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Okay, I had met this guy Chad on vacation. We totally hit it off and it was like love at first sight. He asked me out and we had such a great time. But then vacation ended and I thought i'd never talk to him again until next year on vacation. When i got back from the vacation though, he was like ALL i could think about. I couldn't conentrate on school, on freinds, on like anything! Yeah, i had many bfs after that vacation, but i always still liked Chad. He meant so much to me. And people are always saying you dont know what love is, but i LOVE him! I still do. Uh, i cant even begin to explain what I feel for him.. Hah, i know that sound so gay but what ever. And so after liking him for a whole year, it was finally time to go on vacation again. But he wasnt there! So i asked his friends who were there last year what his sn was and stuff. And they were all like Chad loves you!! Chad loves you! I ended up liking his hott friend though. So me and his friend Adam went out.. When I got back from vacation I started to talk to Chad. We started catching up and all that. He told me how he had liked me that whole year and he wicekd wanted to see me again. he told me that everytime a girl asked him out he always would say idk because he always thought of me. but, he had a gf.. and i had a bf (Chads bestfrtiend). So then the next day Chads like, oh so your going out with Adam, and i was like yeah.. but i like someone else. And hes like who and im like you. And he told me he liked me too. So we both broke up with our bf/gf so we could go out. After like 5 days we broke up though. ugh. I live like 45 minutes away from him in different towns, so its not like we even go to the same school or anything. and then reason we broke up is cause we would never see each toehr. we agreed we'd still like each other, and maybe hook up sometime. yeah, well we talk all the time on aim, and on the phone. but we're SOO perfect for each other!! we have everything in common! like sseriosuly. we have all the same favorties and intrests. and his birthday is a day after mine! mines July 15, and his is July 16!! and i even try to get over him, but i cant cause EVERYTHING, seriosuly like everything reminds me of him. ugh, i love him so much and idk what to do. please help. =(
*sorry to make this soo long..
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well, i know it's 45 minutes but you and chad could still visit each other. i mean, it's not like you live in different states or anything. is there a place in between where you two live that you can meet at (like 20 min from his and your place?). there could probably even be a school like that, who knows. just make sure to never stop contacting each other, whether it's on AIM, email, or phone. you're lucky to have those things though, like if it were 50 years ago it would have been pretty hard to keep in touch. you could try getting a webcam and microphone, and talk (and see) him online so you feel closer to him. try to get together. it's pretty obvious you can't get over him (AN ENTIRE YEAR of loving him!!) so you might as well try to be with him as much as you want. but don't become too obsessed, he may not be around you forever so once he's gone...well you may not be able to take it. you survived a whole year without him (thinking of him all the time yes, but nevertheless). try to NOT think about him all the time and think about other things for a change too. and look for other boys too, i know he's the one for you but it doesn't hurt to still "look". good luck!! :)
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