about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

is Tequillla the same as whiskey?

tequilla is kinda like whiskey because they are both aolchol but other then that they are diiffiernt. if you need anything else drop it in my inobx.
*~Stephanie~*

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im 15 and i am girl need advice on how do you break up with a guy you have been dating for a year and four months because you dont like him or love him anymore and i dont have an explaination why??...HELP!!..he thinks it because of the hurricane and me loosing everything i had but its not ..my feelings were this way before that..and we are taking a break right now but he doesnt get the terms "TAKING A BREAK MEANS"...and i have basically created a monster..because i never get to hangout with my friends anymore or doing anything but be with him and its getting old and soo is the relationship because he takes it way to seriously considering we are only 15 and 16..he thinks that im "THE ONE" ..and wants to spend forever with me??..and there will never be another girl for him???..soo i need advice on how i should break it to him in a way that it wont hurt him that bad and we can still be friends!!

one way or another he is still going to get hurt. no matter what you do. just tell him the truth me be like me feelings for you have changed and i dont feel as strongly about as i used. STOP leading him on. i know YOU wouldnt want him to lead you on like that. tell him you want to carry on a friendship realtionship with him.. dont try to carry on this realitonship if you dont feel like the same way. the longer you wait the worse it will get the harder it will be to do and the more it will hurt him. hope i helped. if you need anything else drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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i know this sounds stupid but what is a bonfire? my friend is having a bonfire at her party and i dont know what it is. plz help

when you and some friends go to the beach and sit on sand and have a fire and everyone sits around him.
*~Stephanie~*

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well...me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over 2 months now.
we were really good friends before then, and i was totally crazy about him, and for about the first month we dated, i was still totally crazy about him. well, he lives about a half hour away from me, so its hard to see him, and we talk online everyday.
the problem is, it feels like my feelings for him are fading, but i know deep down i do love him. and i dont know what i should do. how can i get that feeling back?
i dont want to break up with him, because i know i'll regret it. but sometimes the more i think about him i find more and more things that really bug ne, just stupid little pet peeves.. and i dont know how to go about telling him that i want him to get a little bit more mature...help?
could i just be feeling this way cause we live kind of far, and i dont see him a lot?
i also have a constant mood swings, could this just be a result of an awkward mood swing?

sorry this is long, i just could use some help on what to do...ill rate and give feedback. ♥

i understand exactually how you feel. i am to in a long distnace realtionship. what you should do is go and see him and spend time with him your lossin interset because you cant see him or be able to hold his hand or kiss him. you need to go see him and clear up your mind. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i know you can't speed up time or anything but is there like a way to make the feek go by fast...well seems fast? I know it's kidna stupid but i'm just wonder?

keep yourself accupied with things to do. dont sit down and do anythign. KEEP yourself busy.
*~Stephanie~*

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me and my boyfriend want to kiss...he has already kissed someone and he knows how to kiss..but its my first kiss and i dont know how to kiss at all...will i know when he goes to kiss me? is there any ways to practice kissing?

somethign you can do is just go for it and do what you feel is right and if your nto good at it tell your boyfriend about it and he will explain it to you then be like" i still dont understand can you show me" and let him show you on you and so yuou can eb kissing him and praticing at the same time..lol.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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what's a virgin?

damn you most be a really young person but anyways it is just a person who hasnt had sex before. in other words hasnt had there cherry popped.(if you understand that)
*~Stephanie~*

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wat are some good things to do for a birthday party for about 13 people only or should it be all girl party i dont know please help

i rate 5s

i am guessing your a girl and what you can do is take them all to a movie, dinner, stuff like that. if that doesnt work then you should choose a themem for your party like, hawain or tropical, 80's or 90's, or even the 70's and have a party like that. if you dont have enough people for that then you shoudl just go out and by a couple games (girly) and play like truth or dare and stuff like that. hope this helps you out. fi you need anythin else drop it in my inbox..
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it true that if u sre a smaller girl you dont get your period until ur like older and if you are a bigger girl you get yours sooner????is that true or is that just a lie... or doe sit have nothing to do with how big you are its just the was your body develpos

nope i dont believe that.. it isnt true. everyones body grows a different speed some faster then others that is why each person starts there period at a different time.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay guys! I've been dating a guy for 3 months and I love him more than anything in the world! He promised me he would never leave me and for once in my life, I BELIEVE A GUY.OKay well we're both virgins and I think he wants to boost it up a little.How do I prepare for all that? If anything happens anytime soon...I want to be ready and things to go really good.Help!

JUST LIKE ME!! except my advice is to wait. NEVER rush things. take it slow, trust me it will be worth it in the end. me and my boyfriend always used to talk about that. (just like you and ur boyfriend, me and my boyfriend are virgins too) we came to a comprise that he wasnt ready and i wasnt either. NEVER do anything you dont want to do. Dont think that just because you care a lot about him that you should do everything he tells you to. think twice b4 makin a desicion like your makin. think about the positive things and the negatives. hope this helps you out. if you need anythin else drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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What qualifies someone as a prep? Some girls say I am, but not the stuck up kind, but is being a prep bad?
- Im a cheerleader
- I love Abercrombie and Hollister
- I say like alot
- But i do have some zits
- I`m not the MOST GORGEOUS person, but im not like really ugly

Would you consider me a prep?

i think it is up to you to decide what you are. i personally dont label myself as anyhtin i am just me. i think a preppy girl is a person who is stuck up and is basically a snob and things she is better then everyone else.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay i have few questions....
how old to you have to be to legally have sex?

even if you have a condom on can the guy ejaculate while still inside the girl and not get pregnant? also even if you withdrawl before ejaculation... can you still get pregnant even if you have a condom on?

i rate please answer

nope there isnt a legal age for that.everything you do that involves sex is rising you of gettin pregnant. there will ALWAYS be a chance for it to happen. to matter what. sometimes your chance are less then others.
*~Stephanie~*

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well i know what you said before.. i have biosilk.. like the hair therapy and the spray for that.. should i use that like before or after straightening?

actually i have talked to a hair salon and she todl me if you want your hair to come lout silky smoth and striaght is to put it on BEFORE you striaghten it like after blow dry it then put it in the striaghten it. hope this helps. if you need anything just drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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I bet yall are thinking "Oh great ? Another guy question" I`m sorry, lol but I had to ask. Me and Zack went out for 9 months. ( Lol, we were only in 6th grade, but we went out for a long time cus we had so much fun going to movies and stuff ) But then he broke up with me. I was heartbroken and cried for days. I got over it and we became best of friends and I`ve even had a few boyfriends since then. But all along I`ve still liked Zack. I`ve helped him hook up with some of my best friends and every time I do I can't take it. I`ve told him i liked him before but we usually go into the ackward state were we just sorta ignore each other till I tell him I like another guy. What should I do? Were finally BFFs again and I don't wanna ruin it again, but I still like him. Sorry for being so long, thnks again and I will definitly rate high. xox

my opinon is if he cant understand that you like him and for him to give you a second chance then he really isnt worth your time or effort. my advice is to stay friends and nothing you can do until he starts to liek you back. i mean you dotn want to ruin ur realtionship with him.. so just move on or at least try to. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay soo.. school pictures are comming up.. and i need to do something with my hair! i straighten it down and everything but it juss doesnt seem to say the same through out the day! like it doesnt go poofy.. it just kinda looks bad in my opoion!! ahh if anyone can help i will rate 5's!!! oh and by the way.. hair spray can make your hair look greasy soo im goina have to pass on that ...

i have an idea of what you can do with it that doesnt have to do with striaghtening it and in my opinon it would look super cute. if you want to know drop it in my inbox and i will tell you. and for the striaghtening part... try using biosilk silk therpy. it works like magic.
*~Stephanie~(

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OK i'm watching a martha stweart show and why is she aways says it's a good thing?!??! Won't she eva shut up!?

honestly no she wont. lol
*~Stephanie~*

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hi this is jessic i am an advicenator too i need some help, how do you make your own page

you make an account with advicenators, and you ask questions and we answer them and then you can also answer other peoples questions. hope this helps you out. if u need anything else drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*

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can you change you're username.if you can please tell me. I'll rate 5 for real answers Cya

u cant change your USERNAME on advicenators. the only way you can is if you pay for your account.
*~Stephanie~*

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My friend asked the guy I like what he thought about me.

He didn't really know her, he recognized her as my friend but didn't even know her name. But she was trying to talk to him and he just told her he needed his space and pushed her back saying "back up, we need to be this apart" and telling her not to get close, and she asked what he thought about me he didn't answer and just went with that "your getting to close" crap. So could someone tell me what this means???

Thanks so much!

since he really didnt noe your friend that might be a reason why he was actin strange. my advice to you is YOU go and talk to him.i think he might like you but there is always a 50% chance.
*~Stephanie~*

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Opinions, please!
I'm looking for a cologne (hopefully under $50) that my boyfriend would like. I know he's into mild stuff - like stuff you can spray and not choke yourself and other people with - and kind of oceany-breezy-type-smells...Light stuff.
Anyone have any ideas for me?
I'm new to the world of scents...my mother has allergies to like, everything and I'm finally in college - I want to be SCENTED! Lol...So yeah.
Any suggestions are helpful =).

CURVE is a wonderful kind i love that smell or ETERNITY. i am not sure about the prices but those are good. i think they are under 50 though. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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