okay so i am with this guy who really loves me and ive been with his b4 *~bob~* and hes really sumthing special i mean hes soo sweet and careing and everything and hes been like my bestfriend forever well not really but hes always been there for me like a bestfriend yahno? well ne ways.... so my ex *~david~* was tlkin to me about how he still likes me and how he likes my friend too but if he saw me when he was with her hed be like d*mn and wish he was with me and said that if he was with me again he wouldnt say that if he saw her....and that he doesnt get why he likes her and he still loves me.... but i dont wanna hurt *~bob~* but i use to love *~david~* soo much and think i still do and whenever i tlk to *~david~* about *~bob~* he tells me hes gunna cheat on me or sumthing and when he asked me why i was with *~bob~* and if i loved him i couldnt tell him the truth so i lied... i just dunno what to do i mean i dont wanan hurt my friend and *~bob~* really cares about me and would never hurt me but *~david~* has hurt me b4...
((*~_______~* means the names have been changed))
~~~always.... im soo confused~~~
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? shortiebebe021 answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 5:54 pm: are you asking me which one you should choose? i would choose *~bob~* if i were you because david has hurt you before and he likes your friend too...that could actually lead somewhere if you think about it. and david keeps on telling you that bob will cheat on you, and that's really not nice of him to do that considering that you like him a lot. has bob ever done that to you about david? you've probably known bob longer and he's really nice and your best friend forever, so it might be cool to go out with him. you shouldn't go out with a guy who forces you to lie about your own feelings around him, and who hurt you before. if bob doesn't work out for you, then you could go out with david since you love him and you could give him a second chance, since a lot of guys mess up on their first try anyway. good lucK!! :) [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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