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Boy trouble.
Hi
I like this guy
and I think he knows I like him but hes mean to me in front of his friends, all the time.
Like he makes fun of me and It makes me feel really really bad about myself.
At home or out of school without his friends, hes really nice and funny.
But I know he doesnt like me, he likes my friend.
But sometimes he acts like he likes me when we arent at school, but says he doesnt.
Whats wrong with him??
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Guys are gay sometimes. The way you're describing him doesn't seem like he's the nicest guy, but then again, all guys act different around their friends. Talk to him about it, and say you don't like when he's mean to you around other people. He also seems like he's giving a lot of mixed signals, which isn't good. Since he's your friend, I think you should be comfortable enough to talk to him about why he's acting kind of weird. Just be yourself with him and see what happens.
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Gah, boys. All boys tend to be really confusing like this. He just sounds like an immature kid to me. Sometimes boys make fun of girls to impress their friends ( do you know if any of his friends don't like you or something? ) or he's just a jerk. Sometimes guys feel they have to treat others differently whenever they're friends or family are around because they're afraid of how those people are going to treat them or react to it.
I would suggest talking to him about it and let him know that it makes you feel really bad about yourself, and he's so nice OUTSIDE of school to you, why can't he be nice to you inside too? See how he responds, and hopefully you guys can resolve everything.
But as for liking him and everything, I know you like him, but I wouldn't try to go after him or I'd just forget him and those kinds of feelings. I wouldn't want to be with him anyway, if he was just going to be rude to me aroudn everyone and then nice infront of just the two of us. You don't need a guy like that. You need a guy who'll like you all the time.
I hope I helped.
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Hey im Taylor. A lot of guys are like that. i think you should act like you dont like him and you should overlook him @ school when he with his friends. I think that he sounds like a jerk and you dont need to try and hook up with some1 like that. I think that he likes you he is just scared to admit it. he may be scared his friends would make fun of him.
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well why dont you confrunt him and tell him what the fuck why r you treating me diffrently when ever your with your friends and when you are with me?? and really a guy that treats u that way dosnt deserve you!!! you can do way better with a guy that will respect you no matter what situation!!
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well i had the same problem with this boy named dushawn hes not mean but he acts funny so what i would do is follow my heart and try to meet somebody else. find a new crush from your friend lexusm
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Either he is confused about his own feelings or immature or both. Don't let him treat you like that when he is around his friends and then reward him with your friendship when the two of you are alone. He needs to make up his mind and you need him to treat you better or not at all. A good time to talk to him about this is when he and you are alone and he is trying to be nice.
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