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Tsunami victom </3
Hi.. My name is April. i am 15 and I live in San Diego.. Both of my parents were traveling when the tsunami hit and they were both killed. i am so stressed out. theres nothing i can do for the pain. i have tried smoking pot and doing other drugs which tends to help for a short time.. but then once i high wears off, i just go back to the same lonly feeling. for the time being i am living with my 3 sisters at my aunts house, but she already has 4 children and they are not the most wealthy family, so its been just all one big struggle. i am failing school because i cant concentrate. all i can think about is my parents and how much they meant to me. my mom was my best friend in the whole entire world.. and tomorrow, May 21st, is her birthday. i dont know how to handle the pain. i have considered suicide .. and if i do do it i am going to do it tomorrow so i can see my mommy on her birthday. so please give me some advice because your the last person i am counting on..
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omg i am so sorry about what happened to your parents. it's hard to take the pain when you lose a loved one, and i'm so sorry. but your mother wouldn't want you to do this for yourself. she's watching you from above, and imagine how she feels when she watches you smoke pot, do drugs, fail school, and committ suicide. your mother would want you to keep on living your life, without her, and do well in school and just be happy. it's hard because you may think there's nothing more to live for because your mother is dead but your mom wouldn't want you to stress out this much. you'll eventually join your mother but for the moment, keep on living your life. your mom wants you to do that. and you still have your sisters, and your aunt left. there are many children in the world who have no family left. homeless children, starving children. and your mother is always with you, even if she is no longer living. please don't committ suicide, your parents wouldn't want you to suffer that fate without fully living your life. let time pass by, it cures over time. to relieve the pain, go see a counselour or therapist and ask them how you can handle the pain without doing bad things (such as suicide and drugs). don't do drugs either, they may seem to make life better but they end up making it so much worse. try to relieve your pain in a healthy, good way. good luck :)
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