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ok... im 14 and i am 5'10... is that too tall? i am taller than most guys my age and although i have never really had a problem with it this year i do... im sure most girls would kill to be taller but i seriously want to cut my feet off i hate it so much... like i said... i am 14 but i truly look like i am 25... the other night i was havong dinner with my dad and i got his beer... i am sick of older guys hitting on me... and i am sick and tired of being around a guy i like (including my bf) and feeling like this huge mass... i really do WANT to look my age... is there ne way i can get over this?? and if not... there arnt ne special short pills are there??
...cle
Yea you're tall for you age but i'm the same age as you and the same height. Sorry there are no "short pills" but don't worry in a couple of years the boys will be towering over you and you'll feel short next to them. You just have to be confident in yourself and with your height, that's the only real way to get over it.
my boobs are uneven one of them is smaller. i have to wear padded bras to make them even! is this normal?thanks appriciate it
IT's definetly normal. The human body isn't perfectly symmetrical so naturally one side of the body may be bigger than the other side.
Okay, well I just got mine, tonight...and I am NOT telling my mom. At least, not yet. I just have a few questions about periods....
1. How often should I change them?
2. Should I wear them to bed?
3. How many should I carry with me?
4. Where should I put them? I don't carry a backpack...or a purse.
That's it. Thank you! =D
You should change your pads about every 2 hr. to 3 hrs. .(so you won't start to smell)
You should def. wear them to bed because your period doesn't stop just so you can sleep.
You should carry maybe 2 or 3 with you.
And i think maybe you should start carrying a purse or backpack because if you just put it in your pocket , people most likely will be able to see it and they'll know you're on your period.
My name is Kayla and I'm 13 years old. I started my period not too long ago. But I have skipped about 3. Is this normal for me? I don't want to be able to not have children or anything? Is it serious? Please help.
Usually when your first get your periods its not really regular. You should go to the doctor just to be safe. It possibly could be serious.
i just recently did a 12 minute run at school for gym.. its been like a few days after and my legs haven't been hurting really badly.. buh now it hurts really really bad..especially when i got down the stairs... how can i make it stop?
Your legs are burning because there's a lactic acid build up in your muscles. I experienced the same thing during the first couple of days of field hockey and after i did some stretches my legs felt better. After time though, it'll feel better and they'll be no more pain.
Well, i have this friend and she thinks i am annoying and said it behind my back to one of her guy friends. I asked her to sit with me that day and she came over. We talked about normal stuff and i didn't find me annoying at all. I was really sad becuase my friend and i are really close and she is ALWAYS taling behind my back. Does a real friend do that...talk behind your back. And what should i do cuz i don't think i am annoying?? SHould i hang out with other ppl that don't think i am annoying?
Real friends don't talk behind your back. If they have something that bothers them about you they should say it to your face, so you can resolve whatever conflicts they have with you. I definetly think you should find other friends that don't talk behind your back.
ok well im a white female and i was thinking about getting my hair relaxed. my hair a a little wavy but not that bad its just some what thick if i dont straighten it. i was wondering 1 if anyone would or wouldnt recoment it and 2 wat to expect like how straight it would be/stay and wat i would have to do to get it straight. the lady at the hair salon told me my hair should be permanently straight
I'm not sure how it works for white people, but I know it makes my hair really straight, and yes it will be permanetly straight. I always thought perms were too strong for white people's hair( since black people do have thicker hair), and it would take their hair out. But since a professional says its okay then you should go through with it.
OMG I get soo pissed when i think about it! WEll, see first of all i wanna gain weight. Like I'm 103 pounds which i think is liek sooo underweight ccuz i think im like 5'3''...like i don't know if anyone remembers in the movie mean girls...but those bars that make you gain weight... well i was soo going to get that but my mom said NO like she says i am at a good weight...! But see Im annorexic and i don't throw up or anything...the worst part is i eat like all the time...and i swear i don't gain a pound! So can someone tell me an easy way to gain weight w/out using pills, or bars or shakes or anything like that ? THANK U !
You have a reallly good metabolism. Maybe you should ask a doctor on how to gain some weight. Or eat everything in sight until you gain some pounds.
im a 14 female. and i have big boobs, and all the signs of my period.but i haven't gotten it yet. what the eff IS WRONG WITH ME GOSH.heheh
Why are you in such a rush. Trust me when you do get your period you'll wish you never got it. Ask your mom when she got her period, because you'll most likeyly get it at the same age as she did. You're normal, Some girls even get it as late as 16.
What is the absolute fastest way to lose weight? I can't even stand to look at myself in the mirror. I'm 13, female, 5'4", 140 lbs. Even if you don't think it sounds that bad, it is. I refuse to take off my sweatshirt in school, sometimes even at home. I know that starving myself isn't the best thing to do because you get bloated from not eating and that's worse, but right now that's the only solution i can think of. Please help me
Have you ever heard of diet and exercise?? Exercising a couple hours during the day, and changing your eating habits will work. You're not gonna lose weight instantaneously but it'll work.
does anyone no any really good books. My mom wants me to get into reading (i hate reading) so i need a good book thatti wont hate to read!
anything will do! thanks a lot!
I heard the gossip girls series were really good.
How young do you think is too young to be having sex? And whats the youngest person you actually know who has had sex and how did they get treated?
The youngest person i've know was 14 and i think 14,or 15 is too young. They didn't get treated for anything because nothing was wrong with them.
It has been about a year that my ex and I have been working on our relationship. I cheated and realized that it was a mistake and we have been trying to fix it ever since. We are divorced. It was what he wanted, I gave into it cause I had no room to protest. He doesn't trust me, he tells me that he wants it to get back together, but he has a trust issue and doesn't believe a word I say. I have tried everything I can think or to get him to talk to me about. He likes the time we spend together, but he says it is a friendship thing. He doesn't have the feelings of love yet. Yet I get confused because he always wants to see me, wants to hear from me at work and when I am on my way home (we don't live together), but he only looks at us now as friends. We still are intamate with each other. Friends don't do that though. I have asked how I can earn back his trust and he tells me at one time he will see it forhimself and there are times he says he may never getit back. I just don't know what to do. I want this to work and I ty so hard, just whaen it goes ok I ask how he feels and he gets mad....what can i do to help him open up? To trust me and believe my feelings are true?
Willing to help,
Mickey
Maybe you guys should go to marriage counseling. That will probaly help you out a lot. If not i think you should tell him exactly how you feel, and that you would never hurt him again.
I brush my teeth but I feel I need to do it more often. Like, I always brush them before school, but at night..I'm always "too tired" so I refuse to brush. Does anyone have any ideas on how I can stop refusing to brush? Thank you*
Have you ever seen Extreme Makeover? If not one night you should, and look at those peoples teeth. They look absolutely terrible because they never took care of their teeth properly. Use that as your inspiration to brush your teeth two times a day. Or maybe you should brush your teeth after you have your last meal, instead of before you go to bed, just to make sure that you won't be too tired to do it later
I play basketball, and my best friends are all on my team. One of my REALLY good friends Dad, is alway hitting me, and throwing basketballs at me. I know that he's just joking around, but he does it all the time. And sometimes it REALLY hurts! I don't know if I should tell someone, b/c I think he's just kidding, is he??
PLEASE HELP!
I would ask your friend to tell her dad if maybe he could stop throwing bbal at you. Don't make a big deal about it but just bring it up at bball practice one day.
well, my friend told me that before you use a tampon there is a piece of skin that the tampon wiil break! I am 14 and i haven't started my period yet! Does it hurt the first time you put a tampon in? Is there a piece of skin? Thanx 4 helpin!
Yup there's a piece of skin there that your break, and it didn't hurt for me, but everybody is different.
Im a freshmen in high school most people say that i look much older for my age. Im extremely popular in my school all the girls want to be like me and all the guys want a piece of me but sometimes i think my friends just use me because of this im me on xodanielle432ox.. a friends sn how do i know if i hve true friends or not
True friends are there for you no matter what, they'll be there when everyone else turns there back on you. They have fun with you and they enjoy your company
Is it true that if you eat a lot of healthy snacks during the day, rather than meals, you'll loose weight? Also, I always feel so tired and weak. What kind of foods give you energy?
Carbohydrates, such as pasta&rice*breads, are food that will def. give you an energy boost. And I heard if you eat 5 to 6 small healthy meals a day you'll lose weight rather than just eating 3 big meals a day. Remember exercise is a key part to losing weight also.
I just experienced a pretty bad break-up, which I'm finding it hard to get over, as I keep bumping into my ex at school and when I go out. Should we ignore each other? I would like to be friends, but things are just really awkward at the moment.
Take things slow. Right now you both probaly need your space so just kind of stay away from each other, and gradually start saying hi to each other. Soon you guys will probaly be friends again.
i already asked a question like yesterday but this is a lil different.
im 16.f and my best friend is 13. im gin out w/ her older brother. she says evey thing i do involves her. i totally disagree and i think i wand to do things on my own w/o her "approval". she does not like me and her brother together and she wants me to "take a break" or break up with him or something and i kep telling her no and she keeps asking. what do i tell her?
She doesn't sound like a best friend to me. A good friend would be happy for you and your relationship.And you should tell her that. Ask her what her problem is and why she feels the need to control You. If I were you i def. wouldnt' let a young girl push me around.