about

I`m Allison .. But everyone calls me Allie. I`m fourteen years old. I`m a freshman at MHS. I know I`m young, but so far in life I`ve experienced a lot. There`s a whole other part of me that a lot of people don`t know .. even some of my closest friends.
Friends are important to me. If you don`t have friends .. who can you rely on?!
If your a bitch to me I`ll be a bitch to you. It`s that simple. If your nice to me .. I can be one of the nicest people you`ll ever meet. I tend to hold grudges, but if you are sincerly sorry, I forgive easy.
I hate labels and stereotypes .. They really don`t make sense to me. Clothes shouldn`t label a person .. they`re personality should.
Anyways ..
I`m usually really good at giving advice. If you ask a stupid question .. Guess what !? You`ll get a stupid answer !
Other than that .. ask away !
♥ Allie.

advice

my face is breaking out!! okay i have 2 ? any way one is anyideas on how to reduce these pimples?? and is it true if you put toothpaste on them they get better?? i know it sounds weird but thats what i heard!
thanks

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toothpaste only works for some people but you should still try it! umm i dunno any other way other than using acne wash everyday! ~allie

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I'm working on trying to convince my mother to let me get my bellybutton pierced. My only questions are how long does it take to close even after you've had the piercing for more than 6 months? Also- I really need to try to convince her that it's not a huge deal about me getting it pierced, what should I tell her (or what should I not tell her) about belly button piercings?

if youve had your bellybutton pierced for at least 6 months it will take awhile to close up. if you want to convince your mom to letting you get it pierced show her that you are responsible enough to take care of it-like by doing your chores without being reminded-little stuff like that. ensure her that you will take care of your piercing by cleaning it and making sure it doesnt get infected or anything like that! hope i helped and good luck! ~allie

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my friend is depressed. she always tells me her problems and itold her to get therapy bcuz it helps and ive been through it. but after i tell her this she always says "see thats why i cant count on you. you never help me with my problems" she always makes me feel so guilty. How can i help her?

telling her to get therapy probably isnt going to make her feel any better. if you think her problems are serious tell her parents. all you can really do for her is to listen and be a good friend. hope i helped! ~allie

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So.. ilike this guy but my friend also likes him. I don't think he likes her like that, i know this is going to sound concetied, but i think he likes me. if he does and i go out with she'll be mad, but i really like this guy. Me and hers friendship is sort of rocky and she has stolen my crush before and revenge is sweet...what should I do?

yeah...revenge is sweet but just remember that guys will always come and go, but friends will always be there for you! if you talk to her and tell her that your friendship with her is much more important than some guy, if she is a true friend she will back off from the guy to keep your friendship together! hope i helped! ~allie

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Hey!

I dont know if i like a person or if i dont what should i do?

talk to the person and get to know them. just follow your heart and go for it! hope i helped! ~allie

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there are 2 guys that like me and one is very outgoing but he can be rude sometimes but he loves me and then the other guy is very sweet but he is quiet. which one should i go for???

i say the sweet and quiet one! you should never have a rude boyfriend! ~allie

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Im so sick of this. I have a friend and one weekend we were suppost to go to the mall together, Well I kinda ditched her.. but anyway the thing is one my birthday she ditched me!! Well today my other friend basically ditched me.. its not like I havent felt it before and I told her about it. She said "It sucks right?" So I said "Well duh.. but wouldnt it suck more if it was on your fricking birthday?!?" and I walked away... I feel bad.. but then I dont want to talk to her. What do I do?

tell her that you are sorry for what you did and you will never ditch her again because you didnt like the feeling either. if you apoligize then she will too. hope i helped and i hope everything works out! ~allie

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Ok, I have this guy I really, really like. I mean... I think I love him and he always tells me he loves me, but we have a delima. Well I have a delima. We talk online alot, but then when we get to school he's just like fine dont talk to me and Im standing right there to talk to him. Well my question is, is this his form of flirting or does he not like me at all. I really need some help. I will rate high for appropriate answers.

it sound to me like hes flirting! guys have weird ways of saying things sometimes. all you can really do is to flirt back! hope i helped! ~allie

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how do you ask a guy to be your boyfirned? i mean im old fashioned and i dont think me, being a girl, should ask him, because hes a guy. i mean i dont wanna screw it up because i like him ALOT, i think about him all the time, but my friend, whos like his best friend, he just said that i should either ask him out or not like him at all, which is making alot of sense, but im too scared. how should i do it?

Ask one of your close friends to ask him out for you-so that way its not really you asking him out. it will make things a lot easier! hope i helped!~allie

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ok me and my ex were together for 8 months...my longest relationship. it got to the point where i could totally be myself and everything with him. our last month was aweful. he didnt call me as much, people said he was cheating on me. but whenever i asked him he said he would never do that. anyways, we broke up at the begining on this month. since then, ive gotten a new bf. ive known him for two years and a ton of girls like him and hes really popular and he really likes me. he talks about me ALL the time and hes a great bf. but lately ive been missing my ex so much it makes me cry. i wasnt really that sad after the break up (i broke up with him)...but now its hitting me. we still talk though..he said he has a new gf they got together yesertday and he asked if i wanted to double date!!!!!!! i was like wtf...that would kill me seeing him with another girl..but i just said yea anyways. well hes coming over sunday to get his stuff he left here before we broke up..i miss him so much...and when he signed off last nite he sed he loves me and he always will...im so confused...help..

i dont want him back...but then again i do...i just hate seeing him with someone else. :(

awWwwWww...! i know EXACTLY how you feel! if he said he still loves you and you still have feelings for him- you guys should totally get back together! trust is the most important thing in a relationship! hope i helped! ~allie

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i flirt alot with a lot of different guys and i have a boyfriend is that bad?

umm... yeah-thats pretty bad! but if he knows about it and doesnt say anything to you then i guess it would be OKAY, but i suggest you try flirting less-it might hurt your relationship! hope i helped!~allie

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im 23 and have had pretty bad teeth for a while . pretty large gap aand they stick out, apart from that I am really happy with my looks, but it is getting worse and worse as the days go by , not smling etc , should I confront my fear at 23??? what other options do I have?

try braces and if you dont want the metal you could always try invisilign. surgery on your teeth and mouth could be another option if you want quick results.

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so i like this girl, and she likes me, this started only like a week ago but it has picked up full speed. we had a school dance last friday and we kind of ditched our dates to hang out wiht each other. nothing happened we just hung out and talked. were a little embarassed about bringing our semi-relationship out to our friends. we have our first official date scheduled for next tuesday, for dinner and a movie after i get off work. what do you think i should do until then, other than talking to her to keep her interested? how do we bring us out to our friends?

just tell your friends! if they are true friends and really care about you, then they should be happy for you and support you! hope i helped! ~allie

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ok this may take a while but it's worth it. i have this guy friend, he's a sophomore and i'm a senior. we get along really well - we have a brother/sister relationship. i've liked him for a while and he likes me, except there are a few problems:
-we tried being more than friends for a little bit (hanging out, making out, etc.) but it didn't work out, i ended it, but i'm not sure why
-he's looking for a more physical relationship while i'm looking for a more emotional one
-if we went out and my friends found out, they'd kill me. they'd do everything they could to get us to break up because not one of them likes him
-i don't want to lead him on if i'm just gonna hurt him again
i know i may have left some things out. if you need more info just ask and i'll add it. thanks so much :)

talk to him and tell him that if your going to have a relationship with him that you want an emotional relationship,try compromising. if your friends have a problem with you being happy and havong a good relationship with somebody than they are not being true friends. try to get your friends to hang out with him and maybe they will become friends with him too. hope i helped! ~allie

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i have these jeans that i want to put rinestones on. what kind of glue should i use???

fabric glue or even hot glue works if your careful with it!good luck! ~allie

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Ok, i don't know what to put this under ..
Prom is coming up and i have my dress and all ..
But it shows my shoulders/back .. I brake out on my back SO bad i can only get it cleared during the summer b/c i lay out in the sun/tanning bed ..
Any way to get it clear in like 1 month or less ??
Thanks Bunches !!

if you go to the store they have tons of products for your body if you brake out on your back or anywhere else. its just like a regular face wash, you just use it in the shower! hope i helped! ~allie

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Last night I tried to kill yself by ODing on sleeping pills. It didnt work though obviously. All that I remember is my dad bringing me into bed and my body started spazing out. I woke up this morning feeling really sick. And really upset because it didnt work.And the sad thing is htough.. If it had... I'm sure that my dad wouldnt have noticed and my mother wouldnt have noticed becaused she was on drugs and passed out. I just dont know what to do with my self. I need some advice. I also feel embarassed.. because after I tok the pills (they were sleeping pills) I wasnt in the right state of mind.. and one of my teachers IMed me when I was online and we had a conversation about stuff becasue I asked them if they ever knew a friend that tried to commit suicide... I mean come on now! wouldnt that just blow your mind? ugh. I dont know what to do. Someone please help me. I'll rate...If thats what it takes to get a decent answer

have you talked to someone close to you about this? you might hear this a lot but talking and crying really does take all of your stress off of you! try calling a help hotline,its totally confidential and they are there to help you! tell a good friend that you trust and that will understand you, that you need help. hope i helped! ~allie

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I was babysitting at a place over an hour away (I was spending the night there too), and I was charging my cell before I left, and I guess I forgot it was on and charging, so I had left it at home when I left (accidentaly) and it was charging until about noon the next day... maybe later, so if I estimated it would have been from 4p.m to maybe 12:30p.m, not quite 24 hours, but about 3 and a half hours less.

2 questions...
Is it bad to leave you cell on when you're charging (my cell will still charge)
And is it bad to keep it charging for so long (even if it was on accident) Thanks!

its totally fine to leave it on while its charging and its fine to keep it charing for a long period of time! i do it all the time! ~allie

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Me and this guy have liked eachother for about 2 months (long story why we're not dating yet) and we were outside of our friend's house. We held hands and he kissed me. My parents just happened to be driving by at the time, and me being their "little baby girl" they're extremely over-protective. They went to his house and told him to stay away from him and told me that I wasn't allowed to talk to him anymore. I am very upset about this and so is he. I usually don't get chances like this to have a relationship so please..help. What can I do to make this work?

try talking to your parents. tell them something that will ensure them that you can be trusted when your with him. tell them that you have known him long enough and trust him and that you arnt their "little baby girl" anymore! good luck! ~allie

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I'd appreciate some direct ways to say something to my bf of over a year.

we'd been talking and he needed a float loan of $800 for a few days to help with a mortgage approval. that is ok. but when he called about it, i mentioned the fact that one of my friends saw his updated ad on match.com, that it hurt my feelings, he knows it hurts my feelings, i care about him a great deal, and i thought we were over and done with that BS months ago. His reply was... can we talk later? can I call you later? I said 'are you gonna call me later?' and he said yes. I said ok and we hung up. I know his style and he'll probably test the waters in a few days and then never mention it again.

Guys... just help me say no more, clearly in a way that he doesn't just shut down. Thanks.
ps... me f/39 and him m/35

if you forgive him hes just going to put you through all of this BS again. tell him that if he cant talk about whats up with him then you cant keep a relationship with him. hope i helped!~allie

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