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Gawsh yall!
Okay guys! I've been dating a guy for 3 months and I love him more than anything in the world! He promised me he would never leave me and for once in my life, I BELIEVE A GUY.OKay well we're both virgins and I think he wants to boost it up a little.How do I prepare for all that? If anything happens anytime soon...I want to be ready and things to go really good.Help!
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wow, well first thing is you need to make sure that you are truely doing it because you really want to , and not just because he does. i mean its a one time thing once you loose your virginity theres no turning bck, so reallythink about it. now if you are sure then, i would just make it very romantic, something to remeber forever, candles, music, the whole nine yards, good luck to you, and remeber.....PROTECTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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please please please please please don't do anything like that (a 14 year old guy just said this) but if you do, do it than be prepared for a sucky life down the road for a while... maybe not right then but later on you'll feel the guilt
for example: when(or if) you get married you don't want to look into the love of your lifes eyes and know that he wasn't the first, that you were selfish enought not to wait
but hey... thats just me, but really think about that, please don't have sex till your married
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JUST LIKE ME!! except my advice is to wait. NEVER rush things. take it slow, trust me it will be worth it in the end. me and my boyfriend always used to talk about that. (just like you and ur boyfriend, me and my boyfriend are virgins too) we came to a comprise that he wasnt ready and i wasnt either. NEVER do anything you dont want to do. Dont think that just because you care a lot about him that you should do everything he tells you to. think twice b4 makin a desicion like your makin. think about the positive things and the negatives. hope this helps you out. if you need anythin else drop it in my inbox.
*~Stephanie~*
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First off, love is a fragile thing. I think you guys may be rushing your hearts, then again I'm not you.. but from expierence I've found I've often rushed myself into the game of love and ended up getting shit on in the end.
I don't really trust men as far as I can throw them, I'm extremely careful while dating. I'm not telling you to shut yourself but just be careful. Men fluctuate moods almost as much as women.
If you're really ready for sex I'd advise you find a contraceptive, plus condoms. You can never be too careful. Just make sure you're ready. Even if things have progressed to where you're both in the bed and ready to do the deed and you don't feel up to it just tell him to stop. That will be a true test of love there.
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well no one can make you ready..you have to be ready. if you are then go for it but if you arent then tell him so theres no pressure. tell him where you stand.
♥ hope i helped a bit! x-oh
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This is the main page to a site that will give you probably more info than you want. Go to sex stuff on the site and it has a section for first time info. (didn't think you'd want a link with sex in title on your history). Check out section on birth control why you are there. :)
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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Well, I've been in that situation and it all depends on if YOUR ready. NOT him. If yor ready, talk to him and ask him if he's ready. It will all work out for the best. And if he isn't ready, just tell him it's okay and your not going to push him to do anything he doesn't want to do. If he IS ready, go for it. Although, you two have GOT to be careful, if either of you aren't 16 or older, it's illegal to have sex if someone finds out.
e-mail if u need more help.
sweetlilme6099@yahoo.com
By the way, my name is Tori.
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