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well theres this boy cody he transferred from another school in the same county and hes in 4 of my classes. and i'm really starting to like him we goof around and joke with each other just being teenagers well. he flirts a little but i don't think he likes me just because i'm not a skinny girl and i dont weigh no 120 something. i'm built big.. i got muscle though is half of it cause im 5'11 but anyways. i want to ask him he wants to go watch a movie this weekend. and hes in my next class.. any ideas of what i can say to him should i write him a note and give it to him..he sits infront of me. but PLEASE HELP.. because hes really what i think im looking for.

-lonley-

Become friends with him before you ask him out. If you get to know him better, it'll be easier to ask him out. I think you should ask him in person but if it's easier to do it in a note, then do what's more comfortable for you. And if you're nervous about the way you look, don't be. Guys do care about looks, but it's your personality that will keep him liking you. And you say you guys goof around and joke with eachother, then he must like hanging out with you. :) Good luck

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heyy okay so i really need someones opinion on this .. i really want to get bangs but i'm not sure if they would look bad on me or not .. here's a picture of me: http://good-times.webshots.com/photo/2414912860097533098dVGkQd
i'm the one of the left. what do you think?

Yeah they would probably look cute on you. I suggest side bangs though, they're easier to deal with when you want to grow them out. I have side bangs and love them :) I've heard they're more in style now, too.

http://xf1.xanga.com/425b60746253047113884/b31745144.jpg

http://xd2.xanga.com/2578536a514325767564/b4915933.jpg yeahh thats a random girl with side bangs :)

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Hi
I like this guy
and I think he knows I like him but hes mean to me in front of his friends, all the time.
Like he makes fun of me and It makes me feel really really bad about myself.
At home or out of school without his friends, hes really nice and funny.
But I know he doesnt like me, he likes my friend.
But sometimes he acts like he likes me when we arent at school, but says he doesnt.

Whats wrong with him??

Guys are gay sometimes. The way you're describing him doesn't seem like he's the nicest guy, but then again, all guys act different around their friends. Talk to him about it, and say you don't like when he's mean to you around other people. He also seems like he's giving a lot of mixed signals, which isn't good. Since he's your friend, I think you should be comfortable enough to talk to him about why he's acting kind of weird. Just be yourself with him and see what happens.

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ok well , if you guys are down with "labels" , you can deff say im hardcore emo . so as you can imagine , i like lots of eyeliner . see , my mom wont let me wear makeup to school and im in the 7th grade . its so gay . she doesnt understand that the way i dress and do makeup and do my hair is how i express myself through ways other then talking . any ideas in what i can do to either talk her into it , or different styles that arent too much OR SOMETHING ! thanks in advanced . hanna

Just talk to her about it, and tell her what you said in here (that you're doing this certain style to express yourself). Most moms don't like when their daughters wear a lot of makeup, and she's probably not realizing that you're getting older, so try wearing a little less eyeliner and makeup. She probably think you look pretty either way, but tell her that you like the way you look a lot more when you wear makeup. Give yourself a limit of how much you'll wear every day, and make it a habit so you won't want to wear more of it.

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okay well theres a guy i like and well i dont want to seem to easy to get or something i wanna be a kind of challenge like play hard to get but not to much to scare him off lol any advice on what i should do? much thanks xxxxxx

Well if you catch his eye, smile at him, and then look away. Then do it one more time a few minutes later to make eye contact, so he might get the hint. Try to talk to him and be friendly, and if he talks back like he's interested, flirt by touching his hand when you talk to him. Smile a lot and seem like you're having a good time, but don't try to talk to him all the time. Just talk to him casually so you don't scare him away, and as for the eye contact, do it only a couple times, so he won't think you're totally obsessive. Just be yourself with him.

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in one week two guys have told me that they are in love with me but they both are just good friends..do you think im sending out the wrong message..i do not know what i did to make them love me...but i dont flirt with them or anything like that...im confused..i appreciate your help..bii

You don't have to flirt for them to really like you, but I think you should just be truthful with them. Tell them how you feel about each of them, and try not to feel bad about letting them down easily. Tell them you appreciate them liking you and everything, but you don't have the same feelings for them, and would rather just remain being friends. I really think this will work, so just try it.

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ok. i am so VERY shy!! and i hate it. well most of the times. i mean sometimes i dont mind being shy but other times i hate it!!! so how can i like not become shy1!?!?!?!?!like for my sport that i do EVERYONE is so loud and stuff and im like not. so i feel left out. and im not very outgoing like how do i become more of that tooo? lol i dont know if you can change that... but i was just wondering.

It's not a bad thing to be shy, don't worry about that. When you meet someone new, give them a big smile and introduce yourself. Say random things to start conversations, and make them laugh. I say the word 'sexy' a lot (weird right?) but it makes people laugh and makes them comfortable. Talk about things you have interest in, and if you feel like you've said something dumb, don't think about it. People don't really care if you mess up, and if they find it funny for a second, they'll forget about it later. Just be yourself.

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For sometime Ive been getting mad over tiny things. Like, someone will say something a little insesnitive without thinking and I get upset for hours. Even when they apologise I can't just, like, let it go. Then I get angry over the slightest thing.

How can I control my temper and stop myself from getting blue over everything? Its started to cause BIG problems with my friends and family.

Maybe you have Bi-polar or something..talk to your parents about it, and see if you can get tested. About how to control your anger, just look at the bright side of things, and when you get really angry or upset, try doing what I do:

a)listen to music that describes what you're mad about
b)work out
c)take a jog around your neighborhood, or walk on a treadmill
d)lay down and think
e)call a friend and describe what you're upset about, ask them for thier opinion.
f)don't hold grudges. Forgive them, and try to forget.

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im not really sure that this goes in this category but umm...yeaa. my best friend,lets call him ,enrique, has just lost his virginity. im really worrid for him because i dont think that he was ready fo it. to make matters worse. he just got a phone call from his 'friend' lets call her,tiffany, saying that she doesnt love him anymore. he really got attached and im not sure what to do for him. he used protection and everthing. so im not worried about that. so what im asking is what do i do to comfort him. hes really upset.btw 14/f

He's your bestfriend, so just comfort him by telling him the right girl wouldn't do something like that, and that he deserves someone a lot better. Tell him everything happens for a reason and that you're there for him whenever he needs you.

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ok so if i smush my face against my chest
i have a double chin
and i hate it!
how do i get rid of it!!!

Wow, everyone has a double chin when they do that..and who would really walk around with their head smushed to their chest? Just don't do that in public, and you'll look fine. Double chins are ther because your neck is where your body stores extra fat, and there's not much to do to get rid of it.

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there is this guy that i met about a year ago.
he broke my heart once..
and now he just came back just like that..
he wants to hangout and possible be boyfreind and girlfreind..
im so parinoied that hes going to break my heart again..
part of me says to give it another try.
but part of me says dont take the risk..
what do you think i should do?
PLEASE HELP ME
thank you to all that trys.

I'd give him another chance, but still keep in mind he could hurt you again. Don't be paranoid about it though, maybe he changed and has feelings for you now. Take a chance, because you don't have much to lose. =] Good luck, and leave more info in my inbox if you need more help.

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This kid who might like me sits behind me in one of my classes. I was talking to my friend and I was saying something about him loudly so that he could hear (It was supposed to be a good thing about him) and it came out all wrong and sounded really stupid. Like he's 6'1 or something and what I said made him sound like he was a midget! I was saying the other kid was a midget, not him! But, it came out so that I had said the 6'1 guy was short and weird and the midget was really tall and cool. Then, I wasn't having a good day because of this kid next to him and I was glaring at him then they guy who liked me looked at me and to him it would have looked like I was glaring at him for no reason! The teacher kept calling on me and I answered the wrong question or said the wrong thing about four times! I really don't want him to think I'm some retard now. Do you think he'll still like me? How do I let him know I'm know THAT stupid all the time?!

Most girls get nervous in front of guys and mess up what they say, but don't think a lot of it. From now on, smile at him and be flirty, and don't talk about him to other people just in case somehow what you said gets turned around. Talk to him and compliment him, and if he ever brings up the situation, just tell the truth. Don't be embaressed, I mean, he's just a guy. Guys aren't as cool as they try to portray they are, they get nervous too.

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Okay, so one of my friends is having a B-Day party on Friday. She's inviting a bunch of people. She claims that she is my BFF, and she loves me as a friend so much. The problem is that whenever i go to her parties, she ignores me and hangs around with her other friends, and NEVER talks to me. Should i go ?

Real friends don't act differently in front of other people, but talk to her before you make any assumptions. Tell her that if she's not even going to bother talking to you, then you don't see the reason of going if it's her birthday party, and you're there for her. Tell her everything you feel. You could also talk to your other friends if they're at the party also, and try to keep yourself busy.

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Hi, i m 15 and I have never had a real bf. My freshman yr of high school was full of studying, tests, and not finding any time to really get a guy intersted in me. All through middle school I've always been that shy geeky smart girl that everybody either likes or dont have a problem with. I'm entering sophomore yr and wondering if its too late to change into the person that I want to be. Guys dont really look at me as a gf b/c i kinda get nervous around them and start acting silly/stupid in a way that seems funny to them even when im trying to "flirt". Can I get any advice on how to flirt in a way that seems like flirting in a guys view, and not just my view.

Being fifteen and never having a boyfriend is fine, so don't think you're weird or anything. I sometimes get kind of shy in front of guys too, but then I realize that guys are dumb anyway haha. Some ways to flirt are to just look into this guy's eyes when you're talking to him, and smile big. Touch his arm lightly when you're talking to him, but don't go overboard with the affection. Compliment his looks, or how good he is at one of the sports he does. Guys love when girls smell good, so use a bit of perfume, and a good shampoo. =)

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This may seem like a dumb question, but this picture has been posted publicly on my MySpace and I want to know: does my armpit look hairy or does it just look like a shadow?

In my opinion, it looks fine. Don't worry, even if you think it looks like hair, no one will notice it.

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sometimes, when my period is really heavy blood comes out and it kind of looks like red jelly. is this normal? or should i be concerned? what is it?

It's just a blood clot. Everyone gets it sometimes, don't worry.

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Ok there's this really cute guy at my school I wanna ask him out only Before when I asked a guy out I always got turned down everytime should I change my additude and clothes or just with a better additude? sincerly boycrazy
(16 F)

Don't change yourself for anyone. I've learned that by experience, because it never works. If you start to change yourself, this guy might give you attention and be happy with it, but you won't be happy with yourself. There's someone out there for everyone, no matter who you are. Try and be friends with a guy before you ask him out, maybe these guys are just turning you down because they don't know you well enough. Before you ask this guy out, just be friendly and flirty. Try to find the signs as to if he likes you, and then make your move. Good luck =]

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When I lived with my mom I lived with my grandma also.Well I had A friend who was A guy and I never realy noticed he was crushing on me until someone said something. But I still doubted it until he asked me out. After he did I ran like heck away and began avoiding him. I didnt know how to tell him how I felt. That I didnt like him like that. So one night while I lie in bed I decided the next Monday I would tell him. But durring the weekend my dad got custody of me and my younger brother. My dad hates my grandma so when I moved to my dads he said I could never talk to the kids from there again.But now my guy friend keeps appearing in my dreams. How can I make it stop? please respond ASAP every day without a solution brings another horrible dream! Oh Im a 13 year old girl (12 at the time it happened)(I moved to my dads in March my birthdays in May)

You can't do much about dreams. Dreams happen by what you've seen, and what you're thinking about while you're not sleeping. Keep your mind on other things so your dreams won't be filled with your guy friend, and tell your dad you miss some of the friends from where you used to live. Tell him it has nothing to do with your grandmother, and that you just really miss them and wouldn't mind getting in touch with them again. If he allows you to, talk to this guy and tell him that you didn't mean to hurt him if you did, but you'd rather just have been friends.

If you need anymore help, leave one in my inbox.

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Hey iam 17 and my breasts are a 38 b and since my breasts probally don't stop growing until iam 18-20 are my breasts going to be real big?Iam nervous becouse my mom is a triple d and my sister is a d and my other sister is a 36 c somewhere around there.

Don't obsess over your brest size. Seriously, its not worth it and everyone should be happy with what they have. If you have smaller breasts, then that has a few good things about it. It's good because you can fit into a lot more clothes (tank tops for example). If you have a bigger breast size, guys like bigger breasts haha so think of it that way. I am 13 and a 38C, but I don't think too much of it. Good luck and be happy with what you have =]

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i really need money so my mom suggested babysitting but im not sure wut to do. my uncle said to go around the neighborhood and ask them if they can donate money to the "i need money" foundation

Go around the neighborhood and put flyers in people's mailboxes (I did that when I first started babysitting). Take a babysitting class and learn CPR, parents love when the babysitter REALLY knows how to take care of kids, and plans ahead in case something bad would happen. I took a babysitting class for a week, and I learned a lot. You could charge maybe $5 an hour, but it depends on how many children they have. Talk to the parents about what would be fair with money. Bring a few toys for the kids to play with, or a book that you could read the kids before they go to bed.
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