and i would say that she is really attractive. I personally think she is, but she is hot to other guys too. Like when we go to bars together, all the guys stare at her ass. And sometimes i get jealous, especially when she acts all flirtacious by blowing them a kiss back. It sucks you know? I feel so small when a bunch of handsome buff guys hit on her at bars when i go to the bathroom. It seems like im a nerd dating a supermodel. And im not fat or gross or anything, im taller than her, slim, short haired, i dont look like .. you know "that shes out of my league" like i think im somewhat in her league. But she is so damn sizzling and you would think that is a good thing, but sometimes it SUCKS because i get so damn jealous when she talks to other guys.
When im alone at home, she always goes out dancing with her friends, and some of them are guys. And i dont wanna control her and be like, "no, i want you to be home". Like, i dont wanna be her father, i wanna be her man, to love her and stuff. I do love her, and she loves me. But i feel like she is right on the tip of my grasp and that i could lose her anytime since she could EASILY get any guy she wants, maybe a guy who is 10x better looking than me and who is also loaded-rich too. And im drowning in a pool of worry and jealousy. She is beautiful, but she is like, TOO beautiful. i want to stay with her. Help me? (link)
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Dude, you are being totally worked. She is an egregious attention whore and you shouldn't be tied down at that age anyway. If you have any sense of dignity as a man you kick her out TODAY. To stay with this woman who is humiliating you in public (unless you have some kind of cuckold fetish) shows you as a needy, non-confident doormat. Those traits are not attractive to any woman that knows you and sees what is going on with your bimbo squeeze.
Dump her and date around. You need to get out and experience the world. Do that now or you will regret not doing it later. If she asks you why, just tell her that the relationship has hit its expiration date. Don't fall for the manipulative tactic of her crying or you are a dupe. Say sayonara and be done with it.
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Okay so I have this really good friend (I'm not like popular so yeah) but were always trying to kill each other pretty much. We've almost gotten into a punch fight 2 times because there are these jerky kids calling names and she thinks its funny and so I stabbed her with my pen. And she ignores me alot if shes around certain people. The other day she was calling me a rude name and I'm like if you don't stop saying that I'm gonna punch you annd shes like yeah I'm so scared so I hit her and she hit me back and said she could kick my ass. She's an arrogant bitch and I'm the only one she treats like this. We both work at the same horse stable and ride together often with our friend sally and everybody loves her because shes just soooooo fun to be around but I'm the only one who really knows what she's really like and she has a seriously shady past I've known her since we were 5 and she pretty had it in for my family and her parents did too. Her past has come up many times and she refuses to acknoledge that she was seriously an insane little brat.And she pretty much treats me like crap sometimes and she always pretty much lets it go but were always at each other troats like 3 timmes a week. Oh btw it usually is in our last period class so I usually blame school but now I'm starting to think she's seriously a huge bitch. and that I should seriously just like not be around her until she starts treating me better. advice plze? oh were both 14 (link)
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God, it amazes me some of the crap some people put up with. You gotta find a new circle of friends before this ends up becoming a legal matter at some point. The group you are now with are losers and losers love nothing more than to drag people down with them. It's your life. Take some control of it!
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How can I turn on this guy and make him want to have sex but just tease him because I dont want to go all the way yet? (link)
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Guys will hate you. You will be forever known as "....the cocktease." In fact, they will hate you so much they will start passing rumors around that you are a far more immoral person than you actually are.
Now if you just want to go as far as third base because you aren't ready for sex then that's fine. But you need to tell the guy that up front. You guys can do stuff like mutual masturbation and oral sex.
And the truth is that you can merely make out with him without letting him feel you up and he will be majorly turned on. It doesn't take guys your age much to get horny. But be honest about what your intentions are and then he can choose to kick you to the curb or stay with you.
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I'm a computer science major and digital arts minor, looking to go into game design.
My mom keeps telling me that it's hard to get a job in computers since everyone's going for it. But programming comes so easy to me and I loved every part of designing basic games in AP Computer Science in High School. :\
Is she right? Am I making a mistake? (link)
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The problem with IT jobs is that they are being exported to India. Moreover, unless you are going to start your own video game company, getting into that industry is really tough.
You would be better off with some kind of science or engineering degree (electrical engineering is a good one). Biotech is hot.
You can go online and find out what the hot jobs are. I suggest you do that.
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im a guy in high- school. And before you read this, im letting you know that this is a serious question.
I know you might think im weird, but me and my friends made a bet on the last NBA playoffs game. And i lost, and i bet against 3 of my guy friends. So i lost.
Now, they are making me do something....
Theres like this really hot girl in my class, shes a rich girl, spoiled, cheerleader, hot, big tits and ass, fake tan, you know how it is. Anyways, i dont even know her at all. Ive never even spoken to her, but i stare at her ass all the time.
Anyways, my friend that i lost the bet to is making me slap her in the face randomly in class when nobody is looking. Im being serious. My friend doesnt like her , from some other reason, and he wants me to slap her. Not punch her in the face or kick her or anything, but just smack her like upside the head. Or he offered for me to grab her ass when nobody is looking. Hes making me do either one since i lost the best.
The thing is, even though it sounds messed up for a friend to make me do that, i kinda WANT to do it haha.
What should i do? (link)
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Dude, that is, at the very least, assault and conspiracy to commit assault and will get you a seat in a local jail cell and will also probably get your family sued. You will get expelled from school, too. A conviction here could sabotage your job prospects and even cause you to be refused entrance into certain colleges. The grabbing the ass could also be prosecuted as a sexual assault and result in sex offender registration. Forget about getting a job ever.
Look, dude, your high school friends ultimately don't mean jack. Once you graduate, everyone scatters on the four winds. Moreover, you are the only person who can live your life. So take control of it and tell your buddies to get bent. Don't allow them to browbeat you into screwing your life up. Do what will bring you the greatest happiness and not a rap sheet.
I can't blame you for wanting to humiliate the stuck up bitch, but ultimately she has nothing to do with you and the sooner you start minding your own business the better.
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i'm a senior in high school and i have about 5 weeks left of high school.. if you don't know about senior slide, its basically when seniors slack off in school because by now they should already be committed to going to a college and there's no point in really getting good grades if you're already going to college.
Well i'm an average teenage girl and I work hard in school. My freshman and sophomore year I was on A honor roll. Junior year was B honor roll. This senior year I was on B honor roll up until now. I'm starting to slack off and I'm getting B's and C's in school but I usually got A's and B's. I know this is bad :( my parents got really mad at me for it and I know I need to get back on track and focus until school is officially over. But I can't help it! I can't wait to end high school! The weather is finally turning nice outside and it seems like school isn't my first priority anymore. I have a boyfriend and i'm involved with sports. Whenever I tell myself to focus on school and study, I always forget and just put off studying for later and think going outside to hang out is better. I know its bad for me but I just can't help it! I'd much rather go shopping over the weekend than work on a project. I guess I just need some motivation and a jump start.
Does anyone have any advice on how i can pull myself together for the next few weeks, stop procrastinating and stop senior slide?? please help!! (link)
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It's called "senioritis" and is an incurable plague. *lol
Very normal. As long as you will finish with enough credits to graduate high school do what you want. College will be a lot of hard work, so might as well party a little bit before entering university. Just don't be stupid about it.
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I've been on the pill for 4 months now and my boyfriend aand i just started to have unprotected sex. He never cums inside me but for some reason i'm scared that i may be pregnant.
I got my period ( a light period) while on the 3rd placebo pill and it lasted about 3 days. THEN i just started to take Loestrin 24FE instead of beyaz and i feel gross. I'm so nauseous . i'm on the 9th new pill now. Should i get a test?
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See your doctor and he/she will rectify things by giving you a pill that will be more suited for your system.
I doubt you're pregnant, but if a test would help allay your fears then do it. If you want to increase your chances of preventing pregnancy, take the pill and have him use a condom.
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I have this friend I have a crush on and I think he likes me too but not really sure. When we are around each other though it feels weird. We both seem to have a hard time talking to each other but have no problem talking to our other friends. My friend has told she has seen him looking at me. Sometimes he shows some interest. He makes small talk and sometimes he kisses me on the cheek. But if we're near each other for a long time I can feel the tension building. I was thinking maybe it was sexual tension but then again I dont really know what it is so Im not sure. What do u think it could be? (link)
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He likes you but is too shy to really go for it. That is why you are feeling the tension between you two. Next time you see him try to tickle him or touch him a lot. If he hugs you, tell him you love it when he does that. If he kisses you on the cheek, tell him you prefer to be kissed on the lips. Pretty obvious gestures, but it is a reflection of how dumb guys are about reading signals of interest from women. If you don't ask you won't get.
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I'm a 14 year old girl. I've liked this guy for over a year. Last year my friend told me that he said that he might go out with me and he blushed and turned away. I've asked him out and he turned me down. He is always staring at me and sitting close to me when he can. I'm really confused and don't know what to think. If he doesn't like me, then why is he staring?
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He likes you but doesn't think he is worthy of you. That is why he turned you down when he actually didn't want to. Shyness can be a real bitch sometimes. Just tell him to relax and that you don't bite. Make some jokes to help make him comfortable.
However, also keep in mind that insecurity is more the rule than the exception in your age group and some kids have more developed social skills than others. Everyone grows at a different pace. So even if he does get with you he may end up being a pretty quiet guy because he would be afraid of saying something stupid and alienating you. Don't take it personally or worry about it. Stuff just happens in funny ways sometimes.
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Hi. I'm 13 and my sis is 10. she is 50+lbs heavier than me and she can't control her anger. She beats me up prety much whenever I talk to her. I don't want to hurt her since shes my younger sis, but my parents don't really care that she does this and when they actually do something it's something along the lines of "No computer, no friends over, no tv etc. These are not making her stop. Whenever I defend myself I get grounded for a month. I tell my parents that its not fair and that I shouldn't be punished for defending myself, but they say its fair because I'm older and "should know better" I can't tell people my bruises are from my 10 yr old sister so what should I do? Should my sister go to anger managment class? (link)
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Go to your school counselor and tell her you need him/her to intervene in this situation. Your parents are totally wacked in the head. Do it today.
Your sister is acting out because she is probably getting a lot of crap from her classmates at school about her weight and you being slimmer and prettier as well as more developed represents the kind of person she wants to be but isn't. In other words, she is basically projecting her frustration on you. Unfortunately, your parents are in total denial about this and you aren't mature or knowledgeable enough to act as your sister's therapist. That is why you need someone to intervene here.
If your counselor won't intervene and your parents won't get your sister therapy, you are just going to have to keep pounding her no matter what the consequences until she gets tired of getting her ass beat. And you tell your parents it is because they are in denial about your sister's deep seated psychological problems. If your parents then threaten something extreme like kicking you out of the house or bringing in the police, then you need to go to Child Protective Services for your city or county and have them intervene. Then maybe your stupid ass parents will get the message.
Good luck. I hope this works itself out rationally without much more drama.
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