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my boyfriend, and ex boyfriend..
okay, sorry this is a little long and confusing.. but anything will help!
anyways, okay well me and my ex boyfriend had dated for a little over a year and a half on and off. then i broke up with him because he was a jerk and while i was dating him, i started liking this other kid, lets name him john.and john started hanging out with me and my two best friends and thier boyfriends. and i broke up with, lets name him nick, and about two days later john asked me out. i said yes and yesterday was two months.(by the way, i'm 12/f and both nick and john are 13/m, and year above me in school if that does anything..) but lately, me and nick have started talking again and i discovered i still have feelings for him. don't get me wrong, i still like "john" alot, but i don't love him like i do a little still, nick.i mean, "john" treats me better than i've ever been treated by a guy really, and "nick" didn't treat me NEARLY as well but yet i still have feelings for i him. well last night i asked nick if he had feelings for me and he said no.and my friend talked to him and told him i still have feelings for him. and he promised he wouldn't tell anyone and told my friend that he doesn't have feelings for me right now.but then last night i had a dream that "john" cheated on me with my friend at school right in front of me and stuff and i punched him and ran off crying and then went into a hotel thing that everyone from school was staying at ( remember, this part was just a dream) and one kid said that john said he wasn't going back inside until i did. and so on... but the point is, cheating. i feel bad becuase john promised me awhile ago he would never cheat on me and i feel like the word cheating is coming in play... from me. i don't know what to do.i mean, i didn't tell nick that i loved him or anything and everything that was said to him was online and i don't know. i'm so confused. and i feel even WORSE because "john" didn't do anything wrong and yeah. someone please give me advice! thanks so much in advance!
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hm. well first off, you probably had that dream of john cheating on you because you might feel like you're cheating on him with your ex, because you think you stil have feelings for him.
no..john didn't do anything wrong..that we know.
the best advice i can give you..is stay with John. You obviously like him, and it sounds like he likes you. and honestly, if nick treated you like crap the first time, why should you give him another chance? but yeah..
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I think that because you are dating John, you shouldn't cheat on him, and use him to get over Nick. Be true to him, and don't jump to conclusions. Until he actually cheats on you, theres no reason to break up with him. Especially since Nick doesnt have feelings for you anymore. Just continue dating John, and if for some reason things between the two of you don't work out, and you want to date Nick again after that, then go for it. But life is better if you try to make the least conflict possible, and if you didnt like dating John then life would be much different, but if you are happy, then life is good. Just keep on dating John and see where that goes, you don't want to have regrets for dumping him do you? I hope I helped alittle bit, if you have any other questions, feel free to ask! Lots of Love,
Angie91
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