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I don't know what to do:'(
I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 weeks now and it's just plain awkward at school. I want to break up with him bc I don't really want a boyfriend. Next year I'll be going to highschool and we won't be going to tha same one. So there's really no point In dating. But all of his past girl friends have all dumped him. And I don't want to hurt him. Should I break up with him or just continue dating him till school is over and dump him then. Please help
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Tell him that you guys going to different schools will make it too awkward to get together as regularly as you would prefer and so it is best to end it now so each of you can move on to new friends and a new environment.
You also have to look at it this way, too: the guy has few problems attracting girls. That puts him a ways ahead of a lot of boys his age. So you don't have to feel THAT sorry for him. Plus it isn't up to you to be his emotional babysitter.
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You will want to dump him now and not lead him on that would just be worse. and just because his past girlfriends have dumped him doesnt mean you have to stay with him. and just because you guys dont go to the same school doesnt mean its going to end you guys me and my boyfriend live on the complete opposite side of town, different schools but when i see him it makes it more special:) good luck sweetie i hope this helped
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dump him now. Don't lead him on. Leading him on basically means that you're just going to make him wait and then break the news to him later.
If you're considering breaking up, or even doubting the relationship, then its time to end it.
Sadly, yes, it will hurt him. But its better for both of you to be happy than to live like this. He will learn and he will move on, as well as you. Thats what life is all about.. learning new experiences and moving on with life. You're pretty young, so is he. Its not the end of the world. You and him will live. Everything will be okay :)
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