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I like a boy at school but...
well theres this boy cody he transferred from another school in the same county and hes in 4 of my classes. and i'm really starting to like him we goof around and joke with each other just being teenagers well. he flirts a little but i don't think he likes me just because i'm not a skinny girl and i dont weigh no 120 something. i'm built big.. i got muscle though is half of it cause im 5'11 but anyways. i want to ask him he wants to go watch a movie this weekend. and hes in my next class.. any ideas of what i can say to him should i write him a note and give it to him..he sits infront of me. but PLEASE HELP.. because hes really what i think im looking for.
-lonley-
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Newsflash...guys like girls of all types!!! I can't guarentee that he will be attracted to you, but I do know for fact that many guys who are themselves very good looking and well-built never were into skinny girls and actually preferred curvy big boned girls. The media promotes one idealistic crazy image of anorexia and we girls buy into that crap way too much. The sexiest thing about any woman is her confidence. Don't ever sell yourself short because you are not on the cover of Cosmopolitan. Even the models get air-brushed and sometimes they switch her body parts with another woman's photo to give her the appearance they want. It is insane! Real men prefer real women. Give it a chance, and if this one time does not work out, don't give up on yourself. The guys who are attracted to you are out there...you will find them.
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well i dont think that how you look should have any effect on anything. If he flirts with you then it's obvious that he already has some interest in you, so i think you should go for it. Writing a note now i dont know about all that..I think you should talk to him face to face or over the phone when noone is listening so yeah in private...good luck =]
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I think that you should really just try to get to know him. Ask him for his screenname and just start talking to him. This is my best advice for you. Don't expect results as soon as possible. It may take awhile, but you can try.
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Even many girls don't think so, a lot of guys are attracted to girls who may be considered overweight. But you shouldn't date someone only for their looks, and you shouldn't think its impossible for someone to like you or even fall in love with you just because you don't like the way you look. The best kind of guy to be is one who likes you for your personality. As for asking him, do what you feel most comfortable with. Some people are better talking to people through writing. Others just tend to be confident, which helps them to take risks with being afraid, such as asking out guys. Don't be nervous when you ask him, despite the method, and try not to over to react to his answer. Remain calm, no matter what he says.
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ask him to the movies in a relaxed way, like "hey, wanna catch a movie this weekend?" so that your going as friends but your also alone, so you have alot of oppourtunity. don't write him a note, because i'll bet you'll look back a month from now and regret it. (i've had the experience). its better just to deal with it in person. Cody will like you no matter your size if you show him your personality, just have fun.
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Become friends with him before you ask him out. If you get to know him better, it'll be easier to ask him out. I think you should ask him in person but if it's easier to do it in a note, then do what's more comfortable for you. And if you're nervous about the way you look, don't be. Guys do care about looks, but it's your personality that will keep him liking you. And you say you guys goof around and joke with eachother, then he must like hanging out with you. :) Good luck
-mystical_breeze
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