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She thinks i am annoying
Well, i have this friend and she thinks i am annoying and said it behind my back to one of her guy friends. I asked her to sit with me that day and she came over. We talked about normal stuff and i didn't find me annoying at all. I was really sad becuase my friend and i are really close and she is ALWAYS taling behind my back. Does a real friend do that...talk behind your back. And what should i do cuz i don't think i am annoying?? SHould i hang out with other ppl that don't think i am annoying?
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Well, since she is your friend, talk to her. say that there will always be things about people that you dont like or enjoy. but since your friends she should be able to talk to you about it and you should be able to talk to her abuot it too.
Yah-always make sure thatyou have other friends there too.
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I Hope I helped!
*KelSA*
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confront youre friend. if she admits it to youre face then ask her if she wants to work around it. if not then go find other people that actually wnat to be your friend
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Real friends don't talk behind your back. If they have something that bothers them about you they should say it to your face, so you can resolve whatever conflicts they have with you. I definetly think you should find other friends that don't talk behind your back.
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You should ask her about it, possibly one day when you are talking about her pop in the question and ask 'am I annoying you somehow?' or something along those lines and see if she responds. Though if she is always talking about you behind your back, don't tell her any secrets and you might, as much as I would hate to say it, have to leave her behind and move on. It happens often, everything in life is a drama, we just have to learn with ways to deal with it. Certainly look to other friends and try to get newer ones, you never know where a true friend can be hiding.
- Kai -
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Real friends DONT talk behind your back (unless it's something good about you) But yes i'd talk to her about how she thinks that you're annyoing, and maybe it would be good to hang out with ppl that don't consider you as annoying! but just try to talk to her about it.
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