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Ok I started this advice site to help out others. My friends say I give good advice but they could just be saying that to be nice lol. Tell me what you think by rating me (1-5, 1 l worst, 5 best). Good or bad, your rate will be appreciated!! Thank you!!
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Basically I'm 13 and i love to draw, swim, play volleyball and soccer, dance, sing, and hang out with friends. i love collecting purses haha, i have this huge purse collection in the back of my closet, most of them i never even use lol. i also like the shop and travel. i make madprofiles and i LOVE movies haha. i pretty much like anything non-academic related lol..god i'm so glad summer's started. anyways that's pretty much all about me!!
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ok so i really like my best friends boyfriend and they just broke up today and i still talk to her ex and shes getting mad at me and him for talking to me but i dont know if he likes me or not i kinda think he does cus we talk alot and like smile at each other and stuff but if he did like me i couldnt go out with him cus my best friend would like never talk to me again cus she really loved him.
i dont know what to do please help me! (link)
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i can understand why your friend is getting mad at you but you have every right to talk to him. explain to her that you're just talking to him, nothing else and that you'd never go behind her back and do something with him. you should be able to talk to him because he's your friend. just because she doesn't talk to him doesn't mean you can't. but don't talk about him around her, that might piss her off. you don't even know if he likes you yet so you won't know if he'll even ask you out. if he does ask you out (and hopefully by then your best friend is probably over him. if not, then that's a different story and if that happens, ask me for advice again. if i give you advice about that, this will be WAYYY too long) then you can say yes because you like him. maybe you could try hooking your friend up with someone else, so she could possibly forget about her ex (for hers and your sake). good luck! :)
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okay so i am with this guy who really loves me and ive been with his b4 *~bob~* and hes really sumthing special i mean hes soo sweet and careing and everything and hes been like my bestfriend forever well not really but hes always been there for me like a bestfriend yahno? well ne ways.... so my ex *~david~* was tlkin to me about how he still likes me and how he likes my friend too but if he saw me when he was with her hed be like d*mn and wish he was with me and said that if he was with me again he wouldnt say that if he saw her....and that he doesnt get why he likes her and he still loves me.... but i dont wanna hurt *~bob~* but i use to love *~david~* soo much and think i still do and whenever i tlk to *~david~* about *~bob~* he tells me hes gunna cheat on me or sumthing and when he asked me why i was with *~bob~* and if i loved him i couldnt tell him the truth so i lied... i just dunno what to do i mean i dont wanan hurt my friend and *~bob~* really cares about me and would never hurt me but *~david~* has hurt me b4...
((*~_______~* means the names have been changed))
~~~always.... im soo confused~~~ (link)
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are you asking me which one you should choose? i would choose *~bob~* if i were you because david has hurt you before and he likes your friend too...that could actually lead somewhere if you think about it. and david keeps on telling you that bob will cheat on you, and that's really not nice of him to do that considering that you like him a lot. has bob ever done that to you about david? you've probably known bob longer and he's really nice and your best friend forever, so it might be cool to go out with him. you shouldn't go out with a guy who forces you to lie about your own feelings around him, and who hurt you before. if bob doesn't work out for you, then you could go out with david since you love him and you could give him a second chance, since a lot of guys mess up on their first try anyway. good lucK!! :)
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Hi my name is kari and im 16 years old and i have this bf named "brad" he's 17. Im still a virgin but i wanna have sex not because everyone is doing it..i wanna try it out. Im scared though, i dont kno what he'll think about my body because im not skinny im average and im not even close to havin a nice body. Lets just say im no comfortable wit my body.(if u kno wut i mean)i was havin sex then he would shoot me but i was thinkin bout going on birth control but then my dad would prob find out and it would be kinda obvious. If i don't have sex wit brad then maybe he might dump me but he told me he's an nympho but hes not gonna pressure me sooo im all confused and dont kno what to do!! please help me
*mizz understod* (link)
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you want to have sex, so just do it. but you're scared to, and that's totally normal. and don't worry about your body, average means it's the AVERAGE which means most people have your type of body!! brad wouldn't have asked you out in the first place if he didn't like you, and he likes you not because you don't have a nice body, but for who you are. he may not even notice, but tons of girls worry about the same thing and they end up getting along FINE. it's not like he's going to dump you just because you have an average body. if you do end up having sex, have him use a condom and you use a diaphragm with spermicides in it. that's pretty much going to prevent pregnancy and STDS but it isn't 100% though. do it only if you're ready. and he said he wouldn't pressure you, so if you don't do it, it should be alright. i hoped i helped..good luck!! :)
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I alreyad asked you a question but you havent answered it yet(which is fine by the way) but that kid iw as telling you that liked me from another town doesnt like me nemore? For like no reason! So his away wa slike hacking and blah blah blah and iw a sjust like haha hacking and i wasnt like being mean or nething? i wa slike only making conversation you know? and he w alsike how is that funny? and he was being all gay about it and now he's mad at me. and he told his cousin(my best friend) that he doesnt like me anymore and all this crap. Its so gay and i dont get why he's mad. Can you help me? (link)
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oh i've probably answered it by now but if i haven't, i'm really sorry. it's because advicenators sometimes randomely puts things out of order and even deletes some...which is really weird.
anywayss i don't remember which one was yours again *SORRY!* but that's just gay what he did to you. i mean, i can see how it's a joke about you laughing about hacking. like he was REALLY hacking..i mean come on (unless he's a computer genius). and just tell him that it was just a joke and even if it wasn't funny to him, he shouldn't be such a sore loser about it. there's no reason for him to be mad at you at all. seriously i think you should just forget about him, any guy that's going to take something that seriously isn't even worth it. plus he doesn't even like you anymore *at least he says* so i don't know, maybe just forget about him for a while and see if he still keeps on acting like this. or on the other hand, maybe he really was hacking and it took him a long time to and when you laughed at him he just got overemotional. but he still shoudln't have been so rude about it. well.. good luck!! :)
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Theres this guy I like named Ray and my friend knew it and she's known for the longest time.. but about two weeks ago we all went out one time and after I left, they suddenly started going out. But now they still ask me to go with them but then they act all lovey-dovey in my face like hugging eachother every five seconds and telling eachother they love eachother...and only after dating for two weeks! And they know it gets on my nerves, but they think it's funny whenever I get upset. But a few days ago, whenever me, Ray, and my other friend ( not his girlfriend ) all went out one time and my friend told me he was touching me alot and that he was like obsessing over me... i'm confused. Is he only going out with her to make me jealous? Or does he like me? Or what... i'm so confused... please help!
signed,
Ray Romance (link)
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that's annoying (when you go with your friend and her bf, ray and they act all lovey dovey). i think that he might like both of you, you and your friend. he's probably not using her because he acts all lovey-dovey and all, and i don't know he might be but it's more likely he likes both of you. if he did like you, why wouldn't he have asked you out instead of your friend. going out with your friend would make him drift further away from you anyway. he likes both of you i think but if he starts touching you a lot, he's definitely cheating. or your friend could be lying, who knows? i hope i helped...good luck!! :)
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ok im really confused ok so theres these 2 boys there names are frankie and cory i like cory and frankie but i went out with them before and frankie like i dont like going out with him because i care so much what people think of me because when i go out with frankie people always stare at us because hes way shorter than me and im only 4'11 and im 13 and cory i like him 2 and hes taller then me and we made on before but his mom walked in on us making it and his mom just like freaked out and with frankie he never did anything cause hes to shy and when i like tell him i wanna kiss and stuff he will all ways be like ok i will and he never does and i get so mad cause i wanna so bad and hes like the girl should make the first move and i think the boy should make the first move. any ways im just saying they both like me but i like both of them i just dont know what one to go out with i mean im scared because like if one of them sees me with a boy they will like beat them up because they would like get jealous and that happend they got in a fight with each other and cory beat up frankie really bad because i was going out with him and i dont want that to happen again so im scared if i go out with one of them then they will get in another fight so im like so confused =\ i dont know if you should like not go out with one of them or go out with one of them its like really confusing i dont know what to do
please help =[ (link)
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you have the right to go out with them babes and that was plain immature of cory to beat up frankie (NO OFFENSE!). he shouldn't have done that. this time, tell both of them to not beat up the other guy you might go out with, and make them promise that they won't. it may not work but it's worth a try. are you also asking me which guy you should go out with? well i think you should go out with cory because like he did stuff with you and he's taller. the bad thing is that his mom sort of saw you two make out and he beat up frankie. but frankie's way shorter than you and he's really shy, and it seems as if you get along better with cory anyway. it depends on your choice, i'm just telling you my opinion. good luck!! :)
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okay so theres this girl in my class and i guess you could say were good friends. but she doesnt exactly dress the way i do. to put it bluntly, shes a FREAK! she tells me all the time that she buys her clothes from wal mart and target, and i just cant be seen with this kind of person! and she wears browm and black together.. i mean, WHAT IS THAT?! did this girl not pay attention in kindergarden when the teacher told everyone NOT TO WEAR BLACK AND BROWN TOGETHER!! what can i do? (link)
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well you shouldn't just stop being friends with her just because you don't like the way she dresses. but yeah..brown and black ugh. i personally don't think target's clothe are that bad, even though i don't buy my clothe there. and i never even knew walmart sold clothe haha. anyways suggest to her NICELY why she doesn't wear some other color. say something like "you know, i think you'd look really pretty in pink" and she might start wearing different colors. take her on a shopping spree and take her to the stores you shop at, and make her buy clothe there. if she refuses to, ask her why she only wears brown and black, those colors are so depressing. ask her to start wearing at least a bit of color in her clothes. and honestly, i don't think people can truly tell whether her clothe are from walmart or target (unless they actually say walmart or target on them) so that part isn't that bad. maybe the reason she shop there is because she can't afford to buy clothe at other places. some families are just like that and you can't blame her for it. anyways good luck!! :)
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okay ... well in my whole life i only had ONE boyfriend, but people tell me that he was just desperate but he use to tell me he really loved me nd stuff like that, he cheated on me but that same night he had his brother call me up and beg me not to break up with him well 2 days after that he broke up with me for some other girl that i hate with the passion. so my first question is ; how do i get him back? and also if i cant get him back i would atleast like another boyfriend ... so how do i get a guy to like me and ask me out?
signed ; wanting love (link)
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i don't think you should go out with that guy again. first, because he cheated on you and dumped you like 2 days later. and he does sound a bit desperate to me, so people might be saying the truth. i don't even know the guy so you don't really have to listen to me lol. if you really want to get him back, you have to get it into his head that you still like him and you'd like to keep on going out. and keep on being friends and stay close together. if you can't get him back, then yeah get another boyfriend. start hanging out with guys more and if you see this one guy you like more than the rest, flirt and do other such things with him. be nice (guys like nice girls, mean girls turn them off) and friendly. and you could ask a guy out too, you might be too scared to but just realize that you COULD. good luck!! :)
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about half my division at sleep away camp hooked up last summer and i didnt and when i go this summer i kind of feel forced and i am scared i know what it is but wat if i totally screw it up and at camp nothing is a secret so i dont want a bad reputation...
please help
oh yea i am 13/f
thankss (link)
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so you want to hook up with someone at camp so you won't get a bad reputation? i think that's what you're asking and if not, i'm real sorry lol. just try to hook up with someone and see guys, flirt, hang out, whatever. you might screw up but don't worry so much, trust me if you're confident it's more likely you'll get what you want. and about half of the people did, not ALL OF THEM. so you could still be with the other half of the people, you won't be totally alone. and even if you do screw up, just realize that summer passes by so much faster than you think (unfortunately...*sigh*) and soon you'll be back in school AGAIN. if you're that afraid, maybe you could try another camp? anyways good luck!! :)
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whats masturbating.
- sally ann (link)
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um i already answered that question a while ago. basically just stimulating yourself sexually, it's like an activity. godd why is everybody asking this lol? if you want more info, just find it somewhere on the internet.
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okay.. well about 2 years ago my mom married this guy who lives in our area. hes really nice and all.. he totally clicked with me and my 6 sisters!! so latly hes been practically my father figure since my dad passed away 2 years ago.. but anyway.. about the same time that my mom started dating my step dad, Steven, this hott ass kid came into my school and my friend told me that he liked me. so i went in for the kill and asked him to hang out and stuff and we started dating..but little to find out.. this kid was Steve's SON!! and so as soon as we found that out we ended that relationship. and ever since then its been really weird between us.. i mean i want to be friends, but its just akward. hes always pix messaging me with pictures of his dick and asking me if i want to ever have sex with him or if i will send pictures of myself to him. what should i do? i dont wwant to tell my mom because then steve might leave.. but its really weird with jason around all the time. (link)
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woah that's really weird.. you can't force your mom to make steve leave just because of jason, because your mom loves steve and that's really unfair to her. but jason (no offense, i know you like him but still) is sort of perverted by doing that *sending you pictures of his dick and asking u to have sex?? you can't say that ISN'T perverted!* don't send him pictures of you. tell him to stop doing that because it's just really disturbing. would you rather do that, or keep on seeing pictures of his penis? or just block him, whatever, unless you actually like looking at those images? i can understand how it's weird to have jason around but try to put that whole pictures thing behind and try your best to be friends with him. if you can't really, then ignore him for a while. give him time and then afterwards he may come to his senses and not be so awkward around you anymore. if things start getting bad, like jason actually physically doing something to you, you should tell your mom. steve may not leave but they could do something about jason. good luck with jason!! :)
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There's this boy that I've liked since preschool(dont ask long story) and ive known him all my life - since i was in diapers! and i dont exactly know what it is about him that makes him so special that makes me think he's perfect? When i see his face - i fall in love with him all over again - the thing is he has a girlfriend(who's one of my good friends) but he told me he wanted me to come back to my old town and hang out with him because he's been stressed out and his girlfriend -Danielle- and him -Austin- have been fighting a lot, he said he wanted it to be just us two and no one else and we'd just hang out and talk about stuff and catch up and maybe watch a movie or so. I don't know if he really likes me back, but everyone says he does. I live two hours away and we went out before around his birthday but we broke up because it wasn't working out for some reason. I'm totally and completely head over heels for this guy -madly in love with him- id do anything for him and even my parents know that I'm in love with him and I don't know how this would ever work out if it didn't before?! So I was just wondering if you had any advice for me - any at all?
HeAd_0v3r_HeElS_fOr_HiM (link)
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well he invited you over so here's time to catch him and make HIM fall head over heels for you =). people usually always suspect boy-girl good friends like each other, but sometimes it can be the truth. when you go over, just be really friendly and nice, maybe flirt a bit with him, and just be the wonderful friend you are to him. and it could work out, definitely. there are lots of couples out there whose first time going out ended up a disaster, but the 2nd (or 3rd) time totally worked out!! that's all you can do really, and it sucks that he lives so far away from you. just try to visit each other and talk on the phone or AIM a lot, and i'm sure something will happen. just don't scare him off or anything lol. good luck with hiM!! :)
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Ok so there are these 2 guys that like me. One of them goes to my school and is in my grade and the other one is a grade ahead of me and lives in another town. The one in my school is nice but he's more of my best friend. He's not ugly but he's not hott either. But he has a good personality even though he can be kind of perverted sometimes. And then there's the kid that lives in another time. He's my best friend's cousin and i talk to him online a lot. He's wicked nice and has a great personality. But he's kind of ugly :P I dont know who I should go for. Who do you think? (link)
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if i were you, i'd choose the first guy. he goes to your school and is in your grade so you'll see him often. and the other guy lives in another town so you may not see him often. couples tend to break up because they don't see each other enough. and don't worry, a lot of guys are perverted these days lol so it's pretty normal. the guy's already your best friend and best friends tend to hook up sometimes. the other guy is your best friend's cousin and your friend may not be very comfortable with you going out with her cousin. and you seem as if you'd like to go out with someone who's not really ugly, and the first one seems hotter than the other one, the way you put it. anyways that's mainly why i think the first one, but if it doesn't work out between you two, you can go out with the second one too. i hope i helped...good luck! :)
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Well theres this guy I love soo much and we dated for a long time but he goes to a different school than I do and I'm coming to his school soon.And my friend asked him if i came to his school would he date me again and he said probably.And the reason we broke up the first time was bc we went to different school and we never got to see each other and then somebody told him i was all over these guys one night and i soo wasnt.well he believe that person and not me.It really hurt that he didnt trust me.bc i would never do that too him and then just today i told him while he was away how much i loved him and that i hate that we broke up and i want to be with him again and im my info it has these numbers standing for his name and he ask and i told him and he goes ohh.and then says nothing else about it.and he told my friend that he really really really liked me and everything.so yeh i dont know what to do.i care soo much for him but it seems like he doesnt care at all.should i forget him or talk to him abouot it? or what bc im soo confused.please help me nobody else will. (link)
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well i don't know, sometimes people can just stop liking someone. but it seems like he still likes you, because he told your friend that he did and he got upset when that person told him about how you were all over these guys. you're going to go to his school anyway so you might as well talk about it to him. give him some more chances to prove that he TRULY likes you before you forget about him. guys sometimes act weird, don't worry. to connect, when you go to his school, ask him to show you around and introduce his friends to you. just give him a chance, maybe you were a bit fast by just suddenly telling him you were going to his school. maybe he's hiding something at his school and doesn't want you to know, which might explain his "weird" behavior. i have no clue but just talk to him...good luck!! :)
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this is complicated, but i have a crush on this boy named *matt* (thats what we`ll call him), he is so funny, sweet, nice, good looking, but he WAS dating my best friend, they broke up, but he still has feelings for her, my friend asked him out for me, and he said "i'll think about it", i was happy but now my best friend is like "i love him".. i'm lost. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. (link)
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i have a feeling your crush and your best friend still love each other. your best friend found out that you liked him so she asked him out for you but your crush still likes her so he said that he would think about it. but then your friend realized that she still loved him...so that's basically it i guess. you shouldn't purposely force your crush to like you NOT your best friend because that's mean to your friend but all you can really do is be friends with him, flirt, and hang out. he already sort of knows you like him because your friend asked him out for you...but still. if your friend and crush go out again, it's not the end of the world. you've survived it once, you can survive it again. you'll find another guy to love, and he'll love you back. good luck!! :)
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Okay, I had met this guy Chad on vacation. We totally hit it off and it was like love at first sight. He asked me out and we had such a great time. But then vacation ended and I thought i'd never talk to him again until next year on vacation. When i got back from the vacation though, he was like ALL i could think about. I couldn't conentrate on school, on freinds, on like anything! Yeah, i had many bfs after that vacation, but i always still liked Chad. He meant so much to me. And people are always saying you dont know what love is, but i LOVE him! I still do. Uh, i cant even begin to explain what I feel for him.. Hah, i know that sound so gay but what ever. And so after liking him for a whole year, it was finally time to go on vacation again. But he wasnt there! So i asked his friends who were there last year what his sn was and stuff. And they were all like Chad loves you!! Chad loves you! I ended up liking his hott friend though. So me and his friend Adam went out.. When I got back from vacation I started to talk to Chad. We started catching up and all that. He told me how he had liked me that whole year and he wicekd wanted to see me again. he told me that everytime a girl asked him out he always would say idk because he always thought of me. but, he had a gf.. and i had a bf (Chads bestfrtiend). So then the next day Chads like, oh so your going out with Adam, and i was like yeah.. but i like someone else. And hes like who and im like you. And he told me he liked me too. So we both broke up with our bf/gf so we could go out. After like 5 days we broke up though. ugh. I live like 45 minutes away from him in different towns, so its not like we even go to the same school or anything. and then reason we broke up is cause we would never see each toehr. we agreed we'd still like each other, and maybe hook up sometime. yeah, well we talk all the time on aim, and on the phone. but we're SOO perfect for each other!! we have everything in common! like sseriosuly. we have all the same favorties and intrests. and his birthday is a day after mine! mines July 15, and his is July 16!! and i even try to get over him, but i cant cause EVERYTHING, seriosuly like everything reminds me of him. ugh, i love him so much and idk what to do. please help. =(
*sorry to make this soo long.. (link)
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well, i know it's 45 minutes but you and chad could still visit each other. i mean, it's not like you live in different states or anything. is there a place in between where you two live that you can meet at (like 20 min from his and your place?). there could probably even be a school like that, who knows. just make sure to never stop contacting each other, whether it's on AIM, email, or phone. you're lucky to have those things though, like if it were 50 years ago it would have been pretty hard to keep in touch. you could try getting a webcam and microphone, and talk (and see) him online so you feel closer to him. try to get together. it's pretty obvious you can't get over him (AN ENTIRE YEAR of loving him!!) so you might as well try to be with him as much as you want. but don't become too obsessed, he may not be around you forever so once he's gone...well you may not be able to take it. you survived a whole year without him (thinking of him all the time yes, but nevertheless). try to NOT think about him all the time and think about other things for a change too. and look for other boys too, i know he's the one for you but it doesn't hurt to still "look". good luck!! :)
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okay . this is a really really imbarrassing question but im to afraid to ask someone who knows me so i thought i would ask you . okay well first of all im a girl nd im 15 ( just incase that has anything to do with it ) but sometimes when i wake up in the morning i have a really really bad pain in my grewing area and it hurts so bad that its not even funny and it wont go away for a REALLY REALLY REALLY long time and whatever i do it dont help . could you please tell me whats doing this to me ?! =\ .. Oh and by the way I really only notice it when Im at my friends houses . I know that dont make sense but yeah .
Thanx Lots (link)
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the only good reason i can think of is menstrual cramps. when you have menstruation (or period) you get cramps, which REALLYY hurt so i think that might be your problem. when you're 15, you've most likely started your period so i think that has to do with your age. if you don't think that's the answer, then i'm sorry but maybe you should see a doctor if it hurts badly? it could be something really serious. and at your friend's house, it's probably just a coincidence. or...do you go to your friend's house like every 14 or 28 days or something like that? if you happen to do that, then that probably explains it. those are days of the menstrual cycle-14 is the ovulation-28th is the actual period. well it's not exact but it's around that time. lol anyways hope i helped, good luck!! :)
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ii use to qo out with thisz kid named matt ; we like broke up a week aqo nd rite wen we broke up he started to qo out with mh ex-best friend ; ii really dont care if we broke up cuz ii dont like him at all itsz just it bothersz me that he dumped me for some even uqlier ; do you think ii still have feelinqsz for him? wat should ii do?
sincerly ; confused with love (link)
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i don't really think you have feelings for him...not really at least. but you have to realize that even ugly girls get boyfriends and sometimes guys might like ugly girls because of something else besides their looks, like a great personality or they're smart. some guys would prefer an extremely nice, funny but ugly girl before a hot bitchy girl. it's sort of normal to feel this way about your ex just going out with someone uglier, especially if it's your ex-best friend. you only have feelings if you're actually jealous of your ex best friend, not just upset that your boyfriend dumped you for her...if you get what i mean. you actually have to WANT him back if you still like him. and you can't really do anything. if you don't like him, then just leave it like it is, you can still be friends but whatever. and if you do like him, well same thing, nothing you can truly do but it doesn't sound that much like you still like him. maybe find another guy. good luck! :)
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I have two like really close freinds but wat sucks is we always r jealous of one another? Like and we always tend to be really clicky with one another how can we ALL just get along? (link)
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stop being jealous of each other. everyone has their good traits (and things) and their bad traits/things. do you and your friends sort of brag around each other? that might be what's making everyone so jealous of each other. stop bragging, believe me it only makes things worse. is one of your friends really rich? is she CONSTANTLY invited you and your other friends to her mansion to show it off? maybe you could hang out at the movies, or someone else's house instead, to avoid jealousy. there's always SOMEWHERE you and your friends could go to. and if you have a really expensive, nice louis vuitton purse that your friends are all jealous of (and tend to fight about), hide it next time they come over so nobody will really mention it. and whenever a fight about it starts, change te subject immediately. good luck with your friends!! :)
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Hi.. My name is April. i am 15 and I live in San Diego.. Both of my parents were traveling when the tsunami hit and they were both killed. i am so stressed out. theres nothing i can do for the pain. i have tried smoking pot and doing other drugs which tends to help for a short time.. but then once i high wears off, i just go back to the same lonly feeling. for the time being i am living with my 3 sisters at my aunts house, but she already has 4 children and they are not the most wealthy family, so its been just all one big struggle. i am failing school because i cant concentrate. all i can think about is my parents and how much they meant to me. my mom was my best friend in the whole entire world.. and tomorrow, May 21st, is her birthday. i dont know how to handle the pain. i have considered suicide .. and if i do do it i am going to do it tomorrow so i can see my mommy on her birthday. so please give me some advice because your the last person i am counting on.. (link)
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omg i am so sorry about what happened to your parents. it's hard to take the pain when you lose a loved one, and i'm so sorry. but your mother wouldn't want you to do this for yourself. she's watching you from above, and imagine how she feels when she watches you smoke pot, do drugs, fail school, and committ suicide. your mother would want you to keep on living your life, without her, and do well in school and just be happy. it's hard because you may think there's nothing more to live for because your mother is dead but your mom wouldn't want you to stress out this much. you'll eventually join your mother but for the moment, keep on living your life. your mom wants you to do that. and you still have your sisters, and your aunt left. there are many children in the world who have no family left. homeless children, starving children. and your mother is always with you, even if she is no longer living. please don't committ suicide, your parents wouldn't want you to suffer that fate without fully living your life. let time pass by, it cures over time. to relieve the pain, go see a counselour or therapist and ask them how you can handle the pain without doing bad things (such as suicide and drugs). don't do drugs either, they may seem to make life better but they end up making it so much worse. try to relieve your pain in a healthy, good way. good luck :)
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