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Im so sick of this. I have a friend and one weekend we were suppost to go to the mall together, Well I kinda ditched her.. but anyway the thing is one my birthday she ditched me!! Well today my other friend basically ditched me.. its not like I havent felt it before and I told her about it. She said "It sucks right?" So I said "Well duh.. but wouldnt it suck more if it was on your fricking birthday?!?" and I walked away... I feel bad.. but then I dont want to talk to her. What do I do?
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Ok.. you.. ditched her.. first. Take that into consideration. You know, revenge is sorta wrong.. but you had it coming in my opinion. She shouldn't have done it on your birthday.. that was a tinge worse than you ditching her at the mall.I think you need to apologize to her because afterall.. you did start this mess for some reason or another..
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OK, I have felt the same way SOOOOO many times. Your friend obviously ditched you b/c you ditched her first. She probably thought that she could get you back hardest by ditching you on your birthday. This relates to the old saying, "Do onto others what you want others to do onto you."
You shouldn't have ditched her in the first place. Try arranging a date where you can meet up with eachother again. If you want to keep your friend, you have to be willing to talk. Tell her how bad you felt, and that you were sorry for what you had done. See if that works. I usually do that with my friends when we get into arguments. Try my advice!
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To be brutally honest, she only behaved in this way because of the impact of your similar actions previously.
There isn't any reason to be mad. Have you ever thought how she felt when you ditched her? It's just karma coming around to bite you in the butt.
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tell her that you are sorry for what you did and you will never ditch her again because you didnt like the feeling either. if you apoligize then she will too. hope i helped and i hope everything works out! ~allie
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I have two sayings for you:
What goes around comes around.
Treat others like you wish to be treated.
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Cut yourself. Ha. No. Wait. for her to talk
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that was really rude of her. tell her "i understand you where trying to make a point...but it was my birthday and it meant alot to me. i felt bad" or something
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i think you should defenetly talk to her...and you both need to have a long talk, you need to say sorry for ditching her...and hopefully she will say sorry, and then make up or something by going somewhere together :) i dunno hope i helped xoxo effy
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Well, you shouldn't have ditched her in the first place. You made it seem like it was all her fault and like what you did wasn't wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right but still, your other friend may have had plans or something. You did ditch her before. It's not like your friends are obligated to come. It's nice if they do, but you have to understand, things come up. It's happened to me, but basically, you have to forgive and forget.
~Sorry if I sounded mean, I didn't mean to~
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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omg im going thourgh the exact same thing right now!ok so what im trying to do is... she never follows thourgh with plans so the later i make them the better. firt say u wanna do something friday? on monday but of course shell forget so then on thursday be like wanna go to the mall tomorrow? then on friday call.. so far its working. as for ur bday thats pretty f*ed up so i wouldnt ignore her but talk to her and tell her it was your bday she shouldve been there with you if she condsiders herself your friend. hope i helped
BROOKIE
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I'm not sure whose really in the right, I'm thinking that you both are wrong, because you both ditched each other, you did it first, and she felt she had to get revenge. You need to either try working this out by saying, "hey, I want things the way they were, yes, I admit that I did ditch you for the mall, but if you had done that to me, I wouldn't have dared done it on your birthday." But its probably going to take a while, but listen, it really hurts to be ditched, even if its just a trip to the mall. It makes people feel rejected and angry, I know you've felt it now, and I'm not saying you deserved it, I am saying that maybe now you should take things where you go with your friend a bit more seriously.
-TheTeenGirl
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well even though you dont want to talk to her its probely the best thing to do right now and i bet your friend would want to talk to you 2! good luck! hope it helped! =) x0x
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