Hi my name is kari and im 16 years old and i have this bf named "brad" he's 17. Im still a virgin but i wanna have sex not because everyone is doing it..i wanna try it out. Im scared though, i dont kno what he'll think about my body because im not skinny im average and im not even close to havin a nice body. Lets just say im no comfortable wit my body.(if u kno wut i mean)i was havin sex then he would shoot me but i was thinkin bout going on birth control but then my dad would prob find out and it would be kinda obvious. If i don't have sex wit brad then maybe he might dump me but he told me he's an nympho but hes not gonna pressure me sooo im all confused and dont kno what to do!! please help me
*mizz understod*
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? shortiebebe021 answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 4:31 pm: you want to have sex, so just do it. but you're scared to, and that's totally normal. and don't worry about your body, average means it's the AVERAGE which means most people have your type of body!! brad wouldn't have asked you out in the first place if he didn't like you, and he likes you not because you don't have a nice body, but for who you are. he may not even notice, but tons of girls worry about the same thing and they end up getting along FINE. it's not like he's going to dump you just because you have an average body. if you do end up having sex, have him use a condom and you use a diaphragm with spermicides in it. that's pretty much going to prevent pregnancy and STDS but it isn't 100% though. do it only if you're ready. and he said he wouldn't pressure you, so if you don't do it, it should be alright. i hoped i helped..good luck!! :) [ shortiebebe021's advice column | Ask shortiebebe021 A Question ]
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