I have had my boyfriend for 2 years and I still don't know if he loves me or not. We have a baby together. Sometimes he does the sweetest little things that say i love you and then sometimes he can be really mean. He thinks it doesn't matter if he talks to other girls because they are just his friends and he is never going to have anyone take my place because he loves me. Sometimes I question whether or not he loves me? At times i can be a bit nagging, always accusing him of cheating and saying really cruel things. He tells me it my ATTITUDE that causes him to be the way he is with me. I know he could leave if he really wanted to but he stays. How can i get over thinking that he is with another woman? Do I love him too much? Is it normal for him not to want to go out with me? When we are together sometimes its the happiest time of my life. I worry because of his secretive ways. How do you know if it love or not?
If you stop naggin him, he won't feel like he is on a leash and he won't try to rebel against what you want. Just don't nag, don't say things you don't mean, don't always ask him if he loves you and all that other stuff because that shows you are insecure. Tell him that it hurts you when he flirts with other girls, even if they are just friends. You would know if it is love or not, there is no maybe.
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i'm doing a dance piece and i love the song dangerously in love by beyonce but i don't know what type of dance would be best for it because it has an R&B feel, but it's pretty slow. my options are ballet tap jazz lyrical and hip-hop. please help! thanks!
I'd say your best bet would be jazz or hip-hop. If you do the remix of dangerously in love, then you should definitely do hip-hop. Other than that you should do jazz or hip-hop depending on what your dance teacher says or whatever.
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last night the kid i like asked me out, the only thing is, i dont want a boyfreind right now because there is only 7 days left of the school year until summer! and i go away alot in the summer and i just want to be free and hang and chill and stuff. so i wouldn't be able to see him a lot. so i told him no, but didn't handle it the best way. i like him still and i want him to like me, but i feel bad! what should i do? talk to him about it? still flirt with him?
Tell him the same stuff that you said on here. It would be too hard for you to have a boyfriend over the summer because you travel alot. Tell him that you still like him. I wouldn't start flirting with him until you talk to him about this. He might get mixed signals.
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ok so i have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has dumped me 4 times and ive dumped him once and it's usually over a stupid fight and a day later he relizes what he's done and ask me to take him back, and i do. So it's summer and we dicided to keep in touch and stay togetasr. He recently got a myspace and is leaving all these girls picutres comments say damnn or cute pie, and gorgeous and stuff like that. I'll admit it i am jelous but should I be mad also. I dont want to confront him that would be way to awkward , i just dont no if i should be mad. Thankyou!
I would be mad. But then again, you guys don't really have a stable relationship. Maybe he doesn't take you seriously because you guys break up all the time. If you guys work on your relationship and stop fighting over everything, then I'm sure he'll stop doing that to other girls.
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What are some brands of mascara that make eyelashes REALLY long? I have an okay mascara by Clinique, but it gets kind of gloppy. So could you write if you have any preferable types that fit the description?
Volum' Express Turbo Boost Mascara (Maybeline). It's kind of expensive I think around 8-9 dollars, but it is worth it.
There's another Sky High Curves (Maybeline)- It is $4.99.
To make your mascara not clumpy, apply one layer to each eye and wait about 20 seconds for it to dry then apply another one. If you allow it to dry, you won't mess up the coat you just put on and it won't get all clumpy.
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hey, i was wondering how super and regular tampons differ.
i use regular but i havent gone out to buy a pack of super because like, i dont know if its too big for me or something.
do supers have the same width and length as regulars but they just absorb more? or are they noticeable bigger in size considering one uses tampax pearl?
Supers are a little bit bigger. They are for heavy days. It won't be too big for you. They are just a bit thicker, I don't think they are longer. They do absorb more.
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is talking to yourself healthy or is it a sign of a mental illness? Because i talk to myself a lot. is it healthy
It's normal as long as you aren't having like split personalities and fighting with your self back and forth.
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my friend ALWAYS copies me. like if i put something on my profile she puts that up too if i put something on my myspace she does that too. if i buya pair of shorts, she will buy them too. i know people say copying is a way of flattery but sometimes its just annoying. i like to be my own person. should i say something to her? if i should, what should i say?
Yea you really should say something to her. Don't be mean about it because it might hurt her feelings but let her know your are serious. Tell her that she doesn't need to do everything that you do and buy everything that you do. Maybe compliment her on something that she has that you don't and maybe she'll want to start being her own person.
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ok so last month around like may 3rd i got my first period. and it lasted maybe like 5ish days. (but it was only really heavy about 3 days) anyway..about a week past after i got it..and then i got it again! i know that when you first get it, it's irregular, so do you think i will get it this month? i'm just really scared that i don't have it or get it on monday, because i am going to a waterpark with my 8th grade graduating class.if i do happen to get it, (which im really hoping i don't), what should i do? i haven't started using tampons yet. i dont know???? any advice? thank youu.
I don't think you will get it again this month, but who knows. You are right, periods are irregular. I have had mine for 3 years and I still don't know when I am getting it. If I were you, I would start using tampons to make things easier. Or, you can always use pads. You should bring a purse or something and bring pads or tampons with you on your trip.
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hi - ok so i really like this guy. he lives like down the road from me, and we have gone out before. we dont go to the same school, so when we went out it was hard to see each other b/c we are both involved in sports. when we went out we both cheated on eachother, and since we never saw eachother - we just thought it was best to break up. btw, i was his first gf, first kiss, first like everything. this was all in february. now its june, and i want a new chance at him. he says that he likes me, but not enough for us to go out. he told me hes scared that if we go out, he will sqrew things up for us. bc i like him more than he likes me. i really want a second chance with him. do i deserve it? what can i do to convince him to be with me? should i move on? how? please help. i rate high
Well I wouldn't rush it. I mean, he isn't even sure if he likes you enough yet. I don't see why you wouldn't deserve it. You both made mistakes. Just keep talking and hanging out. It will take time but maybe you guys can work things out. Don't rush it though.
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is it okay that my boyfriend is 3 years older than me? I'm 13 and he's 16 is that bad?
No, I'm 15 and my boyfriends 19. Just be sure he doesn't try to minipulate you into doing anything you don't want to. As long as you are happy, then I don't see a problem!
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Okay, so theres this girl. Lets call her "M" And personally, I don't like her.
M is claiming to be my friend sean's "favorite" according to his profile. And seriously, I'm thinking to myself, "he's YOUR favorite?" and he's been my friend for a while now. that girl is just mezmorising the boy. She can't really like him, he's my friend.
So, the thing is that I get mad&jealous everytime a girl calls him her "favorite" it's not like a like him or anything, because i have a boyfriend and stuff. But these girls need to leave him alone. Maybe I should get over my jealousy. Please help?
If I were you, I wouldn't even worry about it. Like you said, you don't like him and you have a boyfriend. Just let those other girls say what they want.
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When ever me and my boyfriend have sex he is never able to get me to orgasm. When we are doing it I really don't feel anything, just the movement of him. But it doesn't make me orgasm. What can I do to become (i guess you could say) more sensitive, so that he would be able to make me orgasm?
Thank you.
Only one out of every four women experience an orgasm through penetration. You could have him stimulate your clitoris. You can also do kegel exercises (where you squeeze your muscles down there and hold for 10 seconds then let go).
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I have a blue iPod mini. I want a skin cover for it, so I looked it up on ebay and found a really nice green one. I'm just worried that the blue from the iPod mini will show through the green. Do you think it will and should I get the skin?
I have a black ipod and I ordered a pink and white skin. It doesn't show through at all. I think that the skin will look just as it does in the picture on your ipod. It is on a black ipod there, so yours is a similar color and I think it will look very much like the picture. I would buy it.
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ok yea that was corney but I have a question...At nights when I can be at home with my husband I like to straighten my hair, wear cute pajamas and NO make~up... Problem is I have extremley dark circles around my eyes it looks like I am seriously malnourished but im not! What can I do to make them go away? I've heard of cucumbers but exactly what's there purpose? I'll rate high as the sky (22/female)
Cucumbers make puffiness and dark circles go away. Another good thing to do is to freeze two spoon then take them out when they are very cold and put them under your eyes. You could also just put eye brightener or concealer under your eyes.
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My friend is such a liar and sooooooo bossy!!I want peace so I try to talk to her about it.But everytime I try to,she acts so sweet that I can't!She tries to hurt me by trying to take people away from me and lying to me that everyone like her better.She does all sort of mean stuff and when I do something that really isn't meant to be mean,she gets all upset and says lots of mean stuff!!She is just so insensitive about things that she should be sensitive about and very sensitive about things that she shouldn't be sensitive about!!What should I do?And is she really a friend?
Tell her that you are serious about all of this. No she isn't a good friend. If I were you, I woudln't take all that crap.
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what store is more expensive? hollister and abercrombie. examples and the difference between the prices would be nice.
Abercrombie is WAY more expensive. They are expensive by atleast 10 dollars on their shirts and 10-30 dollars more expensive on their hoodies. Abercrombie jeans are about 60-90 dollars and Hollister jeans are 40-70 dollars.
www.abercrombie.com
www.hollisterco.com
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I'm not worried about my weight but I'm just curious... I've been keeping track of my weight daily, and sometimes the scale gives back some weird numbers. Like, I've heard that it's unhealthy to lose more than 1 or 2 pounds a week, but I'll go to bed one night and wake up 4 pounds lighter. It's so strange. Has anyone else had this happen to them? Or is my scale messed up? Or am I just weird? Thanks ahead!
I wouldn't rely on a scale (especially if it's a digital one). You shouldn't be weighing yourself daily anyway. If your clothes are loose on you, then that means you are losing weight. Also, maybe you weigh less in the morning because all the food has digested and whatnot.
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i need help!Well, i used to like a boy...Today he told me that he likes me a lot etc..I should be happy but i am not!He told me that i am very pretty and that i have a great personality, that he likes me very much, that he wants me...We were walking together hand-hand etc...I should want to be with him.He will tell me to be with him but now i understood that he likes me i don't want him anymore..Should i be with him or not?How can i know if it is something that will pass and i will start liking him again or if it is something that i will believe in tow days too???Please answer i rate 5s....
It seems like you just wanted to see if you could get him to like you and once you got him you aren't interested because you don't have to compete and fight to get him to like you. Of course don't go out with him if you don't like him. Just tell him that you don't have those feelings for him anymore.
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Since my ex and I broke up less than a year ago, all of my closest friends remained on speaking terms with him. Only one of my close friends (and roommate!) remains on speaking terms with us both.
I have been baffled as to why they havent called me in almost a year, why they are pretending I no longer exist. I fear its because they are "weirded out" by my new relationship with a guy friend of us all. But, hey, its not like I have ever liked all the skanks they dated-I didnt let it affect our friendships.
Additionally, I recently found out my ex is marrying some foreign woman and this has been a wierd time for me. I do not desire a relationship with him but I definitely feel weird and sad about it in a way-and that ties into my lost friendships, which I lost to him. Sometimes I couldnt give a damn and other times, I am wracked with sadness.
I feel really abandoned and I've made new friendships and made a new life but why does he get to have MINE? I respectfully parted ways with him never thinking I'd lose life as I knew it. I'm just feeling very resentful and sad sometimes and I'm unsure how to cope. Do I confront, or has too much time passed? Part of me just wants to stand in front of them and go, "Hey, I didnt die! Its OK to be friends with us both, esp. considering I've been friends with you guys for years upon years before him!" And the other part absolutely does not want their friendship because when the chips were down, they headed for the hills.
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If I were you, I would call or meet them all and talk to them about all of this. They shouldn't of abandoned you like this. It might also be a good idea to try to have a good relationship with your ex. Of course it's going to be hard, but you might feel better.
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