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How do you show your girlfriend you wont mess up anymore an that she can trust you?
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you cant really approach her and say look huni am a changed man and if you broke her trust you must have done something horrible but you also shouldnt try to buy her trust everyone know that change doesnt happen in one day it takes time i think you should keep to your self do not lose communication and gradually show her that she can trust you
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Trust is easy to lose and often impossible to regain.
You don't give enough information. If you were cheating on her then I doubt she is going to ever completely trust you.
But again, I need more context to answer your question.
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Depends on the situation, What exactly caused her not too trust you?
Everyone is different, Some people forgive easier then others. You didn't give a reason to why she doesn't trust you but let me lay out a few things..
Sometimes people are hurt so much that they have a hard time trusting people, They push people away to avoid getting hurt again. If you want to show your girlfriend that she can trust you then you may really need to punch through her barrier and even so depending on what you did it isn't always promising that you will get through. Relationships cannot work out if one doesn't trust the other. Relationships are very dependent upon reliability, trust and honesty but what holds it together is communication.
I'm sorry my friend but if you did something along the lines of cheat....You very well may be out of luck.
"Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, forever to repair"
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You'll have to let her have full access to your phone, e-mail and facebook. Be where you're supposed to be, don't be late and kiss her ass. Most girls like me can lose your trust in a second but it will take a very long time to regain it. If you truly love her, you'll wait for her. Just try not to be impatient and rush things. I hope this helps and good luck.
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well, it really depends on the situation and what has happened in your relationship that made her not trust you.
but if you still want to try, you need to SHOW her results, not just tell her and repeatedly talk about how you're going to change for her. seeing is believing in most girl's worlds. for example; if i caught my boyfriend flirting with tons of girls i would need to SEE that he wasnt talking to them and if they came onto him, he would tell them to go away.. not just ignore them, but tell them to leave him alone. yuh know ?
it also depends on the type of person she is.. im not a material girl, but some are and they would love to be showered with gifts like flowers and chocolates and all of that stuff with a hundred apologies.
but, you could also go the more heart-to-heart route and make her a mix cd with songs about how you feel and stuff.
but all in all, it isnt going to get better until you SHOW her the difference from who you were before in comparison to who you are now/becoming. this might mean that you guys have to break up, and if she does break up with you, tell her that youre going to show her that you can change and youre going to get her back because shes WORTH IT to you.
but you also have to ask yourself, "is my girlfriend really worth this ?"
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo.
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You can't. If a girl doesnt trust you, she doesnt trust you. Girls are insane and never give second chances to guys who really want it. It's unfair, i know, but thats just the way the are. You should find another girl who will trust you and isnt such an unfair and immature bitch, because from ive heard so far, this chick wont give you a second chance. Therefore she needs to grow the fuck up and stop acting like miss queen B and start realising that its okay to let a guy love them. Truth.
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